About going home and staying in the city, going back to your hometown or staying in the big city

The hardest thing in life is to make a decision.

I think you need to take the variables into account.

Life is hard.

For example, you didn't say that the city where the vocational college where she chose to work was **.

If it is a second- or third-tier city, then you don't consider staying and choose to go home directly.

If it's a first-tier city, I think young people can consider fighting for it.

Although it seems that the majors do not match, you can't substitute and can only be a counselor.

But who knows what will happen later?

Why first-tier cities: Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen. So many people flock to it every year?

Because there are many variables and many opportunities.

I don't know how much development I can get in the first-tier cities.

But I'm pretty sure I'm not going to be a counselor for the rest of my life.

That's for sure.

And this variable and opportunity depends entirely on the state and grasp at that time.

That's how life should be.

You tell me? When it comes to buying a house, having children, and taking care of the elderly in the future.

I appreciate that you are very filial.

But so many people have successfully stayed in the first-tier cities and brought the old people to their side.

You can do the same.

Everyone's outlook on life is different.

The above is just my personal thoughts.

A few days ago, I listened to the radio saying that many white-collar workers were forced to evacuate first-tier cities and go to second- and third-tier cities due to the pressure of survival.

Although I believe that the statement of this broadcast is for the purpose of guidance, and describes the actions of someone else.

But when it comes to the analysis, I'm still in favor of it:

Those who stay in first-tier cities to survive are in order to improve their life gains.

And the evacuation of people in first-tier cities is to reduce the risk of life.

People live like this for a lifetime.

My dad used to say that it wasn't a lifetime.

That's the truth.

How to choose, there is no right or wrong.

It depends on what kind of life you want.

Dude, I was born and raised in Beijing.

Graduation, employment, love, marriage.

Along the way, life in Beijing is indeed fast-paced.

One day I went to Lijiang, Yunnan.

I was amazed that people there were obviously not walking at the same speed as in Beijing.

Later, I went to Chongqing and Harbin.

A completely different way of life, a different pace of life.

But I still love my Beijing.

Maybe because I grew up there.

I think if I go to a very laid-back city life.

Probably the previous month was fine.

I'm going to be half bored in the future.

I always feel that if I don't fight hard when I'm young, I'll regret it when I'm old.

Have faith in yourself, in your abilities.

Hope it helps.

Choose your career ambition to fight outside, and choose to go home without worry. Very simple...

It's better to go home, have a stable job, and take care of both parents.

I heard you say that you don't have much development path in the city, and you still have a home in the countryside, so I think you should move back to the countryside to live, and you will definitely be able to develop better in the countryside than in the city!

Of course, when you go back to your hometown, you will know when you have a family in the future.

Dear, I am mad at the following of my own opinions, to stay in a big city, you must have excellent skills, the advantage of staying in a big city is that there is more information, more opportunities, if you work hard enough, children do not have to worry about starting from scratch in the future. But not everyone can get rich, and we should try to be closer to those who are rich and rich. The disadvantage of staying in a big city is that you are under pressure, you need to study every day, you can't lie flat, and only by being a good person and honest person can you get acceleration.

It's not that there are no job opportunities in big cities, it's that individual skills need to be improved, or even start from scratch. Let's take a look at the job advertisements in big cities, there are a lot of them, but how many of them are qualified by themselves? It's not that the big cities have given up on some people, it's that these people haven't kept up with it.

When you go back to your hometown, you just lie flat, and if you have a stable job, there's nothing wrong with it. But pay attention: first, a stable job may not have much money, and sooner or later it will also face the problem of money.

Second, it will be more difficult for children to struggle to big cities in the future, especially first-tier cities. Third, once you don't have a stable job in your hometown, it's worse than in a big city, because there are no decent job opportunities at all. The price of lying flat today is that the child will have to work twice as hard in the future.

Different cities have different names for the banquet, for example, going home in Beijing is called returning to Beijing, and going home in Hangzhou is called returning to Hangzhou.

Pekingese people call home"Return to Beijing", Hangzhou people go home and call"Guihang"Sichuan people went back to dig Yinjia and called"Into Shu"Hunan people go home and call"Xiangyu"Henan people go home and call"See you"Hebei people go home and call"Hopefully"Anhui people went home and screamed"Anhui Covenant"Jiangsu people go home and call"Return to the Soviet Union"What is it called back to Guangdong"Flip the house"。<>

If I am tired of living in the city, I will choose to go back to my hometown, because my hometown has parents and some relatives, and in the city we only have some friends left, and now there is a popular saying that the city routine is deep I want to go back to the countryside, this sentence also reflects the eagerness of some people to return to their hometown.

So if you are tired of city life one day, then you can choose to go back to your hometown, which is also the choice made by most people living in the city, more and more people give up the city and choose to return to their hometown, after returning to their hometown, they can choose to do what they like to do, they do not need to live a life away from home like in the field, and after returning to their hometown, the work pressure will not be as great as in the city, which is also very beneficial to their health. There are also some people who have given up the prosperity of the city, returned to their own countryside and then went to farm, and they can share their daily life on **** every day, in fact, this kind of life is also what some urban people yearn for, because people in the city are in a life of deception and calculation every day, and every day you also need to think about what you still have not done, in the countryside, your daily life will not be very stressful, just need to do a good day, In addition, you can appreciate the benefits and fun of farming, and make yourself feel more happy.

We choose city life because of our dreams, when we realize our dreams, we should return to our hometown to see our parents and other relatives, because we live in this world is not only dreams, but also we should fulfill the responsibilities and obligations, parents as we grow up and gradually get old, then we should take care of the elderly, so people living in the city must also look back at their relatives, You can't ignore your family because of the fast-paced city life.

I would choose to go back to my hometown. Because after returning to my hometown, I can live the life I want to live without too much pressure.

Of course, I would choose to go back to my hometown, because I have never liked the bustle of the city, and I think I will be really depressed here.

Yes, it's good for you, it reduces your stress and relaxes you.

In the consciousness of many people, Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou are the best areas everywhere, and young people after graduating from university are yearning to work in big cities like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, so after young people work in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, will they be willing to work and live in small cities? The answer is yes, many young people work in the city, because the salary in the big city is relatively high, and there are more job opportunities, which can cultivate young people to accumulate more money and work experience, which is an important reason why everyone chooses to work in the big city. And there are certain reasons for wanting to return to the smaller city:

1. The consumption level in big cities is too high, the high consumption level in big cities is a problem that most of the troubles are frustrated, a person working in a big city will not cost much, if a family lives in a big city, the cost of living will be a lot of money, many people's work is enough to support a family, this is not a long-term development plan.

2. Housing prices in small cities are lower and suitable for settling down, some people can't afford to buy a house in a big city after working hard in a big city all their lives, and you can buy a good house in a small city by applying this fund, for which most people who have worked in big cities are still willing to go back to live and work in small cities. The low standard of living consumption in small cities and the low pressure of job competition are suitable for petty bourgeois people with a certain amount of capital, because they have rich work experience in big cities, even if they work in small cities, they can get a lot of income. 3. Big cities have stricter requirements for people's hukou, and many migrants living in big cities cannot solve the problem of children's schooling because of hukou problems, on the contrary, small cities have much lower requirements in this regard, generally as long as they own real estate in the area, the hukou problem of children will be basically solved.

4. Because the specific population density in big cities is not suitable for people to settle down in many cases, and the cost that people have to pay is too high, so most people will eventually return to live and work in small cities because of consumption levels, houses and other problems. In recent years, the urbanization development of small cities is also good, and there are many people who work in big cities and tend to open companies and start businesses in small cities.

I have been vague about my hometown, and I have been studying with my parents since I was ten years old, although I have never been in my hometown, but I think that the place where my parents are is home. Now I should be a real wanderer. In a place where there are no parents, I feel lonely and without warmth many times, so I plan to go home, although it is not my hometown, but there are parents.

In my senior year, I went to Guangzhou, a big city I longed for, with my classmates, for an internship. At first we lived in a place, and there was only one girl in the classmate who came together, and we rented upstairs and downstairs. When I first came to the city, I was still very excited, and although the living space was small, everything was new to the work.

The company environment of the internship is very good, and the colleagues who work together are very warm and helpful, and the working hours are only six and a half hours a day, which is a comfortable day. I take the subway to work one station every day, and I just go out at 9 o'clock in the morning, just avoiding the rush hour. If I want to say that I have never taken the subway before, although my house has been connected to the subway, there is only one line, and the speed of taking the subway and the bus is the same.

Guangzhou's subway extends in all directions, and it is very cheap. I remember just after the Chinese New Year, my mother came to Guangzhou to see me, and I visited the "Eight Views of Yangcheng" in Guangzhou in two days. From Tianhe District to Panyu District, then to Yuexiu District, then to Huangpu District in the afternoon, and then to Zhujiang New Town in the evening, the night view is quite good.

In the first half of the year, several of our classmates would often get together together, and whoever became a regular would invite everyone to have a big meal, which was really good. At that time, I also had a roommate, and I often went for a run and played badminton with her. We can also be single at any time to make an appointment to play together, which is quite fun.

Half a year has passed, my roommate left me and went to Shenzhen, and my classmates have fallen in love one by one. It's just me, I can't forget someone, I can't start a new relationship. My life started out boring, and I spent the big weekends alone.

After working in the company for a year, because the company's efficiency is not very good, the colleagues around me have changed wave after wave. I'm originally an emotional person, and I really don't like the feeling of this kind of person walking in tea. Gradually, I realized that although the wages in the big cities are high, the pace of life here is fast.

It's really fast, on average, a company closes down every day, especially our jobs, it's a long time to change jobs once a year. I'm really not used to such frequent changes, maybe I'm just suitable for a stable job.

So I'm going home, back to the city where there are houses and cars, back to the city where my parents have me, back to the city where there are a lot of dear people.

Many of the people who work in big cities don't go back, and it's very unlikely that I plan to go back to my hometown in the future.

Since the end of the college entrance examination, when I chose to come out and break by myself, I have already thought that it is likely to live in a place where I have a stable career in the future, and I will not choose to go to my hometown at that time, that is, I will go back to my hometown to have some things or go home to see my relatives. Many people who want to go home are more attached to the place where they are familiar with growing up, or they can't leave their relatives and want to accompany them, so they don't let themselves work alone and stay in the big city, and more importantly, the city where their hometown is located has a suitable and stable job to let them live.

Although home is very warm, so that a person has a place to return to, but the world is so big, you can't stay in one place, and in the end you don't know everything about the outside world. How can there be a better life without a better pursuit.

In college, the major I studied is about computers, which invisibly makes my job in the big city have a better foothold, if you go back to your hometown almost rarely need your own professional-related work, the employment becomes very few, but in the big city, this kind of job demand is a lot, and all kinds of benefits are also relatively generous, that is, the future development direction will be more, back to the hometown may not have so many opportunities.

In fact, when you have enough ability, you have the idea of starting a business in your hometown, and there will be a lot of development space in your hometown, and it will be a good choice to go on through your own planning and various cooperation. But this is just to go back to start a business, but I still can't decide to go back to my hometown and live permanently.

No matter in **, I hope everyone will not forget their home.