What kind of love is not cheap?

The literal explanation is that it is a bargain, and in simple terms, it may be for money, that is, it is love, not love. Although I believe that there is true love in the world, it is only a 1 in 10,000 possibility, just like the 10,000 possibilities in Tomorrowland. No matter how long they talk about their current love, they can't afford to break up.

Why bother, is it really a game Like garbage that can be thrown away everywhere When you want to become ** If you don't want it, you can still do it anywhere. Really cheap. Not cheap love is to talk about a real relationship Don't be unhappy for a little thing Don't deceive each other If you don't have the ability to deceive each other for a lifetime, then please be honest!

Maybe the more you really think about it, the more you really don't think the ending is. In fact, the process and the ending are very important, but few people can really do it, if you don't love each other, then let go early, don't give any chance to look forward to, lest you have a chance for yourself. True feelings that no one can comprehend are not the love of the past and can give up everything for the sake of everything.

Living in this era, it's too fake.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wantsSeeing that the person you love is happy you will also be happy, and you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will want to do everything possible to make the person you love happy and happy, and the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) will be in love with him, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness!

Love happiness is actually very simpleTo love someone, we must trust, understand, and tolerate each other, be broad-minded, and respect each other. Love is a process, and no one knows what the outcome will be.

But lovers always hope that love lasts forever. Love and happiness are actually marriage. Remember that when love evolves into marriage, it is happiness.

As long as you trust each other in your heartsYou want to believe that everything can be perfect in love. Love allows you to bring each other closer Perfect love does not seek affection, but it lasts forever.

The most precious thing in the world is not to get it, nor to lose it, but to grasp the happiness in front of you.

When you are in love, being too active often seems cheap, and if you want to have a good relationship, you have to maintain a certain mystery, just like Eason sang in the song, "What you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear".

When you meet someone you like to take the initiative, it is a good thing, but you have to take the initiative in your own hands, rather than leaving it to others to make decisions, once you don't grasp this scale, it will make men feel very "cheap" Of course, girls take the initiative and let it not be upside down, you need to have your own skills. For example, take the initiative to release a new number of love to a man, intentionally or unintentionally mentioning that you are now single, hoping to find a boy like him; Or if you can have him as a boyfriend on time, you will be so happy that you can wake up laughing when you fall asleep. In short, don't make it too obvious, give him a signal to experience it on his own.

Let him realize that you are interesting to him, but not because he has to. If he takes the initiative to pursue you, there will be a story between you. But if he doesn't take the initiative, I'm sorry, then he'll miss out on a great girlfriend like you!

Learn to be comfortable in your relationships, these behaviors will make you look cheap, stop doing it.

1. Take the initiative to beg a man to love himself and not leave.

Love is never begging, which will only make your beloved him more disgusted. Even if you can move him one day, being together is not what you want, the so-called love!

2. Take the initiative to invite men to travel (and the like) in order to get along.

Being alone is a good time to warm up and develop a relationship, but if you go on a long trip before you establish a relationship, then it is easy for men to think that you are frivolous, and don't let men think that you are a very casual person.

3. Circling around him twenty-four hours a day, listening to his arrangement.

Don't go around a man every day, he will be annoyed with you, and he will feel that your time is worthless, that you have lost heart to him, and that he will feel bored with you. Don't listen to his arrangement in everything, have your own thoughts, learn to refuse, and have your own principles.

If you want to not be cheap in the relationship, you have to give him a little response in a timely manner, but you must have your own principles, your own independent space to do something to improve yourself, only excellent women are more attractive to men, because they know how to be self-disciplined.

Learn to improve yourself, make yourself radiant, and don't be a yellow-faced resentful woman who is grinded by life. We must learn to invest in ourselves and improve our inner self, only in this way will men cherish it more, get along with you every time, increase the degree of love for you, and love can be stronger!

In love, you want to be able to maintain your dignity and worth, and the following points can help:

1.Know your worth: In love, don't lose sight of your own worth, including your relationships, achievements, qualities, and more. Only by trusting oneself enough in one's own worth can one have the corresponding self-confidence and dignity.

2.Stick to your bottom line: In love, it is very important to hold your bottom line, be clear about what your bottom line is, and don't give up your principles or beliefs easily. If anyone exceeds your bottom line, don't hesitate to end the relationship.

3.Don't compromise easily: When there is a conflict with your partner, try to communicate and coordinate, but don't compromise easily and give up your ideas and values. Reaching an acceptable mediation without squeezing is an unprincipled concession.

4.Maintain independence: In love, it is also important to maintain one's independence. You can live with your significant other, but you should also pay attention to your own space and hobbies, and maintain your ability to think and act independently.

5.Respect the other person: In any relationship, it is very important to respect the other person, and the thoughts, feelings, and decisions of the other half should be fully understood and respected. When communicating, you should express your own opinions objectively and gently, and respect the opinions of the other party.

In short, maintaining dignity and worth in love requires self-expectation and maintaining the good qualities that have been obtained, as well as paying attention to the way you interact with your partner and how you get along with each other.

First of all, if you want to keep love fresh, you should learn to create a sense of ritual for love. After falling in love, many people feel that the other party has been chased by themselves, so they are reluctant to bother thinking about it. Whether it's a festival, an anniversary, or a birthday, there is no indication.

Actually, if we can remember these festivals and show that we care and care for each other through some sense of ritual, your relationship will be better.

Secondly, it is essential to keep love fresh that two people should do something together. I often see such a situation, after two people fall in love and live together or get married, the husband watches TV, and the wife cleans and cooks at home. Actually, two people can accomplish something together, such as cooking a meal together.

Don't underestimate these interactions, it is because of these interactions that the relationship between two people can be maintained. If everyone plays their own games, they will slowly get used to it, and there will not even be any mutual disturbance.

In fact, if you take the initiative, I think that if you are too active, you will really be seen as cheap.

One: The person who takes the initiative does not really pay well on the knife edge that the other party needs. It's like a kind help, the other person you give may not want it, and it may not be needed.

Second: too active will make the other party feel that everything is too easy, we all know that the harder it is, the more precious it is, just like the rainbow that appears after experiencing the wind and rain will also make people feel better, of course, it is not excluded that the rainbow is colorful, I think it is more beautiful to have wind and rain. Anything that comes too easily will make people subconsciously bury the word "general".

People are especially precious for what they have worked so hard to earn.

Three: Will there be that (: I know you won't go, so I can run amok?)

In fact, some people don't really feel cheap, but the enjoyers know that this kind of initiative has a certain amount of insurance and will not disappear, so they are very casual and do not pay attention to it. For example, family affection, we are always more polite and polite in front of strangers.

It's easier to release all your emotions in front of your loved ones. In fact, I think I should be more restrained in front of my relatives, and I say that the love of parents is great and does not ask for anything in return, so is this kind of love cheap? I don't think so, and I can't think parents should do that.

Everyone has nothing to do, everyone must know how to be grateful, and no kind of giving can be said to be cheap.

A man's pursuit of a woman is actually a hunting process, and the prey that is directly delivered to his mouth must not be cherished, because he does not enjoy the process of conquest, on the contrary, the prey he spends a lot of time and energy getting, he will be reluctant to eat, and the hard-won harvest. Let him know how to cherish it better. A smart woman will not always be stupid and good to a man, because she knows that the other party will not cherish it, you only need to be good to him occasionally, such as commemorative days, it is best when he is most vulnerable and sick, you will never abandon him to take care of him, enough for him to remember you for a lifetime.

In the end, I just want to say that any relationship should pay attention to "mutuality", pay attention to "coming and going", and pay attention to mutual understanding and understanding. I won't take the initiative to get anyone's favor, and I won't let down anyone's help in burying me. Don't be a stupid child who can only pay, don't think of yourself as so kind and generous, so you have wronged yourself.

Always improve yourself, cherish yourself, and live without anyone!!

1.Self-esteem and self-love: First of all, respect yourself and value yourself. Don't neglect your own needs and feelings because of love, and don't sacrifice yourself too much to meet the other person's requirements.

2.Maintain independence: Maintain a certain degree of independence and have your own interests and social circles. This allows you to keep yourself to yourself and avoid being overly dependent on the other person in a relationship.

3.Clear communication: In a relationship, keep your communication clear and open. Tell the other person about your feelings and needs, while also listening to the other person's opinions and expectations. This avoids misunderstandings and conflicts and keeps the relationship healthy.

4.Assert yourself: In a relationship, stick to your values and principles. Don't give up your bottom line in order to cater to the other person, otherwise you may not make yourself look too humble in the relationship.

5.Keep growing: Constantly improve yourself, learn new knowledge and skills, and enrich your life. This allows you to maintain your self-confidence and avoid being overly dependent on the other person in a wild relationship.

6.Maintain personal space: In a relationship, give each other a certain amount of personal space. Keeping a certain distance can make the relationship more harmonious and avoid the stress that comes with being overly intimate.

7.Know your own worth: Believe in your worth and don't easily put yourself down because of a relationship. Believe that you are hungry and capable of dealing with relationship issues and taking responsibility for your own happiness.

8.Be honest: In a relationship, be honest and sincere. Don't lie or hide the truth in order to please the other person. Integrity is the cornerstone of building strong relationships.

In short, in a relationship, it is necessary to maintain self-esteem, self-love and independence, maintain clear communication with the other person, and insist on self-worth. In this way, you can maintain your value in love and avoid feeling cheap.