What position is right to put your daughter in law???

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, must be free of prejudice on both sides, the other party as their own children and parents, must be sincere and sincere, people's hearts are flesh and blood, will be moved, even if they do a little thing for each other, they can see it, they have a number in their hearts, the relationship is naturally good, or wait for the child to be born can also be adjusted; How can it be bad for everyone to be relaxed, smile more, and be a loving mother and considerate daughter-in-law? I wish you a happy family!!

It should be an equal relationship with you, putting your parents and her parents first, and of course, everybody thinks about their own parents, so you can put your parents first, put his parents second, put you and your wife third.

But now there are very few people who really put each other's parents first, so now it's actually putting their own parents first, themselves and their lover, their children second, and each other's parents third.

It's all very reasonable!

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, either the mother-in-law is not good or the daughter-in-law is not good.

Men are not human beings in the middle, and it is difficult to deal with the problem well, and it is very simple It depends on how you deal with it.

Isn't he a smart man!

First: move out and come back to see your parents often, and second: try to keep your mother and wife from having more contact (because you don't have a word to provoke each other and get angry).

Third: No matter who is right or wrong, don't say it in front of anyone, just know it! Do more adjustments, after all, they all love you, the point of view is the same, but the method is different!

Take care of it, I wish you a happy family and be a smart man!

The two of you should discuss it:

What should each parent be called?

What should I do?

How do you express yourself to each other's parents during the Chinese New Year?

Usually live in **, what should the husband and wife do: including the money, how much, how to pay, there should be an agreement.

Let both parents know.

In this way, there will be no contradictions over at least some trivial matters.

There are some things that are not agreed upon, and you do it according to your temperament, and the other party does not understand, so you say that you are not in the right position. You're not doing a good job of popularizing the basic rules. The root of the contradiction lies with you, and there is no need to be confused if you think through this reason.

It's okay not to live together, the mother-in-law will never be the mother, and the daughter-in-law will not be her own daughter, keep your distance, it's very good to be polite, you have to love your wife well and be filial to your mother.

Hehe, generally married men will encounter such problems. In fact, the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to say, and it is not difficult to say that it is not difficult. It mainly depends on the personality and discord between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

It's hard for you to do it in the middle. Try to make both the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law happy. It's better to avoid unhappy topics.

I wish you all happiness.

Before you get married, your parents spend the days with you.

After getting married, my wife has been with you Although my mother is currently in a deeper relationship, but the next 70 years have been spent with you.

It is said that the best mother-in-law in the world will quarrel and contradict when she lives with her daughter-in-law, of course, as a son, the husband must know how to adjust, don't think that the mother is an old man, and you have to let everything.

Your mother loves you instinctively, and every old hen will love her chicks, without brains.

Your wife not only loves but also appreciates you, have you ever heard of a confidant who dies?

As mentioned above, a man should be filial and love his wife even more.

After all, the wife is the one who spends her life with her.

As a man, the son is smart and picks good words.

Today, when you see your wife, you will be good to your wife, and if you think your mother is good today, you will put your mother in the first place, and go back to kneel on the washboard for your wife at night.

The mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law like her own daughter.

I don't care about my wife, but I care about other women! I don't like to go home, it's always late to come home, and there's always an excuse to fool around outside!

Do not consult yourself about anything, and be financially defensive of yourself.

I don't care about you, I don't care about my home, I don't have a topic with you, I always dodge intentionally or unintentionally, I say I'm tired when I get home, and at night, I sleep with my head covered.

ignores you, ignores you, your joys, angers, and pleasures have nothing to do with him.

Late at night, there is one person and one Buddha in the temple, and the Buddha sits and stands.

Man: Compassionate Buddha, I'm a married man and now I'm passionately in love with another woman, and I don't know what to do with it right now.

Buddha: Can you be sure that the woman you are in love with now is the only last woman in your life?

Man: Yes. Buddha: You divorce right away and marry her.

Man: But my current wife is very gentle, kind, and virtuous, is it cruel and immoral for me to do so?

Buddha: The absence of love in marriage is the real cruelty and immorality, and it is right that you are now in love with someone else and not love her.

Person: But my wife loves me very much, and she loves me very much.

Buddha: Then she is happy.

Person: If I want to divorce her and marry someone else, she should feel very miserable, how can you say that she is happy?

Buddha: In marriage she still has love for you, but you lose love for her, in fact, having is happiness, loss is suffering, so you are the one who suffers.

Person: But if I want to divorce her and marry someone else, she should have lost me.

Buddha: You are wrong, you are just a concrete manifestation of her true love in her marriage, and when you don't exist, her true love will continue to another concrete, because her true love in marriage has never been lost. So, she is happy, and you are miserable.

Person: She once said that she only loves me in this life, and she will never fall in love with anyone else.

Buddha: Have you said that too?

PERSON: Me. I.. I..

Buddha: Now you look at the three candles on the altar in front of you, which one is the brightest?

Person: I can't tell the difference, it's all the same.

Buddha: These three candles are like three women, one of which is the woman you love now, but you can't find her. The world is full of living beings, there are hundreds of billions of women, you can't even tell which of the three candles is the brightest, how can you be sure that the woman you love now is the only last woman in your life?

PERSON: Me. I.. I..

Buddha: Now take a candle and put it in front of your eyes, and look at it again, which one is the brightest.

Needless to say, of course, the one in front of me is the brightest.

Buddha: Put it back where it came and look at the one that is the brightest.

Person: I can't see the brightest one again.

Buddha: Actually, the candle you just took is like the woman you love now, and this is said that love is born from the heart, and when you feel that you love her, it is the same as the reason that the candle is placed in front of you, and your eyes are mistakenly magnified. When you put it back in its place, you can no longer find the brightest feeling, this so-called last and only love actually does not exist, after all, it is just a mirror, an illusory and unreal thing.

Person: Oh, I see, you're not asking me to divorce my lover, you're igniting me.

Buddha: If you see through it, you can go ahead.

Person: Now I really know who I should love, she is my wife.

Buddha: Amitabha, Amitabha.

It's not like you can talk about it and get by.

Let your wife follow me, and it's solved!

When you get married, you have to be family-centered, don't think about other women, this can only show that you are not a competent father or a responsible husband, some people can only be a passerby in your life, and some people need you to pay a lifetime of love to care for her, you ask yourself why you got married in the first place, what is the purpose of marriage? Do it and cherish it, don't say anything, put personal emotions aside for the sake of the family and the children, some things don't necessarily have to be had!

Hurry up and leave that woman, even if you are with that woman, in a few years you will meet someone more able to talk about.

You're sick in the brain, so bring up this topic and pull hatred

Cherish my wife, this woman is just a small episode, the big principle can't be changed, be sober!

You're such a bad man, you have a wife and you want other women.

You can't snub your wife Which woman can give birth to children for you Which woman is willing to honor your parents for you ......Don't go all the way.

Love your wife well Since you marry her, you have to be single-minded Don't look at the bowl and look at the pot There are many, many good women.

In the last few hours of 2o14, I advise this brother not to take impulsiveness as love, and to cherish the day or your wife. Don't do anything stupid.

Before things get worse, cut through the mess quickly, keep your distance from that woman, and after a while maybe you don't feel how much you love her. If you don't want your marriage to be broken, don't do this kind of thing that makes your wife sad, didn't you promise her a lifetime back then. Well, sensationalized.

This is your own housework, and you won't change your mind after listening to a few words from netizens. Think about it, I hope it can help you.

You can talk about being friends, since you meet your wife first, you should take responsibility for her, you may meet a lot of people to talk about in the future, but you may only be your wife who is sincere to you and you share weal and woe.

If you have a wife, don't be half-hearted, this is not what a husband should do to his wife, I advise you to get rid of her.

How are you like that! Get out of that! Knowing that you have a wife and still following you, you are clearly a cheap woman! Even if you divorce your wife and marry her, your marriage will be blind, and you and her children will have a twisted mind!

It doesn't mean that she loves you and cherishes the person she loves! Shenma is fake, and it is true that there is a wife who loves him by his side.

Don't contact that woman, I'm sorry for your wife, it's not fair to another woman, your self-restraint in this matter!! Others can't help, so they can only give some advice!!

Talking about it doesn't mean that you can live, after getting along for a long time, the shortcomings will come out, I think it's better to be nice to your wife, don't wait for the loss to regret.

If the wife is good, for the sake of everyone in the family, put the wife first! Because you don't really know the other woman yet.

Oh, the wife is the first, otherwise there will be no small.

Second, the third child and the like, unless you can't live with your wife anymore, you will ...... another

Just coax your husband well, after all, the person who lives a lifetime is not a mother-in-law.

First of all, you have to pay attention to your girlfriend's thoughts at the moment, you have to put her first, he asked. Just an expectation of you.

The wife should know: don't put on a face to show the other party, an angry woman is very ugly. He has a lot of pressure at work, and he is not obliged to go home and look at your face to make you happy.

The other party will have shortcomings in his personality, and the details of his life will be different from yours, which will make you dissatisfied, but how can he be perfect, in front of you, he has to put down the mask, be himself, and be an ordinary person. Tolerance is the attitude that should be taken towards marriage as a person. Be tolerant and considerate of each other.

The wife should know that a man values his dignity more than anything else, no matter how much he loves you in private and how afraid he is of you. In front of people, you must give the right person a face, let him be a man who is not afraid of the sky and the earth, not afraid of his wife, and even more fearless, he should not like his friends to joke and make fun of him for being afraid of his wife.

Unless he has enough strong backing and lofty status, but most of us are ordinary people. My wife should know: my husband's parents are my own parents, I will compare my heart to my heart, love the house and Wu, the old and the old, as long as I really feel that this is my own parents in the depths of my heart, and I am psychologically attached to the old man, and the old man feels this sincerity.

What's more, people are very much like children when they are old, as long as they coax the old people to be happy like children. We ourselves have our own old days.

Alien? What outsiders?

If it's the man's family, it's not your gang that day. If it is a friend of the man, then naturally he will not stand up for you.

What you said is more one-sided, and others have their reasons for thinking so, maybe you really don't do enough in some places.

I don't understand, please give it an adoption.

First of all, the daughter-in-law must learn to empathize. Since they all come together for the purpose of love, there are not so many principled problems, and it is difficult for the old people to change their living habits for many years, so young people should be more tolerant.

The second is to compare the heart to the heart. Many daughters-in-law feel that the old man is too protective of his husband and too critical of himself, first of all, he should face up to the reality that his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have no blood relationship, and he will know that his love for his son is an instinct, and it is already very good to be good to his daughter-in-law by the way. If you want the elderly to be sincere to you, you must first be really good to the elderly, observe the needs of the elderly, and meet them as much as possible, but according to my observation, the spiritual requirements of the elderly are far more than the material ones, at least the old people in my family are like this.

Fourth, the housework should be shared. It is not easy for the elderly to work all their lives, and we should try to share more housework when we go home from work, so that the elderly have time to rest. The old man changed his schedule for the sake of his children and grandchildren, and he did not complain, this is our old man, our parents, and our old baby, so it is natural for us to take on as much housework as possible.

Fifth, we must learn to make peace with the mud. Most men are rough and not good at expressing themselves, and many men are the same for their parents, as a daughter-in-law, a woman should care more about her in-laws in life, and when her husband expresses badly, she must learn to be with the mud. When the husband has a bad attitude, the daughter-in-law must stand on the side of the in-laws, so that everyone will like you.

Sixth, never lose your temper with your husband in front of your in-laws. As a mother, I know that the child in my mind will always be unique, and I want to be angry with other women (daughters-in-law), and my mother should be distressed.

Seventh, if you want to reach a consensus with the elderly on the issue of raising children, you must first obtain the support of your husband, and in the hearts of your in-laws, your son's opinion is always more important and convincing than your daughter-in-law's. First of all, when young parents discipline their children, even if the elderly have objections, they cannot show it in front of the children, which is conducive to the growth of the children. Parents have the right to educate their children, and the elderly only have auxiliary obligations, as long as the division of labor is clear, there will be no disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law over children's problems.