What happens when you get annoyed with someone? Upset, seeing a person upset.

Seeing that he felt so annoying, I didn't want to have any contact with him at all, and I never ate at home, so I couldn't stand him.

His every move made me look uncomfortable, every word she said made me feel disgusting, and I would definitely fight with others, but I had nothing to say to him.

I just think he's more annoying than anyone else, and I don't even think he's happy to mention his name, and I really don't want to think about him.

As long as someone mentions him, I feel a little bored, and I can't help but think of all his shortcomings, and it is useless for anyone to persuade him.

There's a kind of "I'm really annoyed with you" is "You're really hopeless, can you still understand?" "It's a thought that will haunt me forever.

I think I personally think she's annoying when I see what she does, and I feel fake when I hear him laugh, and I don't have any positive energy in his whole person.

Every time I think of him, I feel sick and want to vomit, I wish I had amnesia and didn't know this person, and there has never been a shadow of this person in my life.

In the face of this person, I can do it like water, and silence is the reaction to all the words and actions of this person, which is the basic reaction of the body.

When I was forced to stay with him, every time he said it, he was deliberately unhappy, and he couldn't help but want to refute every word he said.

Because I was touched in the face by someone I hated and bored, I was also nauseous and almost threw up, it's true. I don't know why the reaction was so violent.

When you see someone, you get irritated and angry. Either sit with him and communicate, untie the knots in your heart and get along, or choose to stay away, out of sight and out of mind.

In our lives, we will experience a lot of things, contact a lot of people, will make a lot of friends, it is impossible for everyone to have a particularly good relationship with us, and not everyone will be pleasing to the eye, sometimes when there is a conflict or anger with someone, you will suddenly see that he is very irritable, and I can't say what the reason is, but it is not pleasing to the eye, and even listen to her, I feel angry in my heart, this is a problem with my mentality, maybe the other party has caused very serious harm to myself.

I've personally encountered something like this, and more than once.

I was a kid who grew up in the countryside. Because my family was very poor since I was a child, I was looked down upon by my relatives, but I did not give up and get discouraged. Through his own hard work, he was finally admitted to university.

My family is very proud of this, and they often praise me for being a young man with ideals and ambitions.

But whenever I came home, the second aunt next door (It's not pro, and the second aunt Fan Bang has died a long time agoAnd they would talk to their neighbors about how I was outside, how was I? In short, it is some slanderous and slanderous words, although I know that she is envious and jealous and hatefulBut she always speaks ill of me, and I feel very uncomfortable, so every time I see her, I feel very irritable and angry, and even a little crazy. Although I shouldn't be as knowledgeable as her, but because of my strong self-esteem, I still can't accept it for a while, so I will hide in the bed alone and get angry, and sometimes I will secretly shed tears.

Sometimes I also think that what kind of people and things may be encountered in life, some people are really distressed to talk about you, and some people are jealous of you, but no matter what, the clan filial piety should have a peaceful state of mind, when you see others irritable, it may be that your own mentality is not good, and your cultivation is not enough. That's why I often look for reasons within myself.

Yes, it is true, I empathize with your experience and know your grievances, but I want to repeat that having a good attitude is more important than anything else. Treat the people and things around you with a normal heart, even if others hurt you, you will not get angry, but will become stronger and stronger.

I understand you very well, you may regard her as a good friend, and you may have high expectations for her, but after a long time of contact, you find that you are a little disappointed, and the so-called greater hope, the greater the disappointment.

It doesn't matter, making friends is like this, friendship is not generalized, there is also a problem of distance and proximity, there is no two people in the world whose temperament and temperament can be perfectly integrated, if you feel that her shortcomings are really unacceptable, then keep your distance, don't be noisy, this kind of friend really wants to use distance to produce beauty.

Keep your distance, you can easily choose the advantages of others to get along, too close is not easy to leave room for yourself, don't care if she has any opinions about you, why bother, there is no need to take the idea of a person who is not suitable to be your friend too seriously.

I sometimes look back and think about my brothers and sisters when I was a student, all of them were so amiable, they also liked me very much, and even people who were not too familiar at the time are now very good to me, hehe, maybe this is the beauty of distance. Of course, I also had three or four brothers who had died, and I was very, very content. But this kind of friend is hard to come by, if you're a girl, with all due respect, it's especially difficult, hehe, personal opinion.

We need to communicate, we can't solve the problem, we must first trust each other, we can't be suspicious of each other, if we have something to say, we can say it directly, and everyone will be relaxed when we talk about it.

Distance produces beauty, ignore her for now, it will be fine after a while, and it is possible to inadvertently find her good.

In interpersonal communication, we will always meet people who don't get along with us, if you really hate someone, you don't have to turn your face directly with the other party, this may be the first choice.

The reason why people are annoyed is that they have too much attachment and value many things, such as money, career, and fame. The Buddha said that the reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things. Let go, you will be at ease, learn to let go, then your mood will be natural and peaceful.

It's hard to take your time, but once you do it you'll benefit for life. And you have to develop the idea that everything is a life experience, good or bad. It is recommended to take a look at "Lao Tzu", his inaction, indisputability, and going with the flow are exactly what we lack in today's floating bathing society.

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!