If I can t get along with my boyfriend s brother, my boyfriend will break up, why?

It's a pleasure to answer this question for you, and to see your description of this issue, my personal opinion and advice to you is this. First of all, you describe that if you don't get along with your boyfriend's brother and sister-in-law, your boyfriend will break up with you, why is that? The first point is that your boyfriend values his brother and his brother-in-law.

Pay attention to the relationship in the family, and then feel that if it is so noisy, this home is not a home. So you may choose to break up with you, and the second point is that your boyfriend treats them more seriously than you do. To put it bluntly, that is to say, I don't love you so much, I don't like you that much.

If he really loves you and really likes you, he won't just choose to break up with you. Instead, he will give you some advice to get along with your family slowly, and then he will also tell his brother and sister-in-law that everyone's personality is different. Together, we have to run in a lot.

And it's not that he directly chooses to break up with you, so your boyfriend doesn't love you that much. If he really loves you, then he will be willing to mediate this contradiction and reconcile this contradiction between the two of you, or between the three of you. Let you slowly get along well, slowly run in together, and finally enter the marriage hall with you.

This is the person who loves you, but sometimes men are stupid and they don't know what to do, so they may say something that makes you sad, and my personal advice to you is this. First of all, whether you're on the same page or not, I think you should call your boyfriend, come out and find a place to talk, you eat together, watch a movie, and then what? Let's talk about that.

If you are calm and put your heart into your heart, you will tell him that it will be divided, and you must also solve this contradiction and solve this misunderstanding before dividing it, because in this way, there will be no regrets in your heart, and there will be no regrets. Talk about your feelings, talk about your liver point, but the attitude and emotions must be calm, don't get angry, don't get too excited. Otherwise, it will only backfire, you just say this to your boyfriend, you just say that in fact, there is nothing that you can't get along, I think we are slowly merging, slowly running-in, or we can get along with each other to the second, after we got married, the two of us were together for a longer time.

Nor will I be with them all day. If there is anything I can't do before, I apologize to you and your brother and sister-in-law. After all this, I believe that your boyfriend's heart will change a little, and then you will say the reason why you really can't get along, what is the reason?

Your boyfriend, I'm sure he's going to change, there's a chance he's not going to break up with you, but to go. Reconcile your relationship in the middle, so that your goal will be achieved, if your boyfriend still insists, then if you say this, your heart will be better, and you will not leave regrets. In this way, this matter can be solved, I hope this examination can solve the confusion in your mind, suggest the doubts in your mind, and finally wish you a happy life.

I think he must be very selfish, thinking about his family, but never thinking about you, because he used this excuse to separate from you.

Summary. Hello, young lady, I want to ask your boyfriend if there is any misunderstanding with you?

Hello, young lady, I want to ask your boyfriend if there is any misunderstanding with you?

Say I'm older than his brother.

Tell his brother to think it through.

Should I break up.

Did your boyfriend and you propose to break up?

Not thinking about it now.

He said. Teacher, what do you say I should do now?

If you haven't been together for a long time, and he proposes to break up with you because of his age, then Sakura is not worth your effort for him, because if you really want to be with you, she won't care about your age.

There are two things that time can't take away, one is the ability to get along with yourself, which leaks lead and the other is a person who is in step with me, we are independent, struggling on our own road, Li Hao looks at each other is a sense of safety, if he is just because of this, then why do you want to keep him.

You also deserve to be loved better, and you deserve to have better love.

It is not others who affect yourself, but your own attitude towards things, you have to show your own confidence, and you can't say whatever he says.

If your boyfriend listened to his brother's words and proposed to break up for this reason, then I think you have to open a little bit, Sister Xiao Lunjian, don't think about retaining, because I kept it once, and I don't know what excuse there will be next time.

You can ask your boyfriend why he was with me if he minded his age.

Look at how he is with you.

If he says his brother minds, then you can him, am I in a relationship with you or with your brother?

When his brother hates you, whether to break up depends mainly on how much your boyfriend loves you, the most important thing for two people to be together is how they feel about each other, although marriage is not a matter of two people, but only your boyfriend loves you enough and can think about you, and whether he can think from your point of view when you have a conflict with his family is important.

Of course, it would be best if you also loved him enough, were willing to change for him, and were willing to please his family. In short, it depends on the foundation of your relationship, if you love enough, then nothing can stop you, if you don't love enough, please let each other go.

First of all, we must determine a premise, that is, you two really like each other, you are very happy together, he can't hesitate to you, he must really like you. He may withdraw because he is not assertive in front of his family, but you have to make sure that he really likes you and wants to be with you, or if he doesn't like you so much and is not willing to work hard and face some difficulties in order to be with you. If it's the latter, it's not so easy.

Don't make a big deal about it, try it down. The happiness of the two of you is the most important and the only thing that matters, and if you are happy, their families will be reassured. Don't talk about it when you two meet, there's nothing to talk about, it's hard to convince his family to change their minds through one mouth.

So, don't say it, do it, they're not very satisfied, it's not to the point where they won't let you in, right? Then go and hang out often, go and see them if you have nothing to do, bring something with you, buy some fruit, buy some cigarettes and alcohol, whatever, no more, not empty-handed.

There is no real handle, just saying that you are from the city, this reason is too vain, mouth dessert, hands and feet are diligent, let them see whether this big living person is really as bad as the legend. Under normal circumstances, his family should not tear their faces and say that they don't want you to enter the door, and they will not deliberately make things difficult.

To break up. In this way, the problem is fundamentally solved, and it doesn't matter if his brother likes you or not, and you won't worry about these things.

You can tease his brother and make him feel good about you, and then buy him some delicious snacks, which children love to eat.

There is no need to break up. Because in the end of life together, you and your boyfriend have no relationship with other people, don't care if others like you or not.

Yes, if his family doesn't like you, then how can you survive in his family? Then you will be sad and unhappy.

I don't think you need to break up, you can coax your boyfriend's younger brother and buy her more snacks and toys to make her happy and increase your relationship with him.

You don't have to break up, he's your boyfriend's younger brother, you don't care what she thinks, as long as you and your boyfriend get along well.

If it is a sibling relationship, I believe that from a physiological structure of the human body, the boy's original psychological maturity will be slightly later than that of a girl, which is equivalent to your current age.

The biological age is also old. And then the mental age gap is bigger, and in that case, he doesn't quite understand what you wantis a relatively normal behavior. Everyone's ideas are different there, you can't completely ask him to be exactly the same as you think, the difference between boys and girls, the difference in age exists, it is impossible to avoid it, then we can't resist the grounding face because of this, in this case, it can be solved through a few points.

First of all, you can express your thoughts with him, communicate well, and then see if he can understand what you understand.

And then. Or something small, can he do it after knowing what you think. To give a very simple example, let's say he's at work.

Then I have to work overtime temporarily because of something. And then tell you that you may not be able to watch a movie tonight, and that movie is what you have always wanted to watch. After he sent you a message saying that he couldn't accompany you, it didn't matter what you told him, in fact, what you thought in your heart was that you don't love me anymore, and you don't attach much importance to me, so the news he accepted over there is.

You say it's okay. So, this is a difference between the thinking of boys and the thinking of girls, the largest place. And then if you say that you are sisters and brothers, then you can also say why you came together at that time, right, it's not all because of age, so there is no need to talk about breaking up, you can run in and run in more, and it will develop in a better direction later.

If you want to break up with him just because he doesn't understand your inner thoughts, it's a bit cruel to him, you can try to tell him what you want and what you think, try to communicate with him first, maybe he will change for you.

I think boys are generally late in their hearts, and you can directly talk to him about what you want, and the two of you can communicate more.

I feel that if it's just boyfriend and girlfriend, it's okay, but if you get married, you still have to run in slowly.

Personally, I think that siblings love boys are relatively naïve, so you can try to communicate. 

If you don't want to be your brother-in-law, can't you want to be your boyfriend? That's easy to do, let the two of them discuss it, if the discussion is clear, let the little uncle be your boyfriend, and the boyfriend be your uncle, it's the same, anyway, they all marry into their family, there is no difference, as long as the family is harmonious, what do you say?

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

I don't understand! Let's be clearer!

The topic of the town in the forest of men will never be understood by our female Cong people, their communicative thinking is different from that of our women, maybe one day your brother helps your boyfriend, and they will turn into a hostility.