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When you hate a person, his (her) words and deeds, every move will provoke your disgust, hehe, in fact, this is human nature, many people will have such feelings, but there is one point, in the relationship between people, your feelings about the other party directly affect the information that the other party feeds back to you, that is, you hate a person, in fact, that person also hates you, and if you put your mind on the disgust of this person, you will find that you are happy less, There are many troubles, and even every day is depressed, so, since everyone is not a saint, try to reduce some troubles for yourself, for the person you hate, don't deliberately observe him (her), but deliberately ignore his (her) existence, in this way, it doesn't take too long, you will find that your troubles are gradually decreasing, for the people around him (her), it doesn't look so annoying, hehe, your mood is in your own hands, if you want to solve the problem of hating the house and Wu, you have to start fundamentally;
In addition, no matter how disgusted and disgusted you are with a certain person, try to minimize talking about him (her) with your friends and relatives, which is not good, in addition to delaying your own time and greatly affecting your mood, it will also make onlookers feel that you are full of complaints;
So although people gather like in groups, when you ignore the person you hate, the good of those around him or her will also be revealed, take your time, don't worry, try to calm your mind, and good luck.
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You don't care about that group of people.
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There is a real psychological phenomenon. When 911 happened, the World Trade Center was destroyed. Most of the Pakistanis immediately thought that the Indians had done it; The majority of Muslims believe that Jews did it.
That's hate, hate.
Hate tendencies are a psychological conditioning tool that motivates people who are deeply involved in:
1.Ignore the merits of nasty objects;
2.Hate the house and the black, hate the people, objects, and actions that can remind you of the object of hate;
3.Distorting other facts for the sake of hatred.
The nasty mentality is innate. People especially hate people who don't treat themselves well.
For example, newborns develop an "innate dislike and hatred" for people who are very bad to themselves.
Why is it so difficult for Israel and Palestine to reconcile?
Because the facts recorded in the history of the two sides are very different, the two sides have different perceptions of the facts. Coupled with the influence of tooth for tooth and hatred, you treat me badly, and I hate you too, and there is no end to retribution!
The abuse of captives is essentially hatred that leads to retaliatory behavior.
Hatred has never gone away.
The modern political system is actually the art of dealing with hatred correctly.
In addition, sibling disputes within the family are very common.
Warren Buffett jokes that the main difference between the rich and the poor is that the rich are able to sue their relatives for the rest of their lives.
Revelations:1Avoid hating blinding oneself and distorting the facts. Maintain objectivity and rationality;
3.take the initiative to show goodwill, repay grievances with virtue, and reverse the situation of retribution;
4.Treat children within the family equally, emphasize solidarity and mutual help, and avoid sibling disputes.
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When you hate a person, his (her) words and deeds, every move will provoke your disgust, hehe, in fact, this is human nature, many people will have such feelings, but there is one point, in the relationship between people, your feelings about the other party directly affect the information that the other party feeds back to you, that is, you hate a person, in fact, that person also hates you, and if you put your mind on the disgust of this person, you will find that you are happy less, There are many troubles, and even every day is depressed, so, since everyone is not a saint, try to reduce some troubles for yourself, for the person you hate, don't deliberately observe him (her), but deliberately ignore his (her) existence, in this way, it doesn't take too long, you will find that your troubles are gradually decreasing, for the people around him (her), it doesn't look so annoying, hehe, your mood is in your own hands, if you want to solve the problem of hating the house and Wu, you have to start fundamentally; In addition, no matter how disgusted and disgusted you are with a certain person, try to minimize talking about him (her) with your friends and relatives, which is not good, in addition to delaying your own time and greatly affecting your mood, it will also make onlookers feel that you are full of complaints; So although people gather like in groups, when you ignore the people you hate, the advantages of those around him (her) will also appear, take your time, don't look at China, try to calm your mind, and good luck.
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