What is the reason for being beaten and scolded by my parents? How bizarre is it?

Yesterday, I took my children to dance initiation class, and they were all three to five years old. There was a child who always didn't cooperate, and the teacher brought it out to the parents and told them to coax. Unexpectedly, the mother opened her mouth to reprimand, and then pulled the child's braid hard, the child's back hit the ground, and his head hit the floor with a "bang", and then picked up the backpack next to him and smashed it on the child, smashing it seven or eight times, and the surrounding people reacted and pulled.

The mother made a fuss and didn't allow others to pull the rack, saying that her child could be disciplined as much as she wanted, and whoever pulled it would take it back to raise ......

In the past, it was said that filial piety came out under the stick? If you are not filial to yourself, no one wants to meddle in your own affairs.

When I went out shopping with my family, my dad asked me what I was eating at noon, whether it was McDonald's or some high-end restaurant, I was stunned for a moment, and when it came to ordering a bowl of noodles at any restaurant, my dad was also stunned for a moment, and slapped me with his backhand and pulled me home, saying "I have never seen such a boring person" while walking

I played the piano and played a wrong note, and even the teacher didn't hear it, and I didn't feel it, but they felt it and beat me up.

My uncle's brother came, and I was doing my homework in the room, and I was beaten up because I didn't come out to entertain.

My parents quarreled and I was doing my homework in the bedroom. They came in angry and threatened to divorce me and take me away. I cried and didn't leave, I was beaten.

When I was in elementary school, my bangs were covered and my eyes were uncomfortable, so I always blinked a few times involuntarily, and my mother's reaction was very intense: "Hurry up and don't blink for me, if you grow up and still be like this, if you don't seduce people, others will be able to wink for you to seduce him!" Later, in order to correct this "bad habit", my mother tied me to a pillar at the entrance of the village with hemp rope, and whipped me with a belt in front of everyone.

Helping parents with housework, being considered lazy and not doing homework was beaten, and not helping parents with housework was considered lazy and beaten.

On the Qingming Festival in the third grade of primary school, I squatted next to my father and watched him throw paper money into the fire one by one, thinking it was fun, and said eagerly"Burn me some, burn me some"My dad was so shocked that he slapped me on the head and almost knocked me out"How to talk to you! I wasn't beaten too badly, and I learned to speak well.

Went to the grave as a child. Looking at the strong and timeless font on the tombstone, I felt a burst of worship in my heart. I want to learn, and when I get home, I will put my little notebook and begin to write majestically, and unify the form of the name of the tomb.

When my mom found out about me, I wrote not only the names of the whole family, but also the names of all the aunts. Hit until I can't it. After that, I never wanted to practice calligraphy again.

Because my grades have always been in the top few in school, I often get scholarships. Once, after getting a scholarship, I spent ten dollars to buy some pens and notebooks. When my mother found out, she went crazy and scolded me for not listening to her and spending money without reporting.

Beat and scolded, and asked me why I spent money without her permission. What can I say, how could I imagine that she would have such a big reaction if I spent ten dollars on pen and paper.

I was asked to race with boys, twisted my ankle, was scolded and beaten, and said that I was a "wreck", and later I learned that I had broken a bone.

Legal analysis: It is not filial piety, it is not easy for parents to raise us, they don't expect us to achieve much, they just want us to live well, and it is really wrong to abuse our parents.

Legal basis: Article 1067 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where parents fail to perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

In our country, according to the provisions of the criminal law, if the son insults his parents, it is not a crime, so he cannot be punished by criminal law, but if he does not support the elderly, then a certain amount of sanctions may be required.

First of all, as an adult, you should have the ability to think independently, as well as the ability to distinguish between right and wrong. Repeatedly abusing the father and calling the mother shows that the adult lacks morality, and this can be seen that the adult's parents lack and fail to educate their children. Secondly, no matter how many parents call Tuanye, they also pull you up with hard work, you should not be ungrateful, and speak disrespectfully and insult your parents many times.

The Chinese nation has always regarded respecting the old and loving the young as our traditional virtues, and aside from other things, parents are at least our elders, and respecting our elders is what we should do.

Legal analysis: Publicly insulting others, his behavior violates the provisions of Article 42 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on Public Security Administration Punishments, is an illegal act, and should bear public security administrative responsibility in accordance with the law. The case may be reported to the public security organs and the perpetrator may be punished.

Legal basis: Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China" Article 246: Those who openly insult others or fabricate facts to slander others by violence or other methods that are purely key-based, and the circumstances are serious, are to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, short-term detention, controlled release, or deprivation of political rights.

The crimes in the preceding paragraph are to be dealt with only if they are told, except where they seriously endanger social order and national interests.

Where the conduct provided for in the first paragraph is carried out through information networks, and the victim complains to the people's court, but it is truly difficult to provide evidence, the people's court may request that the public security organs provide assistance.

In the eyes of parents, children are always children, no matter what you do right or wrong, they will always think that you have not done a good job, not done right, or some old people are always worried about their children, and always want to praise Zheng with their own will to make children obey, if it backfires, they will get angry. Then there are parents who want their children to become Jackie Chan and always hope that their children can get ahead, if they are not satisfied, they will be angry and resentful, hoping to understand the hearts of their parents, they do not have any malicious intent. It's just that the way of expression and communication is wrong.

They don't know how to bury cherry blossoms and respect children, they don't understand children's thoughts, they will say that they are useless, they have no opinions, they don't listen to them, they say yes, they don't understand the rules, they don't understand things, they quarrel with the elderly, and they make the children right, which is very difficult. At this time, you have to think that your parents have not received much education after all, do not understand the way of education, and think that beating and scolding is the best medicine for education, and the greater the strength of speaking, the better the effect. No way, you have to learn to communicate with them, bend to reason, they don't listen at the time but will reflect afterwards, you have to tell your reasoning, let them know or taste your right and wrong.

You have to cheer up, don't always be depressed in such an environment, work hard at work, unite comrades, and make achievements to show your parents, you are capable, you must believe that you will handle these things well, and sometimes you will be more serious in exchange for swallowing your anger, you try to resist once, and loudly express your grievances and dissatisfaction, which may make your parents angry, but will become important to you and respect you.