What is it like to become a monk before you start a family?

Becoming a monk before you get married is like looking at the mountains or mountains, and looking at the water or the realm of water. But with the deepening of the Dharma, in fact, the reality is empty, but ignorance is repeated in the causes, because there is no obstacle and the environment of inner ups and downs, and with the deepening of cultivation, we can directly go through the process of seeing that the mountains are not mountains and the water is not water, and when we reach the third realm, there are no ups and downs in the heart, and we look at it as such.

Becoming a monk suffers from this life and will benefit from immeasurable lives in the future, so being a monk is very bitter on the surface, but in fact, he is living the life that his soul really wants, a pure, wise, equal, relaxed, and enlightened life! Becoming a monk is not a life for the poor, if it is a life for the poor, then why do so many poor people in the world not leave home? Becoming a monk is not the life of a rich person, if so, why do so many rich people not leave home? Monks are not something that generals can control, although they can command thousands of troops and horses, they can't control themselves when their temper comes.

What kind of experience would it be if we were to work in the red dust, but live with the mentality of a monk, we are the actors and audiences of the drama of life. With the ups and downs of the plot, joy and sorrow, struggle, change, struggle, but have little impact on the development of the plot; We are withdrawn from the drama of life. Learn to live as a director, no matter in good times, bad times, red flowers, white flowers, there are heartfelt admiration and appreciation.

We live with the mentality of Hongchen people. It's a mindset of being proactive about wanting to change something, and if something happens, you judge the pros and cons, and then try to fight, reverse, and change. We live with a monastic mentality.

This is a response pattern. Sleep when you're sleepy, eat when you're hungry, and exercise when you're tired. If something happens and someone talks to you, good or bad, it doesn't matter, everything is in my creation, and every detail is carefully polished by me.

I didn't want to get married, I never wanted to get married, I always wanted to become a monk, but I didn't have the blessing to become a monk, and my heart was in the monastery.

Becoming a monk has a broad meaning, and it is a house of troubles. Theoretically, everyone can do it, but in practice not everyone can succeed. Those who are willing to become monks, but those who do not leave home; Those who have a body and a monk, but a heart that does not leave home; Those who are physically and mentally ordained; There are people who are physically and mentally left home.

No. There are conditions for ordination.

Monks belong to the clergy in Buddhism, which is equivalent to the priests and priests of Western religions.

Hello, it's not easy to travel for business now. I once read an article that a monk needs a master's degree, and you have to apply to the Buddhist Church, and if it is approved, it will be issued. Buddhist certificate, and not necessarily able to live in a monastery.

Anyone can, but some temples may not accept it out of selfishness, but the real student of Buddhism does not need to go to the temple, know how to meditate, you can go into the mountain to practice alone, so the achievement is greater than in the temple, but the temple can not become a Buddha.

As long as you want to and your parents agree, you can become a monk. To become a monk, there should not be any threshold for those who have developed bodhichitta.

First of all, the six roots must be sufficient, and the body and mind should be healthy. Single No debt, under 60 years old. If there are parents, the consent of the parents must be obtained and written proof must be issued.

It's best to understand what a monk is, how to calculate a monk, whether it's a temple or a monk......~

Nowadays, all monks need a bachelor's degree. All you are not a college student and are not allowed to become a monk.

No, those who are seriously ill cannot;

Those who have official positions cannot;

Those who have a felony cannot.

Why do you need to be a monk to slowly comprehend yourself in your practice, to slowly comprehend in your life, to comprehend slowly in the scriptures.

What others tell you to do good deeds and accumulate virtue and earn good fortune are all empty words, big talk, ridiculous words, and even more to see through the red dust.

Isn't it ridiculous to see through the red dust with the naked eye of the mortal womb, and the good deeds you do are not all for nothing.

Asking for something is not good.

How can I become a monk and ask in the temple to find out.

How to become a monk can't answer the !! See through the red dust! I have seen through all the things of others! Monkhood! 6 roots to be clean.

The first issue is that you must have the consent of your parents, be free of disabilities and diseases, and have no lower educational qualifications.

The second is to see through the red dust, or can't stand the trivial things in the red dust, and then become a monk.

You don't even know why you are a monk, so what is a monk.

Becoming a monk is a house of troubles, a house of desires, a house of the six realms, not a house of a house, Buddhism emphasizes substance rather than form, the six roots of a monk are not pure, and the afflictions increase, even if the form is a monk, it is useless, and it has nothing to do with life and death. On the contrary, the layman at home, respecting the upper and lower harmony, filial piety to parents, brothers and sisters, no quarrel with others, no seeking from the world, the six roots are quiet, there are no troubles, the Buddha said that this is the true monkhood, and the Dharma is internal learning, is the cultivation of the mind, not the form.

Becoming a monk is a good thing, but it also depends on whether the karma is ripe, the monk is called the teacher of heaven and man, is the teacher of heaven and earth, and the merit is great, but the purpose of many people to become a monk is not to continue the Buddha's wisdom life, but to be greedy for merit, greedy for temple property, greedy for fame and fortune, greedy for the children and grandchildren of the monks, if the monks do not practice well, and are infected with the world's "wealth, sex, fame, food, and sleep", they will definitely fall in the future, and it will be very troublesome.

One is to evade the responsibilities and problems of the world, and dare not take them and face them.

One is the mission of this life!

Amitabha! The true monks are the successors of the Buddha! Among the monks, not necessarily all of them can achieve physical and mental purity, after all, this is a materialistic world, and the real ones who do it are also the great wisdom roots, they (she) are not all abandoning the family or seeing through the red dust, but leaving the small family to serve more everyone, this kind of service is to take over the Shakyamuni Nyorai in the world of sampa to propagate the Dharma, to prove that the mind is not chaotic, the body and mind are pure, everyone can become a Buddha, everyone is a future Buddha, and they are not only preaching the Dharma, but also the practitioners around them.

After becoming a monk, they are more able to concentrate on their efforts and seek liberation without distractions. In order to become a monk, you must first be in good health, mentally and physically sound (of course, these are not necessarily hard indicators, because Buddhism emphasizes that all sentient beings have a degree), you must have identity certificates and family, marital status, academic certificates, etc., some temples must first go to understand in advance whether you are willing to accept and shave, and if there is a refuge teacher, it is more like the law for the refuge teacher to write a letter of recommendation.

Everything has a purpose! They are never offering to make you a monk happy! They are for their own success, for their own Buddhahood! They just want to reach a state that can be worshiped by others, a state that is beyond human duty, that is, a state of self-esteem!

The purpose of becoming a monk is to avoid the interference of the world in his practice, and he may not be able to purify the six roots at first, but he will gradually achieve it in his practice.

It is true that practicing Buddhism can slowly get rid of your afflictions, because the Dharma can enable you to know the root of your afflictions and the truth of the world.

Now a monk needs to go to a Buddhist institute and get official approval, so the fundamental meaning of ordination is lost. The real Dharma doesn't have to be in the monasteries.

It is more convenient for monks to do things that are beneficial to others, and they can also practice diligently, and if they cultivate well, they can get rid of life and death!

To become a monk is to dedicate his life to the education of society. It's as simple as that. Amitabha!

1. Monk practice is definitely better than home practice, just like students going to school to study is definitely better than self-study at home;

2. In order for the Dharma to be passed on, there must be someone who specializes in this kind of work, just as there must be special teachers and scientists to pass on scientific knowledge, and the monks are responsible for inheriting the Dharma and benefiting sentient beings.

When the Buddha became a monk, he left the palace and went deep into the society to practice; Experience and understand life.

There is a world of difference from modern monks ... We ordinary people are already busy with life! But he didn't really practice in life.

Modern monks have simply religiousized their lives; Instead of turning religion into life, we should remove the application and application of the youth in order to enhance and improve life; Upward for good. This is the original intention and purpose of religion.

To be a monk is to be sincere, to be faithful, to be truly renunciated, to be truly compassionate, and to be truly destined.

A true monk is a great husband's trip. It is to transcend reincarnation, liberate life and death, and be happy. Pudu sentient beings.

Becoming a monk is a model of the heavenly teacher, and he is responsible for the family business and the benefit of the parents of all sentient beings. Becoming a monk is not an escape, a true monk can bear the ten thousand laws, can go up to the nine heavens to catch the moon, can go down to the nine seas to catch turtles, and all the ten thousand laws are turned into the Tao.

It is better to become a monk than to practice at home. It can be blessed by the Bodhisattvas of the Ten Directions.

Mahayana Great Collection of the Ten Rounds of the Tibetan Sutra

Excerpt) This is my own law, shaving my beard and hair, and being a monk in a naked robe. It is supported by the great compassion of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas of the past, the future, and the present. This shaved hair was ordained in a red robe.

It is the liberation of all sages and saints. It is also the appearance of all shravakas and people who receive the method of liberation. It is also the taste of all solitary beings who receive the method of liberation.

It is also the appearance of all Mahayana people who receive the method of liberation.

There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south. I wish you all good luck.

Great treasure vast pavilion good dharani dharani).

Promote the Dharma and benefit life, save sentient beings, and be happy from suffering.

Amitabha!

Summary. Ordination is not a way for you to escape reality.

Ordination is not a way for you to escape reality.

Even if you work hard to deliver takeaways, there are nearly 10,000 a month.

So what to do, my dreams are shattered.

No face to face relatives and friends.

You can't escape the fact that you are a monk, and you will always think about it.

The end is a new beginning in another life.

Question: What should I do if my wife and I can't get better even if we are together?

Divorce. I really can't get by, what do I want to do?

Forgive me for speaking directly and unpleasantly.

What should I do if I want to divide the children in the divorce.

Then you didn't think about the feelings of children when you left home.

Men sometimes need to take on rather than run away.

I've seen through the red dust, and I feel like there's nothing to pursue.

There's nothing to pursue, so why are you still thinking about children?

That's true, but my relatives and friends don't recognize me, and I really don't know what to do!

Deliver food without a job.

Since I feel that I have to start from scratch, I have to keep myself busy.