Want to get a divorce, is it worth it? It s not worth it, can it be changed?

You have said that from your 20s to almost 40 years old, the ups and downs have come over for so many years, although you may want him to change and some nagging, you may have children, for the sake of the children, for the family, you make some changes to each other, you talk to him, say what you want to say in your heart, let the change, you also change, change each other, accommodate each other, so many years of wind and waves have been experienced, not to mention the current hurdle, I wish you happiness, a hundred years of repairing the same ship, a thousand years of repairing to sleep together.

kjkjhk you have said that you are in your 20s to almost 40 years old, the ups and downs have come over for so many years, although you may become hoping that he will change and some nagging, you may have children, for the sake of the children, for the sake of this family, you make some changes to each other, you talk to him, say what you want to say in your heart, let the change, you also change, change each other, accommodate each other, so many years of wind and waves have been experienced, not to mention this hurdle now, I wish you happiness, a hundred years of repair, Thousands of years of cultivation to sleep together, think about it

What do you do after a divorce? Alone? May I? But there are a lot of contradictions between the two of you.

Marriage is a woman's wings, fly high because of happiness, fly low because you look at the ground and forget to look up at the sky, who will cut off the wings in order to fly not high, you just need to change your attitude, for those feathers that hold up your wings!! I sincerely wish you happiness.

If you don't love it, just leave, why do you make so many excuses for yourself? I really think it's funny for people like you. When you got married, you knew exactly what kind of person he was, so why should you ask him to change now?

When you love him, everything is right about him, and when you don't love him, even if there is a little problem, you feel that he affects you. Is it necessary to live such a life? Leave and leave, anyway, marriage is nothing for you at all, and love is the same for you.

There are some paths that you chose by yourself at the beginning, and today you feel that although you can't go back to the wrong choice back then, you can choose to take other paths, and make excuses with less nonsense.

It's worth it, because love is the soul of a family, and without love there is no soul.

Of course, this reason is not worth divorcing, because love will turn into family affection in the end.

I don't know about divorce because the cost of divorce is high.

The reason for not loving is worth the divorce, and there is no reason why it is not worth it.

If you want to get a divorce, any reason is worth mentioning.

I think it's better to think twice and not get divorced for a very small reason.

It's not worth it, because most of the current marriages are making do, think about the children and think about those years.

I think it's worth it, after all, a marriage without love is painful for both people, and it's better to get rid of it as soon as possible.

This reason is a bit far-fetched, when the marriage reaches a certain stage, love will definitely change to family affection.

It is worth divorcing, I personally feel that the most worthy thing in marriage is not to love, in fact, not to love, it means that two people in the marriage can not talk together at all, can not get a common point of view, no matter what is discussed, it always ends with an unpleasant quarrel, and even some marriages will have cold violence, and there is no chance to quarrel. The marriage that is not in love exists in name only.

To describe people who love each other, the ancients used "flying together", "single-mindedly" and "agreeing with each other" to describe it, and it is always easy for people who love each other to reach a consensus when exchanging opinions, because they communicate more with each other and have a more tolerant mentality to think about each other.

I have seen a lot of examples in life, I don't know enough before marriage but I love dimly, I got married surrounded by my parents, I felt soon after marriage, as if I didn't love anymore, how did he change after marriage, before he spoiled me like a little princess, and now he simply treats me as a free nanny, I feel that there is no love in my marriage, only the words "family responsibility" tied to the top of my head to warn myself to keep my marriage, two people are unhappy together, and I don't know how to solve it, I don't know much about each other's character before marriage, An unhappy life after marriage can lead to more difficult communication, and such a bad married life will only sink deeper.

When you find out that you don't love each other in your marriage, in fact, two people have already done things that break each other's hearts, and they have dark wounds in their hearts, and the two people will lack trust and patience in future exchanges.

If you don't love it, this reason is worth divorcing, but everyone's marital status is different, whether it's worth breaking up depends on your true feelings in your heart, don't be impulsive, don't cower, learn to control your own life.

Of course, not being in love can be used as a reason for you to want to divorce, but have you thought about it, you still loved each other very much before. Especially before marriage, the mentality of tolerating each other's shortcomings is gone. Before getting married, you were sweet and sweet when you fell in love, and it was precisely because of mutual understanding and mutual tolerance that you could come together.

Before you say no, think back to your past.

Getting married means spending the rest of your life with someone, at least forty or fifty years. It's impossible to be as affectionate every day as you are when you're in love. Therefore, it is necessary to know how to operate, and managing marriage is also a science, otherwise how to spend the remaining decades.

Maybe in the days to come, you will have n times when you don't love and want to divorce. But think about what you've been through together.

Marriage is not easy, but it is done and cherished.

It's not worth the divorce for this reason, it's not worth it.

If you are surrounded by friends who have been married for more than ten years, you will find that they really don't have that kind of strong love for each other, it's like a fire, and the kind of strong love that wants to ignite each other at any time has long disappeared.

For a period of time, a particularly popular variety show was Liu Tao and his husband, who participated together called Dear Inn, and Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen as well as the single dog boy Chen Xiang.

The husband at that time looked at Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen, and when they were fighting every day, he said that they were still young, and the thing that could be done between couples in their 20s was to be noisy every day.

When people in their thirties and forties reach middle age, they have completely turned into stable happiness, growing up together with each other, and when they were sick, Liu Tao came back to the screen, started working, helped her husband emotionally, and then walked out of the predicament with her husband step by step in terms of economic status.

The feelings between every couple are different, but they have certain similarities.

The so-called love you are talking about, it is a feeling, it is not a hundred yuan bill put there, you say there is it, you say there is none.

What is more important between husband and wife is the mutual affection that we have been talking about.

There is an allusion that when a group of crabs are together, they are too dry because of this air and then once they get out of the moisture environment, it is easy to die, so they all spit bubbles and bubbles and bubbles, and then these bubbles surround each other, and they survive together.

The relationship between husband and wife is like this, those who regard love as everything as life, even higher than life, will be very hard, and will also be in a state of not being able to ask for it.

I don't think it's love, this reason can be divorced, but it's not worth it. Overall, I think marriage is a process of turning love into affection. When you say not love, I think you are talking about love in love, so after this love dies, should we immediately end the relationship between the two and find the next person who makes us know how to love?

The answer is definitely no, because in addition to love, there are other ancillary feelings accumulation. It is not easy for two people to finally enter the palace of marriage. Besides, can you guarantee that after you divorce, you will be able to find the love you yearn for?

How many people have remarried after divorce, and found that it was not as good as it was at the beginning, and regretted it and remarried.

In marriage, there is no such thing as not loving, but it is only because both parties forgot to add lubricant when they were running-in, so both parties were seriously injured, and love stopped running, so that each other could not feel its existence, and it would be considered that it was not love.

People are always injured and see the same thing again in marriage, there is no such thing as not love, but it is only because both parties forgot to add lubricant when they ran in, so that both parties were seriously injured, and love stopped running, so that each other could not feel its existence, and it would be considered that it was not love.

Most people who experience marriage are more or less loving, but they don't feel it in marriage, it's not that there is a problem with love, but that they close their senses.

In marriage, if you can't feel love for the first time, you can use your own ability to wake it up and let love rekindle, instead of blindly wanting to break up.

Because in marriage, love and non-love are only part of it, and there are responsibilities and obligations in marriage, and it is not something you want to leave as soon as you want, which is too unfair for the other half.

Therefore, in marriage, if you don't feel the presence of love, then it's good to take a break, and when you wake up, love will warm your cheeks like the sun, and the heat will make you feel dazzling. Divorce is not an effective way to solve the problem of not loving, learn to love, feel love to awaken love.