Why is it normal for a man in his 30s to always recall his elementary school days?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Normal. Some people like nostalgia, some people like to imagine the future, human nature.

    First of all, nostalgic people value feelings, value the bits and pieces of the past, and are kind people.

    Secondly, nostalgia is a thought process of nostalgia and nostalgia for things in the past. Maybe it's nostalgic for family affection, maybe it's about the vicissitudes of things, and the types of nostalgia are different, and the emotions are different.

    Finally, nostalgic people may want to escape from their existing life, like the past, and have a simpler personality.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is normal for men in their thirties to recall their elementary school years, and they are experiencing a turning point in their lives at this age, and in the face of the pressure of life and work, it is natural to think of the happy times when they were children, and they must think that elementary school was a very happy time to reminisce often.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Explain that there are very regrettable and regrettable things in your primary school years that you have always remembered, this is something that will be encountered on the road of life, and it is also the treasure of your life.

    Because nostalgia is a manifestation of how you feel life, it allows you to feel the distance between the past and the present, and to think about life and yourself. But even if the past is beautiful, it is just a conversation after tea and drinking, you should live in the present and use the past as a mirror to guide yourself forward.

    Hope mine can help you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Normal, it means that he attaches great importance to feelings, maybe there are many unsatisfactory places now, and he needs to find something to comfort himself, Memories are the concern and obsession with the past, and a certain experience may not be forgotten for a lifetime. So there's nothing strange about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It should be that I feel that at my age, there is nothing to achieve, nothing is useful, and I often miss my childhood.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Normal Everyone will, whether men and women are busy or when they have nothing to do, they will remember the past, and the relative reality of the pressure is that the happiness of childhood is carefree.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe it's more nostalgic, people's thinking logic is different, some people are very nostalgic, stop in their childhood, can't extricate themselves, immerse themselves in it, and enjoy themselves.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because when I was a child, I was the most memorable

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    For a man, she always thinks back to the previous student days, which also proves that his heart is not mature, and he is still stuck in the previous construction, his psychology is a lack of self-confidence, no confidence in what he does, the Great Wall recalls the past, when he was in school, he was carefree, and there was no pressure, but when he entered the society, it was different, and all kinds of pressure in the society would make him breathless, so he and she had this psychology, and wanted to return to the feeling of childhood. This is also the role of the heart, you should communicate more with the people around you, face the reality, and there will be some good development in life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When I was young, I always wanted to go to a distant place, and when I was old, I always wanted to go back to my hometown. When I was young, I always wanted to rush forward, and when I was old, I always wanted to look back. People often reminisce about their childhood, reminiscing about the past.

    Not only because of the beauty of that time, but also because there is no going back to the past. The past that can't be returned to is beautiful, sweet, and regretful. It's because of regret that I want to remember more.

    If you have a time machine that can travel to the time and space you want to go to at any time, I think the desire to remember will be much less. However, the time machine, at least for the moment, is just a conjecture. When we were children, life had just begun, and there was nothing to recall.

    I don't remember the experience of infancy. When you were in elementary school, you would think back to the time when you went to kindergarten. When you go to middle school, you often think back to kindergarten and elementary school.

    When I go to college, I think about the past. Memories slowly fill our minds, and we can recall more and more. As the days passed, time passed minute by minute, and people gradually grew old.

    The places I've been, the people I've gotten, the food I've eaten, and the things I've experienced are all in my memory. The older you get, the more experiences you have, the more memories you have. The older you get, the more you like to eat what you ate when you were a child.

    Taste is the most likely to evoke memories in us. Have you noticed that the food that we didn't take for granted when we were children will be ecstatic when we eat it now? Not to mention the hometown food that I loved to eat when I was a child.

    Especially every year for the Chinese New Year, the circle of friends is people's hometown food. What I ate when I was a child, there is a taste of home, a taste of childhood, and a taste of memory. The older I get, the more I like to reminisce.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When people reach middle age, they always can't forget nostalgia, nostalgia, and nostalgia, which is human nature. At this time, if you want to be beautiful, you can only reminisce; If you want to make yourself happy, you can only dream, there is no other way, and there is nothing else to ask for!

    People are not plants and trees who can be ruthless, people who are not saints and sages can be without fault, nostalgic for the beautiful, sorry for regrets. If you don't have a family, you don't know the price of firewood and rice, if you don't raise children, you don't know the kindness of your parents, how can you show the flat land if you don't go to the mountains, how can you know the truth in the world without going through the wind and rain. The world is unpredictable, I always want to live again, I always want to have the era of my parents, I always want to have more warmth, I always remember the beauty of the past, and I always feel that there is warmth in my heart.

    Childhood is the most beautiful time of life, the happiest moment, and a lingering memory.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because childhood is always happy, you don't have to think about a lot of things every day, just eat, drink and have fun, but it is different in middle age, because you have to face more responsibilities and things, maybe there is a lot of pressure every day, but you can't give up.

    When I was a child, I would be coquettish when I was unhappy, or cry, and venting at that time was also a kind of happiness, but when I reached a certain age, I had to bear it silently and couldn't vent at will.

    Everyone will miss their childhood because happy times are always desirable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because those experiences that come when a person is a child always come up when we need it, or when we see a certain scene in life, either to make us feel happy and happy, or to make us feel pain and sadness.

    In life, there will always be many scenes, so that we can't help but think of our former selves, remembering the experience when we were children, maybe seeing a child playing, or hearing a sentence by chance, it may arouse the nostalgia in our hearts.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because these people feel that they were very happy when they were young, then if they were very happy when they were young, it is very important, because a complete childhood can save the whole life of the future unhappiness, indicating that this group of people who miss their childhood, they may not be particularly happy now, then they will want to return to the impulse of childhood, after all, childhood is so carefree For example, I myself have a carefree childhood, which is the most beautiful stage of my life. Although the material life is not particularly sufficient, I live a happy life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Many people think that when people reach 30, they will have a belly, why, because after 30, people's digestive system is not as fast as before, so it is easy to gain weight! The same principle, to thirty, people due to the pressure of life, will lead to abnormal mental tension, every day the nerves want to have a string card owner, plus to support the family, physical strength will also be high, especially men, just like you said, miss when I was a child, we can rely on not many people at this age, most of them rely on themselves silently, we miss the carefree when we were children.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I feel like I'm getting old, I miss my childhood life, the pressure of life, and I'm really afraid that I'm getting old, and I don't dare to imagine becoming an old man. So we miss our childhood, and we just want to miss the carefree time of the past, which is used to relieve the physical and mental exhaustion of the present.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As the child grows up, watching him go from toddler to babbling, you will often find your own shadow from him, and you will unconsciously miss your past. When I think back to my childhood, I can escape reality for a while, as if I have returned to that era of ignorance. The second is to think about how good it would be if everything could be changed all over again, and I could choose again, but the wheels of history are rolling forward, and there is no turning back.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The main thing is that we have entered the current society, and in order to better protect ourselves, we have finally succeeded in becoming the self we once hated! Flattery, sinister people's hearts, interests in the way, being a man with a mask, and telling lies are enough to want to return to your former self! Once when I was a child.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Friends before the age of thirty, go and toss hard. After the age of 30, life has been basically set, there can be no problems in all aspects, and you can't afford to fail. When you have nothing to do, you can recall the past, and you must be strong to move towards the future.

    Because we were children with 0 pressure, the meal came to open our mouths. Because we don't intrigue when we are kids. Because we were innocent as children.

    Because we had a few friends when we were kids. These can only be said to have been! If you want to live, you have to learn "these" skills, so you can only dream of the past, we all lived to die at 25 and be buried at the age of 70.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Sad, really sad. After the age of 32, there is an old man, he is close to the sixtieth birthday, and his physique is not dragged down, but the old man with cerebral thrombosis and paralysis cannot do without his children. Do you think he will remember the happiness of his parents when he was a child, without wind and rain.

    I have been listening to "Dad" for a few years, and I feel the hard work of being a parent, and sometimes I really want to change, "Son, how about I call you Dad?" "When you are busy, you are comparing yourself with your peers, and when you are idle, you will compare along the timeline, and people with strong imagination dream of the future, and most people will habitually miss and miss the things when they were young.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The career is stereotyped, it should be smooth sailing, but no one dares to relax. In this anxious era, work needs to go all out, and in his spare time, he has to compete to be a young man with an oblique pole, who can predict that his career is to eat youth, I really want to move a pony, write 6 hours of math homework, and have a carefree teenage time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since people reach middle age, they will be able to experience the intermediate crisis, and they will face all kinds of pressures every day. Live a life of old and young. In the midst of this multitude of pressures, we yearn and miss a stress-free period.

    When is there no stress? Of course, when I was a child, I lived a carefree and heartless life. Happy and stress-free.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Someone said: "What I can't erase in my childhood is the days at my grandmother's house, and my mother always takes me to my grandmother's house in the countryside every summer vacation in elementary school." I often remember the lush woods in front of my grandmother's house, which was a great place to escape the heat in the summer.

    We often look for that big rock, and the place where we used to sit is very smooth. ”

    Someone said: "I always keep reminiscing about the past, reminiscing about the good times, dreaming in fantasy, when I am about to be 30 years old, I am still like a child, love and hate, emotional face, why do I always want to go back to the past, back to the best times, maybe because life is not good enough now, maybe because I am too tired now." ”

    The former self longs for the future, and the current self reminisces about the past. Think about it, in fact, people can never cherish the moment to seize the opportunity, because they are always confused and confused, so that they miss many things, many people.

    If you always look back on the past now, it means that you feel that the present is not good, the past is always looking forward to growing up, always thinking about seizing the next opportunity to start again, but always knowing how to cherish it when you lose it, recalling the past happiness has turned the page, and some things cannot be retained.

    When we recall the past, the picture is always in the summer, as if the hot summer has infinite possibilities, at that time we are like the sun in the sky, scorching hot, penetrating the layers of shade that cover the sky and the sun, shining on every inch of land, feeling that they will be forever young, the future is immeasurable, and they will definitely make a difference in the vast world, in fact, recalling the past is to gain new strength.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Generally speaking, if a person always reminisces about the past, it means that the person is old. ......Only older people will always remember the past......

    Of course, there are also young people who recall ...... pastThe scene of that year was very impressive, so it will be unforgettable for a long time, so I will keep recalling. ......This is also the case.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A person always recalls the past, which means that he is not happy at all now, and feels that the present is not as happy as before.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you always live in memories. People will be tired. There is no sense of happiness to be found.

    You should live in the moment. The eyes look forward, and the road moves forward. There is no need to look back.

    Try to live your life to the fullest. In addition to work. You can also enrich your own.

    Amateur life. In a word. Keep yourself busy.

    No. Free time to think wildly. Grow yourself.

    Arm yourself. Make yourself the pride of others.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What's the point of a person always reminiscing about the past? If something happens to you, make him want to go back in time. I want him to miss it more.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Everyone can't stand still, it takes a while for people to get used to a new environment, and escaping will only make the situation worse.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Learn to adapt, everyone around you who is in junior high school has this process, adapt as soon as possible.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The only way to go, let's study hard.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think auto mechanics are very promising and lucrative!

    There is no high or cheap work, as long as you feel that it is suitable, now learning auto repair is indeed a good choice for many children who have not received higher education, and I will briefly analyze why auto repair is worth learning:

    First, the current demand for special types of work is strong and in short supply; The high salary of skilled workers has always been recognized by everyone, it is true that because of the current college students everywhere, there are really too few skilled technical operators, skilled workers are not only high wages but also very sought-after, if you study auto repair, a period of time to learn something, master a certain technology, then it is not a problem to find a high-paying job;

    Second, with the popularization of the concept of family cars, the number of cars in China's urban and rural areas has been increasing, taking my hometown as an example, young men and women almost all have to buy cars when they get married, which has become a popular trend, which means that a large number of cars need to be maintained and repaired, so from this level you are also very promising in the auto repair industry;

    Third, in fact, the state also has subsidies and support measures for skilled workers, if you choose to enter a vocational and technical school to study auto repair, there may be state subsidies, many vocational colleges are also free of tuition and subsidies; Even if you go to the repair shop to work as an apprentice, there will be a basic salary and subsidy, so you can study with confidence; My cousin is an auto repair who did not finish high school and dropped out of school, and now he can repair from family cars to trucks and buses, and opened a small auto repair company in our local county, from car maintenance to repair, he is very professional, and the customers are also very stable, and the income is higher than which university we are

    However, this means that there is a long and arduous road to go, and may be often scolded by the master at the beginning of learning, and the working environment is not high, you need to adapt to it

    In general, I am very optimistic about auto repair, after all, where there is a car, there must be maintenance, so it is convenient! But the car maintenance workers who are really good and willing to work hard will really have a future, otherwise it is difficult to master the technology and find a satisfactory job if they give up halfway, or learn every day! The auto repair market will not be saturated for a long time, and it still needs a lot of technical talents to enter, so I think it is a good choice to study and engage in the auto repair industry!

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