How big is the gap between the wedding bride price in the South and the North?

Because of the continuous improvement of living standards, and then in recent years, there are various hype and comparisons of bride prices, and the phenomenon is becoming more and more hot. Then the matter that led to the issue of bride price money became more and more hot, and then the bride price money has been constantly from 10,001 yuan at the beginning, to the current motionless purple and red and green, that is, about 150,000. Therefore, the speculation of bride price money has made the gap between the bride price in the south and the north continue to increase.

The gap between the wedding bride price in the south and the north is still quite large. To be honest, the bride price given in the north is very large, much more than in the south. This is generally about ordinary families, and if you just talk about the rich people in the south, it will be different.

Of course, the more words given by the rich, the better, and it is not within the scope of our discussion this time. <>

The general bride price in the north is basically more than 100,000 yuan, and the one next door to me is a man from Henan, and then his family is thrifty every day, and then in order to marry a daughter-in-law for their son, they have now saved a house and a car, so now it is also a gift money. And then at this time, because the gift money costs about 200,000 yuan, they have to keep saving.

Then there is my family's side, my family's side is Guangxi and Guangdong, Guangdong is developed, so the bride price is still much more than Guangxi, it should be similar to Zhejiang. About 100,000, there should be more money.

In Guangxi, in fact, the girls around me are actually about 20,000 or 40,000 when they get married. In fact, if you want the bride price, I think you should not blindly ask for how much, but it depends on the situation of the individual family and your own situation. The family is rich, so give more, and then the family is not rich, then give less, this is all etiquette and count to see the meaning.

Home is Henan, and many people say that Henan wants a lot of money. In fact, I don't think I can say that there is less bride price in the south, more bride price in the north, my sister got married, and my parents didn't want much.

In Changchun, Jilin Province, Northeast China, the bride price is arbitrary, the dowry is arbitrary, and the naked marriage of free love is OK. There are 358,000 blind dates, and you can do without a dowry, depending on how the two families talk, and they have not seen the sky-high dowry dowry.

I think the wedding bride price is not a problem in the north and the south, there is a big difference in the bride price within a radius of dozens of miles, our county, the more the southwest direction to ask for the bride price, the east and the north to ask for the bride price is less, now we are kept there in 10,000, but I heard that Liangshan to marry a daughter-in-law costs a lot of money, some areas of Heze in Shandong Province require three catties and three taels, and some places are called thousands of purples and thousands of red and green, in order to ask for money, there is no one, but also a piece of green. There are all sorts of new words to ask for money. In the end, I want to say that those who really love you will not love your money, and if you don't love you, you will have to be green if you marry.

Two people need to have feelings.

Beijingers, people around me have not heard of a bride price when they get married, or am I lonely and unheard?

I'm from Jiangsu, I should be counted as a Jiangbei person, my bride price is 50,000 yuan, our cities are about the same, plus the New Year's meeting gift, change of mouth fee, etc., there are 70,000 or 80,000 yuan, my parents directly let me take it myself, and then married 10,000 yuan, because my family is relatively poor, and my younger brother goes to college, my younger brother buys a house and other pressures, my cousin married 50,000 yuan, of course, the bride price money is held by himself, and there are many people who have the ability to marry the house and car for their daughter, and there are also people in the countryside who want sky-high bride price. I heard that there is a marriage woman who wants a bride price of 260,000 yuan, and then it is deadlocked, like this The basic bride price money for the bride price is given to the woman's family, don't want to come back, the woman is not a commodity, she has her own sense of autonomy, the bride price money is the parents of both sides to subsidize the two people to establish a small family, there is good, it doesn't matter if you don't, as long as two people work hard, what can't you earn?

06 years of marriage, zero bride price, Zhejiang.

Coordinates Zhoukou, Henan. Thousands of purples, thousands of reds, green plus motionless, 1780,000 bride price, hi car and house,

Of course, the bride price is important, because marriage is never a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families or even two families, I am a man but I think the bride price is essential, the old saying is that the daughter who gets married spills out of the water is exaggerated but very realistic. When a woman arrives at her husband's house, she will also be an outsider in her husband's family and marry a man with nothing, will the man be able to protect her? Because to protect his wife from being wronged in this family, it will definitely make the family feel wronged, because they will think that I am not as good as this outsider, and if I marry a daughter-in-law and forget my mother, there will be such a thing, and the man will feel that it is difficult for him, and under the guidance of the long-term family he is an outsider, he will become less and less of treating his wife as a person, and the importance of the bride price will come out here, the more the bride price, the less it will force the woman to be afraid that the woman will not come, so as to feel that she has suffered a heavy loss, and the worse conditions will not have the ability to marry. Without a bride price, it will become unscrupulous, anyway, it doesn't cost money, but it's just looking for one, and there is money anyway.

Rich men never worry about finding women, only the general will not compromise. Women who want to marry take a good look at it, even true love can't withstand this situation. said that there is no mother-in-law who can't break up the marriage, but countless bloody facts have been handed over to us, just elaborate on this, and there are a lot of them, not to mention that the visitors make up their own brains.

By the way, in the daughter-in-law and the family, it will always be the daughter-in-law, you can change your parents, brothers, brothers, sisters, and sisters, and there is only one one, and if you want a man to abandon these for you, I advise you to wash and sleep. As for those special examples, don't take them out and show them, they are a few or even exist only in legends, don't take them out for the sake of black.

In general, the type of god said, the bride price of the south.

The money is heavier than that in the north, and the bride price in the rural areas of the south is basically between 100,000 and 300,000 yuan, and the bride price in the north will be relatively lighter, about 50,000-100,000 yuan. As for the specific amount to give, it will be decided according to the economic conditions of the two families.

In addition to the increase in prices, the reasons for the continuous increase in bride price money are none other than the following:

1. Now there are more men and fewer women in the Society, which gives women a lot of opportunities to make demands.

2. There are still many people in the countryside who think that the daughter who marries out is the water that is spilled, so they will ask for more bride price money for their son.

3. Excessive view of money, they feel that the energy, material resources, and financial resources they spend to train their daughters are far more than 100,000, and these should be the responsibility of the married man.

4. In the heart of excessive comparison, even if some parents feel that the bride price for marrying their daughter is indeed too high, they are afraid of losing face, for fear that people will feel that their daughter is "worthless".

In fact, the amount of bride price money is not directly related to the happiness of the marriage afterwards. If there is really affection between the two parties and they decide to get married, then the life after marriage will definitely be happy.

All in all, the bride price is a custom, and this process is required when getting married, but it should not affect the relationship between the couple because of the amount of the bride price.

The bride price must be given according to the woman's law, how much according to the bride price at that time**, since you are in love, don't be unhappy for the bride price, because the bride price in the north and the south are completely different, since you love the north, be generous.

The two parties negotiate and communicate, which should be based on the north, because the woman is a northerner, and the bride price is for the woman.

We do it twice, once in the north according to the rules of the dark woman, once in the man according to the man's rules, the bride price is rich in the south, more than in the north, how much more, set by yourself.

According to the rules of the woman's family, the two families can sit together to negotiate, the rules are set by people, according to the conditions, after all, they are all a family, and you can't affect your feelings because of the rules and bride price!

Because the bride price is for the woman, so according to the woman's customs, people now compare, you give the woman more, the woman has face, but you also have to do what you can, because you have to live in the future.

Logically speaking, it should be the north, but I don't think I need to take any customs and the like too seriously in this era. Let's come according to the strength of the man. Don't be too harsh.

It should be rejected according to the rules of the northerners, but it is better to negotiate.

The rules are made by men. You can give as much as you want. And depending on your ability, don't be too reluctant. If someone forces you, it means that she loves herself more and loves you less.

It is usually settled through negotiation, or according to the rules of the woman's side.

If you have the financial resources, you can do it over there, and if the economy is not good, it is best to negotiate, what do you think?

the woman's customs and habits, etc.

Say qingc to the man in advance

Of course, it's the rules of the north...

Settle according to family conditions and communication.

That, of course, is according to northern customs.

Generally speaking, follow the woman's rules.

It should be done in accordance with the woman's rules.

Of course, according to the rules of the South!

For the wedding bride price, every place will give some more or less, after all, the bride price is also a kind of etiquette that has been passed down from marriage, and the bride price in the southern Jiangsu and Zhejiang regions is not very high, generally maintained at about 50,000 yuan. And people in Jiangsu and Zhejiang pay attention to getting married, so the bride price is just a scene, and the Jiangsu and Zhejiang regions are very rich, so after the young couple get married, the parents give a house is a minimum given, and sometimes the mother-in-law will also give the little couple a house as a gift.

In the south, the place where the bride price is given the most should be blessingsBuilt, because the etiquette of Fujian people is very serious, the bride price should be at least more than 100,000 yuan, which is relatively high in the whole of China, but compared with the north, especially in some poor places, it is indeed less. For example, in the northeast region of Liaojihei, the bride price has always been rising, especially in Jilin, where the bride price is more than 100,000 is normal.

From this point of view, the bride price in the northernmost and southernmost places is roughly the same, and in more places in the north, what is paid attention to is a thousand purples and thousands of reds and a piece of green, the so-called ten thousand purples and thousands of reds, that is, 10,000 banknotes with a face value of 5 yuan. The red is the green of 1,000 hundred-yuan bills, which is not counted as the banknotes headed by 50 face values, so it is conservatively estimated that this purple and red green is also a bride price of more than 150,000 yuan.

For wealthy families, the bride price does not matter, but for some rural families, the parents of their children will carry a heavy burden when they get married. So when I got married, I also made it very clear to my wife that if there is no money in the family, the bride price will not exceed 30,000 yuan, and the wife's family is also more reasonable, and the two of us belong to free love, so when we got married, we only took 20,000 yuan and went through the motions, so the bride price became non-binding in the face of free love.

In fact, it should not be divided into north and south (although it also has an impact), it should be divided into economically developed areas and underdeveloped areas The local traditional customs of the obviously developed big cities are weakened, and the thinking is more open-minded, and most of them are only children, maybe the bride price is inevitable, but basically the parents of both sides are for the good of the next generation Generally, it is OK to do what you can, and the bride price will generally be brought back or used for marriage.

Personally, I think that due to the different customs and characteristics of each region, the bride price is also different when proposing. It's like the four color gifts refer to a piece of meat, 4 green onions, 2 catties of vermicelli and 2 packs of cotton sugar. And the things in it may be subtle because of different places, for example, the meat must be one-size-fits-all with two ribs, which represents the bride leaving her mother's home, but it is still connected to her mother's flesh and bones.

The gap between the wedding bride price in the north and the south is not large, basically around 60,000. The gap is mainly reflected in the gap between urban and rural areas, and the rural areas will be about 20,000 less than the urban ones.

First of all, I am a northerner, and the bride price in the north is basically between 100,000 and 200,000, but although it is said that the parents want it, they are all given to their daughters or buy things for their daughters, and they are all kept for their daughters. However, there are also parents who will not return the bride price to their daughters and keep it for their sons, which is not to say that there are none, but the vast majority of them are still returned to their daughters.

They didn't ask for their daughter's bride price, because in their own hearts, if they spent their daughter's bride price, they felt like they were selling their daughter. How many biological parents would do this?

The wedding bride price in the south is relatively small, generally between 20,000 and 50,000 yuan.

In fact, I think it doesn't matter whether there is a bride price or not, as long as the family respects you more, and the boy treats you well, and the boy's parents are very good to you, and treat you as their own daughter. The girl's parents were also very happy.

In this way, there is no need for a bride price. But sometimes you can't have a bride price, if you don't have a bride price, then it will make the man's family look down on you.