Would you put off getting married in order to find true love?

I don't put off getting married in order to find true love because I don't believe true love can happen to me.

Everyone hopes that they can meet true love in life, but after experiencing many things in life, only a few people will continue to find true love, and I am not one of them.

People who have been hurt in love no longer believe that true love will come. I once poured my heart and lungs into liking someone, and I gave too much in his relationship, but the two of them finally broke up for some unwarranted reasons.

Ever since that breakup, I felt like I would never believe in love again. Maybe my heart has broken into glass slag, or maybe it's because I've become sane enough that I'd rather find a suitable person to fall in love with and get married, rather than insisting on finding true love in my life.

I think a lot of people think this way, but for different reasons. After experiencing the grind of society and emotional failure, we already have a different idea of love.

I don't choose to delay getting married for the sake of true love, I hope to meet the right person at the right time. What is the definition of true love, I don't think anyone can give a standard answer until now. But in the process of growing up, everyone will subvert their perception of love, and everyone will find the life they really want to live in their hearts.

For me, I never had the luxury of true love coming to me, I just hope to be able to meet the right person at the right time, two people can enter into marriage smoothly, and the ordinary life is quite suitable for me.

But in real life, my simple request is not easy to achieve, and perhaps this is the fundamental reason why I am reluctant to find true love, because I know that I can't find it at all.

There are always some people in life who insist on finding true love, but when true love will come back, maybe even they don't have an answer.

My true love is dead and I just want to find the right person to spend the rest of my life.

Yes. I don't think it's necessary to find someone I don't love and get married in order to get by.

I wouldn't do that, because when I reach the age of marriage, I should get married, even if it's going to be, and I'm especially afraid of being forced to marry.

I think I will, because marrying someone I really love in this life will be the most perfect and happiest life, everyone will have such a knot, so we must persevere.

I will. I'm not a compromiser, and I don't change my principles because of age and family issues.

I will delay getting married in order to find true love, and when I am looking for a partner, I must find someone who suits me, and I can't choose to be alone because I am old.

No. Marriage and love are not the same thing, it is more important for two people to be suitable in marriage, and feelings will slowly arise.

I will, because I don't like to settle, and besides, it's my own life, and I think what's right is the best.

No, because I think everyone has their own trajectory in life, don't waste too much time on so-called true love, it's very unrealistic stuff.

Yes, a marriage without love is more terrible than not getting married, and marriage must be built on the basis of love, otherwise what's the point!

Yes. Because I think that both parties to marriage must have an emotional foundation, and if there is no true love, I will not get married.

I wouldn't choose to marry someone I didn't like, because it would be tiring and I wouldn't be happy. Marrying someone you don't love is nothing more than two outcomes, one is a marriage that will be compromised, and there are always all kinds of unwillingness.

The other is that since you have chosen, you should be responsible for filial piety to the end and make a good choice. Most people hope for the second type, but live and become the first. Many people want to live like this, but when they enter the marriage, they find that it is too difficult to live a marriage that will be on the template.

If you want to talk to him, the other party will ignore you at all, you need a little help, then you will escape faster than anyone else, and if you need warmth, it is basically impossible. I thought that I could live in the future, but I never thought that the marriage in the future would be more difficult than I imagined, and I was not as good as a person.

At least a person's mood will not be affected by others, and an effort is a gain, and two people who are not frequent may be you moving forward, and he is pulling you. Not only is it not moving forward, but it is going backwards. But at the same time, because of the mentality of compromise, many times it is passive waiting and passive choice within a limited range.

Since you choose, it is undoubtedly lucky to be responsible for marrying the person you love in the end, and it is the norm to marry someone you don't love.

It is impossible for everyone to be so lucky to meet and enter the palace of marriage, but since they also choose to get married, they should know each other's responsibilities. Marriage is sacred, and everyone is accountable not only to themselves, but also to others. If you don't want to get married, you can not get married, but if you choose the other party, you must take it seriously, find his advantages, and work together.

Because when we meet someone we really love, we don't have the ability to step into marriage, and when we have the ability to step into marriage, we can no longer find someone we really love.

There is never a shortage of love in real life, but too much love has parted ways on the way to happiness. If you don't meet the right person at the right time, love can only be remembered in time. When we want to step into marriage, we can only find a suitable person.

Two people who truly love each other, precisely because of love, will produce many contradictions. I once had a beautiful love, and in that relationship, two people really loved each other.

But it is precisely because there is love between two people that they want to possess each other more in life, and they want to control everything about each other more in the days when they are holding hands. I want everything to belong to me, but I won't be the only one in his life; I want our two of us to be happy, but the longer we spend together, the more rifts there are in our relationship.

The two eventually broke up because of the accumulation of contradictions, but even at this time of the breakup, I didn't feel that I didn't love him anymore.

Marriage is different from love, and suitability is often more important than true love. There are too many factors that affect marriage, some people marry love, some choose material things, some choose to follow the requirements of their parents, and some choose to go with the flow.

But for a marriage that can really get along for a long time, two people are bound to be suitable in terms of personality, family and other aspects, so that they can find their own way in the relationship, and only then can two people go down this road.

My current marriage is like this, there is no love between us, but married life can still be happy. I don't know if love is a necessity in marriage, but I know that the feelings that have precipitated over time can still make a marriage have a happy ending.

It's not that no one gets married because they really love each other, it's just that when two people go down the road of life hand in hand, the sincerity that once had has long become a variety of trade-offs in life.

If you love someone, try to love, because you never know when they will leave.

Two people who really love each other are often difficult to be together because of the wrong time, and most of the people who get married are because they are suitable.

Because many people now get married not because they love each other, but just to give an explanation to their families. Nowadays, many young people choose to get married to completely close their hearts after being broken by love, and they feel that the other party is in line with their parents' eyes and can take care of themselves in life, so they get married hastily.

Because people now have high requirements for life and pay more attention to material life, there are really too few people who marry for love now.

You love me, I love you, there are very few love in real life, many people are old, and they think the other party can get married.

Because there are various practical factors in marriage, it is necessary to take into account the economic conditions and family status of both parties, so it is not necessary to truly love each other to get married.

Nowadays, many people will not get married because of true love, but because they are suitable for each other and have the same three views.

Because only if you love each other sincerely and without certain economic conditions, marriage is empty talk, and there is no way to maintain married life.

Because it is far from enough to truly love each other, you must have the same economic conditions and social status, otherwise two people are not suitable for marriage.

Because it is too difficult to truly love each other, and the reality is too complicated, it is easy to be swayed by material interests, and it is difficult to combine.

Because people know that it is not easy to find their true love, especially if two people really love each other, it is even more difficult, and they have to live for their own future.

Because there are too few flawless loves, no one is a saint and has many shortcomings, only mutual tolerance.

I thinkIf you can't meet true love, you have to get marriedGenuine love requires two people to communicate with each other. Falling in love is like planting crops, it takes one step at a time and accumulates for a long time before you can truly love each other. Too much worry and dispute can cost you your loved ones and loved ones. In an intimate relationship, the most serious thing is an argument. You give more, I give less, and once there is a dispute, the relationship will be destroyed.

Give wholeheartedly, love sincerely, and not be disappointed.

Is it right not to get married until you meet someone who truly loves you? There is no absolutely right answer to this, and once a person who truly loves someone is sick, he or she may not be able to really get married. There are also many obstacles in family and society, no pie will fall from the sky, and there is a trap behind many happiness.

If you feel that you are greedy for great superiority and are happy, your ability to distinguish between people will decrease, and you will not be fooled. Therefore, if you are "ecstatic" about something, you might as well think about whether you have encountered a trap that will hurt others.

A person who loves others and gets along with other people can start with a kind heart, which is definitely a noble and upright person. People should also have a correct sense of right and wrong, and have their own opinions when they encounter problems. In order to uphold the truth, a person cannot say that it is right because it is wrong because it is in a good relationship, nor can it be wrong because it is in a bad relationship.

Compared with the special conditions that can change fate, sincere love is always weak, such as suitable for one's own family, wealth, etc.

Almighty money can easily change the restrictive conditions of marriage. Think about it! How many people would rather cry in a BMW than smile on their bike in the lane they love?

When you meet the right person, don't hesitate, start first, as long as you look at the eye, don't regret it, true love can be cultivated slowly, if you don't even have a person who can enter the eyes of the law, how to really love people? Only by learning to love yourself with sincerity can we truly love others. That's why I think I have to get married if I can't meet true love.

If you can't meet true love, you can't stop getting married because of it.

It is very wise to be able to advance and retreat in a certain way.

If you can't meet true love, you have to get married.

If you can't meet true love, you can be single for a lifetime.

Personally, I don't think you really shouldn't get married if you can't meet true love.

I don't support this point of view, many people talk about true love here, so what exactly is true love? Do people who say true love really know what true love is? Yesterday I was also discussing this matter with a friend, and my friend's statement was that there is no true love in this society now, and I dare to get married.

In his view, all marriages are the advanced stage of love. This reminds me of a lot of news or reasons for divorce among relatives and friends in the neighborhood. The parties to the divorce often say with a flat face, we have no feelings!

Because there is no emotion, is divorce a matter of course?

Here we first talk about what is marriage? Marriage is a social institution, a common relationship that is recognized by law, ethics, and people. It is the basic unit that makes up the family and society.

Marriage is a rational relationship, through long-term exploration, and after running-in, a stable relationship is reached. Marriage has played a vital role in the development and inheritance of human civilization. Marriage has transformed human norms into specific social responsibilities, and has opened up a warm home for human beings while surviving hardTherefore, marriage is rational, a concentration of rights and obligations, and a community of interests with minimal relations.

So in my opinion, the purpose of marriage has nothing to do with the so-called true love in many people's mouths, but the meaning of marriage contains the energy of love, just to give a simple example, whether it is in the news, or in the surrounding environment, we can inevitably see those elderly couples holding each other forward, can you say that they are not true love? Therefore, I don't think that they got married because of true love, but because after getting married, the husband and wife have developed a true love that we envy after years of relying on each other.

Therefore, at the very beginning of a marriage, love can not appear in this marriage at all. This is actually a good proof that the time goes back a few decades, and the vast majority of marriages before that did not exist in love, let alone not get married without love, and the marriage at that time was far more stable and long-lasting than modern marriages. Because at that time, marriages were built to achieve the purpose of marriage.