When your other person is not by your side, how to relieve loneliness?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

    Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

    knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

    Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

    When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

    In love, one thing is said and another is done;

    The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Spend time, **** with him, and chat with friends more. Listen**. 、Read the book I don't know if this question can help you? Oh if you can thank you ! I drop the answer.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You still put up with him now, a man who can't give you in life and your heart, you will still give it, do you deserve him or owe him? Let's call the shots, don't be a tiger once, okay.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Is he still worthy of your love? He didn't do the most basic responsibilities as a boyfriend, he wasn't there for you when you were helpless, lonely, and needed him, and in my opinion he didn't qualify to be your boyfriend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't, it's useless, he's not around when he needs it, what's the use of asking him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No need, no need

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't ask for it, he doesn't have you in his heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can sweep the ground, you can cook, you will earn money, you will fight, you still have to solve things yourself, is it useful to ask him?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You said I wish you happiness over there.

    I suddenly didn't feel lonely.

    Fireworks shining in the night sky.

    The beautiful bloom and fade in an instant.

    But dear.

    When you're not with me.

    I can't bear your gentleness.

    Can't let go of your warm little hands.

    When you wander around an unfamiliar city.

    But I stood at the corner of the street with a cold wind.

    When you're not with me.

    The more time passed, the more I missed it.

    When you fall asleep in the lonely night.

    Without my hand as a pillow for you.

    Do you want me.

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    When you step on the train that goes away.

    Before you know it, zero hour has passed.

    You said I wish you happiness over there.

    I suddenly didn't feel lonely.

    Fireworks shining in the night sky.

    The beautiful bloom and fade in an instant.

    But dear.

    When you're not with me.

    I can't bear your gentleness.

    Can't let go of your warm little hands.

    When you wander around an unfamiliar city.

    But I stood at the corner of the street with a cold wind.

    When you're not with me.

    The more time passed, the more I missed it.

    When you fall asleep in the lonely night.

    Without my hand as a pillow for you.

    Do you want me.

    If you ask me how long I loved.

    I don't know what to say to you.

    I could only look into the distance.

    The end of the day. Oh

    I can't bear your gentleness.

    Can't let go of your warm little hands.

    When you wander around an unfamiliar city.

    But I stood at the corner of the street with a cold wind.

    When you're not with me.

    The more time passed, the more I missed it.

    When you fall asleep in the lonely night.

    Without my hand as a pillow for you.

    Do you want me.

    When you fall asleep in the lonely night.

    Without my hand as a pillow for you.

    Do you want me.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's so emotional, I saw this lyrics... I heard this song from the age of 13 when I was 23 years old...

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't have any friends around you, then you have to analyze yourself. Why have all your friends left you? Is it because of someone else, or because of you?

    If it's because of yourself, how should you correct yourself? If it is because of others, then it is irreversible, and you can change your way of doing things, so that others will not leave you for some reason. Whether you are not doing enough in this regard, in addition to being sad, you must also look forward and strive to look forward.

    There are still many sunny days in the world. Thank you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you know how to reconcile, you have more freedom in your relationships. You will dare to express your opinion about your friends, dare to assert yourself, and dare to risk conflict. Because you know that even if a friendship is hurt for a while, there is a way to undo the consequences and restore the friendship to its former state.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Take the initiative to find friends and increase your social connection! You can't live without friends!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Go and meet a few online. Make friends with books or other things.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Make new friends or send a message to an old friend and call **.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Find, find, find a friend, find a good friend.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Look at the relationship between you and the leader and your level, if the relationship is good and the level is about the same, it is recommended to chat privately and listen to what he has to say, and then see how to improve your opinions, after all, he is now your leader, and the relationship is also okay, and your opinions should agree without harming the interests of your leader. If the relationship is not good, or the level is too bad, it is strongly recommended that you remain silent, if you meet a bad leader, you will definitely be excluded.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What do you mean? Cherish the present and don't think about anything afterward.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

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