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Marriage is a lifelong event, and you need to make all kinds of preparations before getting married, and I think it is necessary for girls to save money for marriage.
In today's society, women who are still financially independent can stand on their feet. It takes a lot of money to get married, most men and women will have a stable job, buy a house, buy a car, and choose to get married only after having a stable living environment. But when two people live together, they will inevitably need to buy some things to enrich their lives, and they can't buy anything, so they have to ask their boyfriend for money, and some things can be bought by themselves.
Unless some men have very wealthy families, and men are also very capable, caring, and will take care of their other half, the girl does not have to worry about not being able to buy what she wants to buy because she has no money, because she has an almighty boyfriend. But most of us still see this kind of scene in film and television dramas, and there is basically no such thing in real life, and we still have to live a real life. It is also necessary for girls to prepare some money for unexpected needs when they get married, and sometimes use part of their savings to buy a wedding gift for the other half, which will also make each other's feelings stronger.
Of course, there are many parents on both sides now, they do not have the ability to do it for their children's marriage, those parents do not have the ability to buy a house and a car for their children in full, at this time they still need to make money for themselves to support themselves, and girls are very necessary to save money for marriage, and they can't let the man carry the burden alone.
I think if my future marriage requires me to provide a financial support, I will save money for marriage, after all, our marriage still needs to be run by ourselves.
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Although I am not a girl, from what I have seen and what I have met, most girls do not save money for marriage.
Many girls think that marriage is something that men should be solely responsible for, such as buying a house, buying rings, buying festive supplies, decorating a new house, holding a wedding, holding a banquet, inviting etiquette, etc., most girls think that these should be done by the man, and they don't need to pay a penny themselves, they just need to wait quietly until that day to participate.
They don't care how much money you spend, whether you can afford to spend so much, they just care about satisfying their own ideas, they won't fund their boyfriend's wedding if they have money, they won't save a penny before they get married, anyway, they think that the man has to do everything well before marriage, of course, there are a small number of girls who will save some money before marriage, because they know that there are many places where they need to use money before marriage, and there are many places where they need to spend money after marriage, if they put all the pressure on their boyfriends, wait until they get married, the life of his own small family will be poor. Nowadays, many families do not have much financial ability to hold all the weddings, and generally spend decades of savings after the wedding, and some may have to borrow money to hold the wedding. Therefore, for those girls who understand things and know life, they will also save money before marriage, and give the money to their husbands when they get married or for their families after marriage.
Now getting married will cost hundreds of thousands of hundreds of thousands, which is really stressful for us men, if the girlfriend saves money for marriage, not only can it reduce some economic pressure, but also the parents-in-law will think that this daughter-in-law is a sensible and good woman who runs the house, and it can also play a good role in improving the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
From the perspective of our men and from the perspective of the family after marriage, I still think that it is better for girls to save money for marriage.
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This depends on the concept of personal life, if you prefer to like financial management, most girls will save money, not only for marriage, but also a long-term plan.
There are also some girls who like to spend all their money on themselves, in order to improve themselves, or to dress up, and enjoy life, they will not save money for marriage, not only do they not save money for marriage, but they can't think of saving money at all. <>
Personally, I started saving money silently, and the reason for saving money was also to consider getting married in the future.
Although I don't have a boyfriend now, it's important to think about these issues because I don't know what my future boyfriend will look like. It's impossible to like someone because he doesn't have money to give up, and I hope I don't choose a future partner because of material things. When you get married, girls want stability and want to have their own house, but there is such a thing as a house, of course, it's good to have it, and you can't just give up the person you like.
Think about the pressure of life now, it's okay to live alone, once you get married, you need to spend more money, and it is impossible to put all the pressure of life on the man. It's not easy for everyone to live, so let's be considerate of each other, so I'm starting to save money now, not only for getting married, but also thinking more about long-term life. Now start working hard, work hard to save money, do a little bit of financial management, even if you really like a poor egg in the future, you have the confidence, I believe that two people can slowly live a good life with hard work.
I think a lot, I will take these aspects into account, saving money depends on personal personality and living habits. My personal example may not be representative of everyone, but there are still many girls who have considered marriage in order to save money for the future, so there are still many girls who save money for marriage.
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I don't think girls save money to get married, because there is no concept of the cost of marriage for girls. When getting married in China, the man generally pays more, so for the girl, there is no sense of money crisis when getting married.
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Deposit means the temporary transfer or deposit of funds or currency with a bank or other financial institution, or the temporary transfer of the right of use to a bank or other financial institution, under the condition of retention of title. First of all, article 18 of the Marriage Law stipulates that the pre-marital property of one party shall be the property of one of the spouses, i.e., the pre-marital personal savings shall belong to his or her personal property. Article 19 of the Judicial Interpretation I of the Marriage Law stipulates that the property owned by one of the spouses shall not be converted into the joint property of the husband and wife due to the continuation of the marital relationship, unless otherwise agreed by the parties.
Therefore, the personal savings before marriage do not change due to the registration of marriage between the husband and wife, and who owns or owns before marriage. How to protect premarital deposits: 1. Both parties sign a premarital property agreement, and the bank deposit is agreed as follows in the prenuptial agreement
The name of the bank account, the opening bank, the account number, and the amount of money in the account are owned by the man or the woman before marriage, and belong to the man and the woman. The following points should be paid attention to when writing the prenuptial agreement: (1) it must be signed on the basis of equality and voluntariness between two people; (2) the terms signed must be feasible; (3) There shall be no fraud, coercion, unfairness, or taking advantage of others' danger in the clause; (4) All clauses must comply with national laws and regulations, and the above conditions can be met, 2. Print out the deposit voucher.
Legal basis: Article 18 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China shall be the property of one of the husband and wife in any of the following circumstances: (1) the premarital property of one party; (2) Medical expenses, living allowances for persons with disabilities, and other expenses received by one side as a result of bodily injury; (3) Property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife; (4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side; (5) Other property that shall belong to one party.
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How to dispose of a woman's premarital property:
A woman's pre-marital savings are the woman's personal property, which will not become joint property after marriage because of marriage.
2. For the sake of avoiding disputes in the futureAn agreement can be signed by both spouses to confirm that the deposit is the woman's pre-marital property and the woman's personal property.
Property that belongs to you and can be disposed of by yourself
Article 18 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China In any of the following circumstances, it shall be the property of one of the husband and wife:
1. One party's pre-marital property;
2. Medical expenses, living allowances for the disabled, and other expenses obtained by one party due to bodily injury;
3. The property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife;
4. Daily necessities for one party;
5. Other property that should belong to one party.
Article 19. Husband and wife may agree that property acquired during the marriage and property acquired before marriage shall be separately or jointly owned or partly separately and partly jointly owned. The agreement shall be in writing.
Where there is no agreement or the agreement is unclear, the provisions of articles 17 and 18 of this Law apply. (Citation: here.)
Ten. Article 7 and Article 18 means that during the existence of the relationship between husband and wife, most of the property is in common, and the property before marriage and some other eligible properties belong to one party).
6. The agreement between the husband and wife on the property acquired during the marriage relationship and the property before the marriage shall be binding on both parties.
7. If the husband and wife agree that the property acquired during the existence of the marital relationship shall belong to each other, and the debts owed by the husband or wife to the outside world are known to the third party, the debts owed by the husband or wife shall be paid off with the property owned by the husband or the wife.
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First of all, you need to respect your boyfriend's decision. It was a sane decision and a good thing that he wanted to save up for his own house. At the same time, if he doesn't want to spend too much money between the two of you, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you or doesn't care about you.
Everyone's values and lifestyles may be different, and we should respect each other's choices.
Secondly, you can communicate openly and honestly with your male ruler friends. You can tell him that you understand and support his decision to save money to buy a house, but you also want to share some life details and experiences with him. Suggest low-cost or low-cost activities, such as cooking, watching movies, walking, and so on.
Through this communication, let your boyfriend understand that what you need is attention and companionship, not necessarily money.
Finally, you can also consider your financial plan and lifestyle to avoid being overly dependent on your boyfriend's financial support. While maintaining self-independence and having the ability to independently manage and help others, you will also be more confident, stronger, and more capable of facing all kinds of situations that may arise.
In short, in this case, the best way is to communicate openly and honestly, respecting each other's choices, while also maintaining your independence and financial means as much as possible. In this way, a truly balanced and healthy relationship can be achieved.
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I believe that whether there is a bride price and a dowry for marriage should depend on the willingness of the parties and cultural traditions, and there is no fixed rule that "if there is a bride price, there should be a dowry".
The bride price and dowry are traditionally considered essential elements of marriage in some regions and cultures, with the payment of the bride price by the man representing respect and commitment, while the woman's dowry is the goods and possessions that the parents prepare for their daughters to help the newlyweds start their family life. In this context, bride price and dowry exist to preserve cultural traditions and social practices.
However, in modern society, many people believe that bride price and dowry should not exist, or that they should be equal. They believe that marriage is a matter between two people and should not be bound and restricted by tradition.
ThereforeI believe that whether or not there is a bride price and a dowry for marriage should depend on the willingness of the parties and cultural traditions, and that consultation and decision-making should be made on the basis of mutual understanding and respect. No matter what method you choose, you should avoid over-consumption and waste of rulers, and pay attention to the happiness and stability of your married life.
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When you get married? Do you mean after marriage? When I got married, I pretended to grind for a while, and the time was too short.
Of course, save money after getting married. Only by saving money can you buy a hall uproar, buy a car and buy a house. If you are a group of moonshine, you can't do anything you want, you can only eat reeds and eat and drink.
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