Why do men plan to come to their first love when they make money?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-11
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello, because first love is the most unforgettable. People always say that "what cannot be obtained" and "what has been lost" are the most precious, and first love is regarded as a "broken", "unfinished" and "unsuccessful" event, which is both "unobtained" and "lost", so it is precious.

    The reason why first love is an unforgettable thing to remember for a long time is because first love is the kind of thing that is interrupted, unfinished, and unreached. In the Love Symphony, First Love is the first movement. When a person is unprepared and unconscious, good feelings come, people contact the first loved one with uncertainty, and expect to stay with each other for a long time, which is the mentality of most people when they are in love for the first time.

    However, the beginning of first love eats and falls in love, just like the experimental stage of love, it comes and goes quickly.

    Similarly, the most regrettable thing for a man is that he is not with his first love, so when he is rich, what he wants to get back is the feeling of his first love.

    1 As long as you really love that person from the heart, then the feeling of first love is innocence, there is no interest relationship between each other, and there will be no too many calculations and routines.

    2. When you fall in love for the first time, you are proud, you always feel that your charm has reached the extreme, and you feel that you are loved by the other party, which is the best affirmation of yourself, and you will feel proud because of having each other, as if the whole world is your own.

    3. First love is unforgettable for everyone, no matter what it brings to you. This is because first love will basically end up fruitless for various reasons, and it will become an unfinished thing in our hearts, and this unfinished thing will make us remember it fresh and unforgettable.

    4. Just like when I was a child, I asked my parents for toys or food, and my parents had bought them, but we don't necessarily remember them now; But if there is something that our parents have never bought, it will make us remember it for a long, long time, and even remember it when we see it now. This is the indelible memory of unfinished events.

    5. The first love is ignorant, we disregard the future, ignore the reality, with the longing and imagination of romantic love, and devote ourselves to it. We took care of it carefully, the first time we held hands, the first time we hugged, the first time we kissed, the first time we went on a date. Every feeling is precious, and we are always impressed by the first event, not about the person, but only about our own feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because the first love is an unshakable white moonlight for them, they used to have no conditions and couldn't be with others, but now they want to continue their relationship with others when they make money.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because first love is generally young and beautiful, promises that can't be made when you are young, and then you want to realize them one by one.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because first love is the most beautiful relationship in a person's life.

    is also the most impressive, so it is understandable that you have money to find your first love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is because boys' first love is generally in middle school or college when they have no money, when they are in a stage of entrepreneurship and have no money. When I can be on my own, I will go to the girl who once made my heart move.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's just that some men have money, and when they earn money, they plan to find their first love, but after all, they are still a minority, and generally speaking, the first love that will not bother others does not belong to you alone, just you and him. It's just the first love when I was young, and many men won't go to their first love when they have money.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When a man earns money, he plans to come to find his first love, because he has the courage and confidence to make money, and when he makes money, he feels that he has the capital to find a sense of existence in the person he loves.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because he never let go of this first love in his heart, he felt that as long as he was rich, he would have the capital to recover his first love, at least he thought so.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because men feel that they have made money, they can show off to their girlfriends how well they are doing now, which makes girls envious.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I guess I'm looking for my own original regrets and want to make up for it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First love is unforgettable, why? It's not because he/she is beautiful or handsome, or because what he or she can't get is good, but because when people first fall in love, they are extremely innocent in their hearts, and they have no selfish thoughts, and they only know how to love each other with everything they have. And the love in the future will not be so pure and flawless.

    Innocence is the most precious thing in the world. She is what we crave.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In the process of writing, I found that I still looked at the incense.

    A lot of things are like that, and it's much easier to do than to remember.

    Of course,None of this is the point to talk about.,What I'm going to say is that I recently saw a book with the human **.,The plot is probably that the male protagonist travels into the world of "Charlotte's Troubles".,And then grab the first love with Charlotte.。

    I thought it was funny when I watched it, and then I couldn't help but think of my first love.

    So, I watched this movie again, and then I was "really fragrant".

    It also caused me to think: why do men cling to their first love, even after marriage, they still want to take the time machine back to their first love?

    Persistent in first love, persistent in regret.

    "Charlotte's Troubles" tells such a story that Charlotte fell in love with his childhood sweetheart when he was a student, but he felt helpless in life in trivial things.

    Fortunately, I was favored by God - I had a dream of time travel.

    In the dream, Charlotte returns to junior high school and meets that beautiful first love again.

    So, he took advantage of the information gap of rebirth and successfully won his first love.

    Later, after the halo of the original love faded, Charlotte found that the original wife was the one who suited and loved herself.

    Happiness, in fact, has always been around.

    At this time, he regretted it and woke up from a dream.

    Luckily it was a dream.

    Sometimes, what we have always wanted to get is nothing more than "regret of not getting it", and when we really get it, we will find that it is nothing more than that.

    Men always can't forget their first love, and what they care about is not the first love itself, but regret.

    Just as the writer Wang Xiaojun said: When we miss our first love, we are not just missing someone, but we are missing our first love, and we are nostalgic for the youthful time when we were in our first love.

    People always have great hopes to make up for their original regrets, but once they really do it, they will find that the imaginary beauty has long since disappeared.

    Since then, there has been nothing but great disappointment.

    Because, there was a reason why we couldn't be together in the first place, but we didn't know, or rather, we were diluted by the beautiful vision.

    First love is a realistic reflection of the current state of life.

    Of course, there is another reason for clinging to first love, which is due to narcissism.

    When a man keeps saying that he loves his first love, in fact, he loves himself who loved his first love in the past.

    At that time, he was simple, beautiful, and liked someone without distractions, and was willing to pay for her.

    And with the gradual enrichment of social experience, thoughts and behaviors will be more complex than in the past.

    There will also be a lot of troubles and confusions, and I will feel deeply painful.

    These are the costs of growth that everyone experiences.

    When you encounter this, a lot of thoughts will come to your heart, and you will naturally feel nostalgic for the beauty of the original simplicity.

    The past that has been corrected in the mind is like spiritual food and grass in the complex world of the present, nourishing the soul.

    It's only when you're dissatisfied with the present moment that you fall into the world of memories, don't you?

    And the real world is that there will always be a moment when the mood is low.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because first love is the most unforgettable, the most memorable, and the most beautiful! As for the reasons for the breakup later, but after a long time, I have met more people, and the feeling of the past will never be there again!

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