Why do we want to prove ourselves too much and think far ahead?

It's a need that everyone has.

In Maslow's hierarchy of needs, in addition to the most basic survival needs, after people have met their own security needs and basic social needs, what needs to be considered is the need for respect.

That is to say, when it is not a problem for a person to survive by eating and drinking, personal safety and job security are also satisfied, and normal social interactions such as friendship and family affection are not a problem. Naturally, they will want to prove their ability to achieve the respect and recognition of others or society.

Once you reach the level of being respected and recognized by society, then you will think further, in simple words, it is to realize your dreams and become the person you want to be. Therefore, these are normal needs.

In our daily work or life, each of us wants to prove our ability, and we will think very far, mainly because of our dreams.

In such a prosperous world, everyone has their own dreams and constantly strives for their dreams. In the process of achieving our dreams, we need to show our abilities and be recognized by others. In the process of striving to achieve this goal, we tend to think about a thing very complicated, so we think more and think farther, and it is easy to think crankily and think about some unrealistic things.

When I was young, I felt that it was natural to spend my parents' money, and when I grew up, I felt that it was an unspeakable thing to reach out and ask my parents for money.

When I came home during the winter and summer vacations, I felt that I had nowhere to put it when I was free, and I felt like an outsider, but I didn't know where to go. At that time, I especially wanted to prove that I was capable of supporting myself and that I was capable of making my parents live a good life, and I thought far and wide, not wanting them to look down on me.

It is in this society that everyone has their own dreams, they all want to make themselves better, and they want to make their family members or relatives live a better life through their own efforts.

In the process of struggle, we tend to think far ahead of the problem and think about things very complicated. At work, we often try very hard to prove our abilities, just to earn a little more money. I want to get closer to my dreams <>

It's also easy to understand, because you have the ability to reach a higher level, but there are not yet some suitable opportunities for you to use your talents. I suggest that you still grasp every step now, with this strength, I believe you will succeed.

Because all human beings have desires, we especially want to be able to live as we imagine ourselves. I want to get more applause, honor and boasting, and I don't want to be an ordinary person. When we have this kind of thought, we will set a goal for ourselves in our hearts, and we will think very far, how to do how to achieve a goal, which is a dream drive.

In fact, everyone wants to show their abilities to others, to prove to others that he is a particularly capable person, and will think more long-term, this should be regarded as a normal state of people, maybe his heart is more inferior, feeling that he can't compare to others, so he wants to prove himself.

Because everyone wants to have a sense of existence in life, they want others to respect us specially, and let us have some power to speak, so they especially want to prove that they are capable, and the more they think about it, the less they have practical action to do something.

Because if you prove your ability, others will be impressed with you, or your mood will become good and become confident. Because we always want to prove ourselves to others, and we want them to see that we are also a talented and capable person.

The value of human survival means to prove that we are useful people to this society, so we are very obsessed with this, and make many long-term plans for this, wanting to make ourselves more stable and go further on this road, and proving our ability is what we want to do the most.

Because there is too much pressure in society now, and there are so many rich people, we especially want to prove ourselves to prove our strength, and we want to succeed, I think this is everyone's dream, we want to prove ourselves.