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Girls often fall in love with the mining area is not knowing how to express their emotions correctly. If you're in your life, you can't wait to show it, or let your boy guess. There is a song girl who says that you don't like your boyfriend because playing the game ignores yourself and you will vent your emotions through noisy and even wiring.
The starting point was to make my boyfriend more careless, but the result was a contradiction between the two sides, even if it was borderary.
Should girls hint at their boyfriends? It's clear because people will have an anti-negative mind, and the more you want to control each other, the more likely you are to escape, and even if you come to see you, it's not too big. What really works is to make the opponent self-reflective by suggestion, so as to achieve the goal of improving the relationship.
The implicit method is summarized in the sentence: reduce one's own input according to the premise of reasoning.
Let's talk about the so-called reduction of your own investments. Going back to the beginning of the boyfriend playing the game, the boyfriend playing the game, not care, the girl will be noisy, it is a typical mental investment, because it is very interested in attitude. And then we want to imply that the other person is really angry and that you can reduce that investment.
For example, when the boyfriend was playing a game, we didn't make a noise, didn't take the initiative to find him, and even sent out the news. We could be late. Come back or get cold, if you add some happy friends who have another share to play, you will make your boyfriend feel uncomfortable, guess your true thoughts, and reach the purpose of his self-reflection.
Let's talk about the reasonable reasons. The difference between men and women is that the beginning of school is reasonable, and the starting point for girls is emotional. When a girl is not the reason, the boys will feel that the other party is unreasonable and have to resist.
Therefore, we have come across the problem of boys in order to reach the problem of men and make good reasons. For example, if you jingle together at night.
You want to reduce the time of cancellation by reducing the time, and you can find an objective factor to evacuate: something important for the time being. But remember not to be completely unreasonable: I don't want to go, even if I haven't even come back to the news.
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There is a situation where the guy knows what you are angry about, but thinks it's not a big deal and doesn't realize the seriousness of the situation. In this case, it means that you are not attracted enough to the other person in your relationship, and the other person's sense of need for you is not so strong. At this time, we must be cautious and try to take the initiative to protect the relationship, and continuing to accumulate contradictions is not conducive to the healthy development of the relationship.
You can say "Honey, in fact, you always play games and ignore me, so I don't mind, I know I may be asking too much of you, and I've been adjusting myself for the past two days, but I'm still a little uncomfortable." On the one hand, you explain the previous suggestive behavior, and on the other hand, you don't blame the other party at all, and you don't force the other party, just describe your own state, which is easy to arouse the boy's guilt, so as to change for you.
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Actually, this is a good implication, you don't have to tell him directly that he is angry, you just ignore him, and he will understand what it means.
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It's okay to ignore the other person so that the guy will realize that you are angry and will please you too. Thus it will coax you.
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At this time, you can directly express your emotions and feelings to the other person, this is because boys are generally more rational, and they don't understand these subtexts.
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When a guy deliberately makes his girlfriend angry, what is their true inner thought? Why?
The first one is to deliberately make his girlfriend angry, just to get the attention of girls, so that girls can love and care about themselves more.
In life, it is really a very happy thing for two people to be able to live together and start a happy journey. But maybe in real life, because of some factors, ignoring the care and love for each other, boys will deliberately make their girlfriends angry, in fact, they just want to attract the attention of girls, so that girls can care more about themselves and love themselves. Because not only girls are insecure in love, but boys are also insecure, hoping to attract the attention of girls, shorten the distance between two people, and promote the sweetness of this relationship to be happy for a long time.
The second, to make yourself angry for no reason, may be bored with this relationship, tired, and want to end this relationship.
Not all feelings end happily with sweetness, and some people have a bad end in life due to the influence of some practical reasons. And suddenly, for a period of time, the two people who originally loved each other always spoke coldly to each other and made themselves angry for no reason, then it may be that they are bored and tired of this relationship, and they don't want to continue this relationship. If in a relationship, the other party blindly makes himself angry and doesn't care about his feelings and opinions, then this person must not love himself, since he no longer loves, then there is no need for this relationship to continue, choosing to leave, choosing to let go, may be the best destination for this relationship, and it is also an important choice not to let go in the painful struggle.
Since two people choose to be together, they should feel each other's love wholeheartedly, so that this sweetness can last for a long time, if they don't love each other, then make a decision immediately, show their attitude, choose to break up, and don't let each other suffer.
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If a guy deliberately makes his girlfriend angry, he may want his girlfriend to think about him. Boys also want to see that their girlfriends don't care about them, and they also want to see what their girlfriends are jealous of. A boy has to test a girl to know what kind of status he really has in this woman's heart.
Love is not something that one person can give in return, but two people who give together. If you can't do what you need a boy, you have to let yourself be brave enough to persevere. <>
If a boy makes his girlfriend angry, he must choose to coax his girlfriend. To like a person is to want to get what the person has, rather than blindly giving everything by yourself. After a person has experienced a failed relationship, he will have it again and will always be tempting.
Boys need to understand that if they do something wrong in the midst of temptation, their girlfriend will not forgive them. Since two people are together, they should choose to believe in each other, rather than feeling that each other is always betraying themselves. <>
In life, if your boyfriend always doesn't let you go against you, your girlfriend can also choose to stop in moderation. Boys are very talkative with their girls, and boys like to be able to have a long time with their girlfriends. Love is very worthy of blessing for two people, and it is not the same when it comes to redemption.
Boys should tolerate their girlfriends appropriately, and don't let their girlfriends be the lonely ones. <>
In general, the best love is that they like each other and care about each other, so that the relationship between two people can get better and better. Be sure to let your girlfriend see your sunny side, this kind of love is the most touching to each other. The happiness that girls want is very simple, that is, their boyfriend is always by their side to protect themselves.
A girl's mind is so small, as a boy, you must let yourself be bigger-minded, and you must let your girlfriend.
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Their real thoughts are to be relatively happy, and they feel that this is what they care about their girlfriends. Generally, boys like a person who cares about a person will deliberately make the other person angry, also to find a sense of existence.
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They just want to see if their girlfriend is angry and cute. But I think it's naïve for them to do that, and they don't care about the girls' feelings.
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They may just want to see their girlfriends angry, because some guys think girls are very cute when they are angry, but some guys don't care.
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Boys generally notice that because many boys are very smart and have a very high emotional intelligence, they can detect it when their girlfriends are angry and apologize in time.
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Most of the time, he can detect it, but if he doesn't love you enough, he will act as if nothing happened, and if he loves you, he will automatically and consciously come to coax you.
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Not necessarily. Some boys have very high EQ and can detect it when their girlfriend is angry, but some boys have very low EQ and belong to straight men, so they can't detect it.
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A girl can ignore a boy or not accept a small gift from him, or she can clearly express to the other person that she is very angry about something.
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I think the best way to express it is to go against the norm and act in the opposite way, and the other person will realize that the girlfriend is angry.
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Girls can choose to tell each other directly that they are angry and let the other party coax them.
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If you wish to suggest that your boyfriend is angry himself, here are some things to try:
1.Change your expression and posture: Expressing your displeasure can be conveyed by changing your facial expressions and body language. Frowning, pursing lips, looking down, etc., are all ways to convey dissatisfaction.
2.Remain silent: Do not respond to his words or the conversation is presented briefly to show your emotions or negative emotions.
3.Express your feelings clearly and unambiguously: When he notices a change in your mood, you can make him aware by simply stating why you feel angry or disappointed.
4.Give him some space: Imply that you need your own time and space to calm down. You can do this by telling him that you need some alone time or by giving him a non-verbal signal, such as retreating to a quiet place.
5.Mention your emotional state: If you don't feel that the hint is clear enough, you can also communicate your emotions directly with him. Tell him that you are angry and explain what is causing the emotion.
It is important to remember that direct and open communication is the key to problem solving. If you want your boyfriend to understand your feelings and emotions, the best way to do this is to communicate with him directly.
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I think it is very necessary, when his emotional intelligence is not too high and he doesn't understand your bottom line, it is very necessary to hint, so that it will neither destroy your relationship nor make you continue to be uncomfortable.
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I think it's necessary. Because many boys don't know how to make their girlfriends angry, they need their girlfriends to hint tactfully to understand their mistakes, and girls hint that they are angry, which can better maintain the relationship between the two parties.
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There's no need, because if you hint at him and he doesn't understand yet, it's too embarrassing, so if you're angry, tell him directly.
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Men have different attitudes towards their girlfriends, some people like to get used to their girlfriends, and they will be overwhelmed when they see their girlfriends angry, and they want to make their girlfriends happy, but such boyfriends are irresponsible towards their girlfriends, because they know that this matter is the fault of both people, and no matter whose fault it is, they will treat it as their own mistake and coax their girlfriends. This is not conducive to the growth of the other half, some boyfriends know that their girlfriend is angry, do not coax her, but reason with him, such a boyfriend is more responsible, and also wants to be responsible for his love, because once two people quarrel, when causing disputes, there must be one party who is wrong, if you don't explain this problem clearly, then such problems will occur frequently in your future life, and small problems will accumulate more, and they will become big problems. As a result, conflicts and disputes between two people will appear very frequent, and in the end they can't go together, the boyfriend will reason with him when he knows that his girlfriend is angry, and his inner thoughts must be to let the other party know why this thing happened like this, and want to go to the two people to solve this problem together, rather than simply perfunctory, covering up this problem in the past, only by really solving this problem, for the future life, will similar incidents no longer occur, If your boyfriend doesn't coax you when he knows you're angry, but reasones with you, I want you to listen carefully, because such a problem can't arise again in the future.
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All men have different attitudes towards their girlfriends, some people like to get used to their girlfriends, and they will be overwhelmed when they see their girlfriends angry, and they want to make their girlfriends happy, but such boyfriends are irresponsible towards their girlfriends, because they know that this matter is the fault of both people, and no matter whose fault it is, they will treat it as their own mistake and coax their girlfriends. This is not conducive to the growth of the other half, some boyfriends know that their girlfriend is angry, do not coax her, but reason with him, such a boyfriend is more responsible, and also wants to be responsible for his love, because once two people quarrel, when causing disputes, there must be one party who is wrong, if you don't explain this problem clearly, then such problems will occur frequently in your future life, and small problems will accumulate more, and they will become big problems. As a result, conflicts and disputes between two people will appear very frequent, and in the end they can't go together, the boyfriend will reason with him when he knows that his girlfriend is angry, and his inner thoughts must be to let the other party know why this thing happened like this, and want to go to the two people to solve this problem together, rather than simply perfunctory, covering up this problem in the past, only by really solving this problem, for the future life, will similar incidents no longer occur, If your boyfriend doesn't coax you when he knows you're angry, but reasones with you, I want you to listen carefully, because such a problem can't arise again in the future.
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