Take the initiative to talk when you break up, and quarrel as soon as you talk after a breakup

Since it is still possible for you to ask, it means that your heart is no longer in him, or it has not been, if you still love her, you will immediately rejoice, find a way to get back together, instead of asking questions here, you may wish to take a look again (for reference only, please forgive me if there is anything inappropriate).

First of all, what did you break up for? I have also experienced this situation you said, but then we didn't get back together, no matter what we broke up for, the past relationship came back, it was no longer the original feeling, the mood was no longer the same, did you say yes? Now that you have broken up, it means that there is no reason to continue, the reason why she did that is because it is a habit, or she is lonely, if you still want to get back together, then ask her what she means, if not, I advise you to look forward, good horses do not eat back grass、、、

I also have this experience, which means that she still has you in her heart, and she misses this relationship very much, I hope you give each other a chance, and then cherish it, after all, love! In fact, every man and woman are similar, there is no perfect person, more tolerance and understanding, you will be a lot happier, seize your own love! Come on...

Summary. Hello dear, when a couple breaks up, as soon as they talk to quarrel, there are three possibilities, the first is that she hates you and doesn't want to talk to you, the second is that you may have hurt her in some places to cause you to quarrel with her She is very sad, and the last one is a minority, it is this situation that puts me like this, that is, she may be disappointed in you, I feel that you can't go back to the past together, she is sad as soon as you talk to her, she doesn't want to be sad and doesn't want to talk to you, and then she quarrels as soon as she talks, Hope it helps!

Hello dear, when a couple breaks up, a conversation is quarrelling, there are three kinds of can be written, the first is that she hates you and doesn't want to talk to you, the second you may have hurt her in some place to cause you to talk to her and quarrel she is very sad, and the last one is a minority, it is this situation that makes me like this, that is, she may be disappointed in you, I feel that you Jian Xiangming together can not go back to the past, she is sad as soon as you talk to her banquet letter, she is sad if she doesn't want to be sad and doesn't want to talk to you, And then I quarrel as soon as I speak, I hope it can help you!

Have you communicated with him calmly, what each other means?

It's been two months, and all the hurtful things have been said, and he said that he didn't like me at all, but I'm the longest he's ever been in a long-distance relationship.

Then since Shuangsouran Fang has spoken with a red face, and he said that he didn't like you at all, why don't you put it down, it's important that time doesn't slip, the important thing is the right person, you come to ask now, it means that you still like him, and you still want to get back together, right?

When it comes to breakups, many people deal with them differently.

Some people think that they should talk about it, make it clear, and break up clearly; Some people think that since they have decided to break up, there is no point in saying anything, so it is better not to say it.

My advice: when splitting the hand, it's best to be clear.

Because, what you say when you break up will directly affect the development of the relationship between the two after the breakup. There are a lot of legacy problems after a breakup, which are caused by not speaking clearly when the breakup happened.

Most people propose to break up for two reasons: one is that there are various practical reasons that cause you to not want to continue with the other party, such as long-distance separation, parental opposition, etc.; The other is that there is no specific practical reason, that is, I don't like the other person.

In both cases, the way to deal with it is not the same when it comes to a breakup.

In the first case, it is important to make it clear to the other person what are the practical issues that prevent you from continuing to have a relationship.

If one day this problem is solved, it is still possible for you to get back together.

If you really want to save the relationship one day in the future, it's essential to make it clear when you break up.

If you don't make it clear when you break up, when you try to redeem it, the other party will have resistance in their hearts: why do you say break up and break up, and reconcile when you say reconcile?

However, if you are clear about the reason for the breakup, you can also try to convince the other person when it comes to recovery: "I understand what caused me to break up, and I have found a solution." ”

For example, because of the breakup of long-distance places, because of the breakup of parents and families and other practical problems, now a solution has been found. This will make it easier for the other party to accept it, or at least show that you are taking the relationship seriously.

Therefore, for this kind of breakup caused by practical problems, you should make it clear when you break up, which not only shows respect for the relationship, but also leaves a little room for each other.

What if you want to redeem it later?

And for the second case, many people don't want to redeem it, because the person who proposed to break up has no interest in the other party. He knows that the other party is very good, and he also knows that he may not find a better person for a while after the breakup, but he just doesn't want to continue to associate with the other party.

In this case, we need to speak clearly, only in this way can we avoid entanglement with the other party.

At this time, you would rather let the other person hate you, and would rather behave ruthlessly than give the other party a chance to continue to pester you.

It's cruel to do, but if you're really tired of this person from the bottom of your heart, it's good for both of you: you're dead, and it's irresponsible for both of you to let the other person have illusions about you, or to let the other person spend time on you because they feel they can change something.

Therefore, when you break up, you must make it clear, or tell the other party "I have nothing to dislike about you, it's really because of some practical problems that we can't go on"; Jing Yu Rang either told the other party, "I just don't like you anymore, no matter what you become, I won't like it anymore."