Which sentence did my husband say that made your heart chill the most?

I've been in a very upset mood lately, because I quarreled with my husband, and what he said made me feel very cold.

Some time ago, we were going back to our parents' house, and because we rarely go back, we bought a lot of things. After shopping, I found that I was hungry, so my husband bought a bowl of cold noodles, I was afraid that the noodles would be spilled, so I was going to serve it to him, but he said that I didn't care, so I didn't help him serve it again. In less than two minutes, the noodles were all splashed and unbiased on my clothes.

I suppressed my anger, but before I could lose my temper, he was already counting me impatiently. I got angry and got into a fight with him.

It's normal for husband and wife to be noisy and noisy, and small quarrels can be pleasant. But what was said in the quarrel was so sad. Because he said, "If it weren't for my son, I would have let you go!"

I was stunned and couldn't believe that this was the person I had always loved. It's not that I've been stained with my son's light all along, so I've lived until now. Without him, I'd be miserable.

I feel very sad, the man I miss in my heart is looking at me like this, saying such things, how much did she endure? Am I so unbearable in his heart? In his eyes, is the only role just the mother of the child?

I feel particularly aggrieved. Give him your whole life, and then give birth to a child for him, no matter how painful it is. After giving birth, I have lost any freedom.

And for him, there is nothing to lose, he should eat, drink, and play. He became a hands-off shopkeeper, he was outside without moving, and he would not come back until midnight. When the child cried, he didn't coax him around, how not to sleep, she didn't experience the collapse of not being able to sleep all night, and when the child cried to find his father, he didn't appear immediately.

He just had his own space, and he didn't think about how I got through that time, how hard it was, and he couldn't see it all. I enjoy the result of the child calling him dad, but I don't know how hard the process of hard education is. He didn't know all of that, he only knew that he was going to get drunk and dream of death with those friends who drank and meat.

He has no sense of family responsibility in his heart at all. It doesn't put children first, it just lives its own life selfishly. In the end, he said that if it weren't for the child, he would let me go, which made people feel cold.

He forgot all the time I spent together, and he forgot all the sacrifices I made for this family. For you there are only vicious words, which are extremely hurtful.

I may remember this sentence for the rest of my life, because it is so chilling.

Which sentence did my husband say that made your heart chill the most? I asked myself, is there one? Yes, there are too many, but between husband and wife, even if they are harmonious and beautiful again, they get along for a long time, how can they not choose what to say?

I have a lot of times, I don't take it to heart when I hear it, whatever he says, don't you just live your own life, besides, which husband and wife are not upset and talk nonsense together? There are too many words that are happy and cold, and I will not take it to heart, it is not worth it to let myself be tortured. That being said, sometimes, my husband's words are too much, and I still feel uncomfortable occasionally.

I remember once fighting with him over a trivial family matter, and at that time, I also had to ignore people, and in order to insist on my own opinions, I tried to keep fighting. The two of them kept talking about their own reasons there, and my husband became more and more angry, and the most chilling sentence he blurted out was: Why don't you die, I'm good if you die.

To be honest, at that time, when I heard this, my people didn't react and stayed directly. My heart pierces my heart like an arrow, oh my God, is this my husband? This is the person I love, a person of quality and culture?

I couldn't believe myself, I pinched myself, it's real, it's not a dream, it's really not a dream!

Oh, I was very aggrieved at the time, but I still held back my tears and told myself, calm, calm, you must be calm. Don't let yourself show any discomfort in front of him, unhappy, it's all angry now, if I quarrel again, what's the point? It's just a war of words, let him go, let him go.

Leave him alone for now! When he calms down, I can tell you how I felt when I heard this, and let him think carefully about whether he was right or wrong. After half an hour, his anger slowly subsided, and I calmed down a lot, I wanted to tell him directly, think about it, or tell him in the form of words!

After he received it, he realized his mistake and immediately apologized to me. If your husband told you that you can't accept it, you can also treat it coldly, after all, the husband and wife are the people who love each other in this life!

It was once when I went out to dinner with my friends, and suddenly it was raining outside, and I wanted my husband to pick me up, but when I called him, he said why don't you pick it up, and when he comes back by bus, he will waste gas or something, I think this sentence makes me very cold.

Of course, it's a sentence, you look at other people's daughters-in-law, who is what? The most annoying thing is to compare with other people's homes. Since you have chosen me, you should accept my strengths and weaknesses. And the two of us can communicate with each other, and we must not say anything that hurts me.

My heart was cold and I wanted to say the following to my husband:

1. My heart is cold. It's just that I expect too much from my husband, and I won't be in the future, self-reliance and self-improvement.

2. Every night you don't come back, I miss you like crazy. I always looked at the ** machine next to me in a daze for a long time, picking it up and putting it down again and again, the ** number that I won't forget all over the world even if I forget it! Always hung up weakly every time I dialed the last number, silently told myself that I couldn't play, I couldn't play, and then tears rained down until dawn.

3. You were the first to chase me, and then it was I who fell in love with you together, you were the one who was indifferent at the beginning, and I was reluctant to give up later.

4. To be tolerant of others is to be kind to yourself.

5. I didn't persuade her, once a person calmly told me a decision, there was no need to persuade her, and I understood her feelings, living with a man who often chilled her heart, and would become more and more desperate for marriage and love.

6. Disappointment is a very abstract thing, it is not like happiness, as long as you grin, everyone knows that you are happy. But disappointed to the point that the whole face revealed that the owner was disappointed, and that was really disappointed. Anything abstract is incredibly powerful when it is concrete.

7. What I am afraid of is that once it gets hot and hotter, that heart will become fragmented. God has given us a heart to love, not to hurt.

1. I always feel that you don't love me anymore.

2. Your indifference to me makes me feel insignificant.

3. I'm the only one in this family working hard for our marriage.

4. Your indifference makes me desperate.

5. The road we once traveled is now barren.

6. Your words and actions make me feel like a failure.

7. The tacit understanding between us has now disappeared.

8. Your neglect and coldness make my heart empty.

9. Our relationship no longer exists.

10. Communication between us has become difficult.

11. You don't care about my innermost feelings at all.

12. Your selfishness makes me feel abandoned.

13. You don't care about me anymore, like we've never met.

14. We should end this marriage with all our feelings.

15. I no longer believe that we can rebuild our relationship.

16. Your words and actions make me feel very aggrieved.

17. Your distrust makes me feel extremely frustrated.

18. Your betrayal makes me feel stupid and naïve.

19. Our marriage is like a losing gamble.

20. Your coldness makes me feel very lowly.

21. Your neglect makes me very sad and helpless.

22. Our lives have become very boring and boring.

23. Your ruthlessness makes me feel very lonely.

24. The contradictions between us can no longer be resolved.

25. Your disrespect makes me feel useless.

26. Your indifference makes me feel very unvalued.

27. Your cold bystander makes me feel very powerless.

28. Our love has become very hypocritical and pretended.

29. Your numbness makes me feel that we can't understand each other anymore.

30. We are already people on two different paths.