Why are some people happy and some worried about the cancellation of the two child restriction?

My friend is pregnant with a second child, and I feel panicked, the first child is a boy, and I am afraid that it will be too much pressure to have another boy or boy, but the old man in the family is very happy, and I feel that there are more children in the family. Different angles naturally lead to different attitudes.

Who will take care of the second child is a problem, and more and more women are becoming independent, and they are willing to go out to work and work hard in the world, rather than facing the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war who is at home full-time and seduces and fights. Nannies are not so reassuring, in fact, most of our families have average economic conditions, in today's skyrocketing prices and materialistic desires, only wages do not rise, and many families cannot afford to hire nannies.

I have always wanted to have a second child, because I have a more traditional concept, I always think that more children can be more blessed, and my husband has never let go of having a second child, his reason is that raising two children is too much economic pressure or mental pressure, so life is too tiring, and he thinks that one child is enough.

For people with better family conditions, opening up the second child is a good thing, but for some people with average economic conditions, opening the second child is actually not that important.

Because some people want to have a second child, these people will be happy, but some families can't afford the cost of a second child, so they will be sad.

Now the cost of having children is too high, whether it is a first- or second-tier city or a third, fourth, fifth or sixth-tier city, housing prices remain high, how many people are running for a house all their lives, and in addition to the current comparison of food and clothing, both boys and girls can't afford to raise it, and boys will be even more stressed. ‍‍

Rich people, it doesn't matter if you cancel it or not, it's a big deal to pay a fine, and it's the same for poor people, the difference is that it's a big deal for you to take the child away, the fine is not there anyway, and the embarrassment is the middle class: you have to think about it when you have one, and then you can't imagine it, canceling the second child actually doesn't have much practical significance, how to make the masses dare to give birth and dare to raise this is a question worth pondering. ‍‍

It was hard to see that the eldest was going to kindergarten at the age of 3, but suddenly the two-child policy was liberalized, and I gave birth to another one without thinking too much. Now I suddenly found a problem, I have derailed from society, and I can't do anything except cook and watch the children every day. When the second child goes to kindergarten, he is 35 years old, how to find a job, think about it, it's big.

Every time I hear Dabao crying sadly, I regret giving birth to a second child, regretting that I am not fully prepared to deal with a series of problems after giving birth to a second child. It's just that there is no turning back in life, life has to go on, I have to continue to move forward, constantly adjust my mentality, try to find time to accompany Dabao every day, and see the smile on Dabao's face gradually increase, no matter how hard my mother is, it is worth it. ‍‍

It is normal to cancel the two-child restriction, some people are happy and some are worried. However, I would say that the lifting of the second child restriction will have little effect on most people. From the beginning of the implementation of family planning in China to the full liberalization of the second child, it goes without saying that the vast number of rural areas have basically given birth to the second child, or it is in progress.

In the city, from double independence to single second child, the eligible children have basically been born. Women of childbearing age have become the main force in giving birth to a second child after 80, some of them have already paid child support to give birth to a second child, and some have no conditions, and the post-90s are still a child, and their wishes depend entirely on their parents.

I don't regret it, it was because I gave birth to a second child that I saw the true face of my mother-in-law's family! The first child was a daughter, and then the second child was released! I want a second child on the side, saying that I will help you take it while you are young, a child is lonely, whether it is male or female, it is good to have another child, and the country has liberalized the policy!

At that time, I also felt that a child was lonely, anyway, the unit efficiency was not good, so I resigned to have a child at home, the second child is still a girl, and my mother-in-law Erbao basically did not help me with it, and her attitude has completely changed! One is to give birth to a girl, and the other is to lose a job! He also said in front of Dabao:

My aunt can give birth to a younger brother, so let my mother give birth to a younger brother for you! When I heard this, I was angry.

I just want to say that the "single tax" will be introduced immediately, and I am still entangled in whether the second child is happy or not, or making more money is the last word, and everything is not a matter with money.

The main reason for the implementation of the two-child policy is to deal with the problem of population aging and demographic imbalance. With the development of social economy, the aging of the population is intensifying, the labor force is decreasing, and the pressure on social security such as pensions and medical security is also increasing. Therefore, the implementation of the two-child policy aims to increase the number of births, alleviate the problem of population aging and labor shortage, and promote the balanced development of the population structure.

In addition, the implementation of the two-child policy can also bring some economic and social benefits. For example, increasing the number of people can promote the expansion of the consumer market, improve the competitiveness of the labor market, and promote economic growth. At the same time, the two-child policy can also bring certain educational and cultural benefits, and promote the stability and development of the family and society.

In my opinion, the real demand for labor is the root of the two-child policy, and only with enough people can do such a big business better.

The two-child policy is open, and there are more and more people who want a second child, but now with more and more people who want a second child, people find that their economic pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and they are not very able to raise a second child, so this phenomenon is becoming less and less, whether it is the cost of giving birth to a child, or the cost of education after the child grows up, ordinary people cannot afford it, so there are not many families who choose to have a second child.

Because the cost of making an appointment for a baby is too high now, and the cost of education is also very high, and the life of young people is very stressful, and there are elderly people who need to be taken care of, and there is no one to take care of them after giving birth, which is also a very important problem.

First of all, because young people are now under greater pressure to get married, they need a bride price, they need to buy a house, they need to repay the mortgage and car loan, so the pressure to have children after buying a house will be greater, and in the future, they will consider marrying their children, the cost will be even greater, and many young people choose to avoid having a second child.