Emotional crisis! Very confused about the future ... Sincerely ask for help .

At least you're only 25 years old this year, which is still very young.

If the relationship is really good, it's good to be together, and it's good to be young and willful.

Don't be too realistic, at least not at your age, 3 years ago I was the same age as you, and I loved a woman 8 years older than me. At that time she was under a lot of pressure because she was not young anymore, I was 24 years old and she was 32 years old, after which we broke up peacefully after 1 year together, but I don't regret that at least we had 1 year of good memories. At least none of you have met the right one now, so why not run in together first?

Isn't it realistic to struggle with each other for a while? People sometimes live a little more chic.

When the relationship comes, be serious, and want to open up a little when the relationship should end.

I sympathize with your plight, and tell you my story, although you have less time to meet, but you are still much luckier than me, I met my girlfriend through the Internet, maybe you will laugh at me, but I don't care, because there are many people who do this, I can only say that they don't understand me, the relationship is really coming, not the distance can be stopped, because I usually have nothing to do and spend more time on the Internet, my girlfriend has accompanied me for the past two years, we haven't met, but we have nothing to talk about, although the Internet is illusory, But the feelings are real, we have happy times together, of course, there are sad times, compared to you, we are much more unrealistic!

If I were you, if you really love him, pursue it boldly, not to mention that you all love each other, and your family may not necessarily understand you if you work hard, but if you don't work hard in the future, you will regret this relationship experience when you are old, and when you encounter such a thing, I don't encourage you to give up, think about it, life, it's all your own grasp, don't leave yourself regrets,

If you really love each other, you shouldn't be affected by external factors, you might as well wait for him to retire from the military and persuade your parents.

Upstairs is the same as me, I also liked a sister in '06 haha! The memories left now are so beautiful haha.

The ancients said that a husband and wife for a hundred days of grace, sharing blessings and difficulties, couples who have enjoyed happiness together may not be able to last long, nor is it necessarily true love, but couples who have suffered together must be because of love, because only love can make two people desperate to suffer for each other. Only love can make two strangers go through many difficulties and finally come together. Couples who work hard together must have a common goal to come together and work together to lay a foundation for their future.

So what are the most likely relationship problems between couples who work hard together?

First of all, couples who work hard together must be very tired, and sometimes there will be a problem that neither of them understands anyone, because both parties are tired, so they rarely think about each other, and they feel that they are the hardest one. At this time, there will be contradictions, both husband and wife feel that they are wronged, and those with bad tempers will explode directly, and finally rise to a big quarrel. This will particularly affect the relationship, originally the two people are very hard, when the quarrel between the two sides and the bad words add up, both say good words three winter warm, bad words hurt people in June cold, quarrels are very hurtful husband and wife feelings.

Therefore, if the husband and wife cannot understand, it will cause such consequences, and more seriously, it will lead to divorce. Because contradictions do not exist all at once, it is often the last straw that kills the camel, but it is definitely not just because of that straw, it is accumulated over time. Therefore, couples who work hard together should pay attention to this problem and try not to let such problems happen.

Finally, I wish the husband and wife who work hard together to grow old together and get rich as soon as possible. If you understand each other more and empathize with each other when you encounter difficulties, maybe the result will be different. When you are both upset, think about your original dream, I hope that lovers will eventually become married, and that the relationship between a husband and wife who have suffered together must be stronger than that of a husband and wife who have enjoyed happiness together.

We must tolerate each other, and we must not go online, we must understand long live, and the two sides must communicate with each other.

Learn to know how to make trade-offs, and you should also be considerate of yourself, and you should not hurt yourself, and you should try your best to comfort yourself, and then you can also keep the other person, these are all things you should understand.

1: When encountering an emotional crisis, deal with it calmly and avoid being irrational

Happiness and sorrow, all the things done when you are excited will make people regret it, and the more you encounter it, you must be calm. Words spoken, water spilled. When there is an emotional crisis, people are more angry, and if they say it impulsively, it will undoubtedly cause injury, which may lead to even more irreversible adverse effects.

Don't panic, calm yourself, gradually think about preventive measures, wait for you to think clearly about preventive measures, your emotions have already recovered, and the words you say and do will not hurt you.

2: When encountering an emotional crisis, learn to empathize

Men are different from women in terms of emotional handling, men are more objective when arguing, and there is only a difference between right and wrong; Women, on the other hand, are more rational, and although they are unforgiving in their words when they quarrel, they have endured it with tears in their rough and concrete actions. Therefore, when a man encounters an emotional crisis during a quarrel, he should be appropriately soft, and when a woman sees that your courage is weakened by working harder, then she feels that this man still loves her, and she will also have an impact, and the dispute will not become more and more noisy.

In a nutshell, it is mentioned in the book "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" that boys rarely apologize and rarely say "I'm really sorry" to her. Mainly because, on Mars, apologizing means that you have done something wrong, and you must be responsible and make up for your mistakes. The book also mentions that when there is an emotional crisis, women do not focus on finding solutions to the problem immediately, but care more about whether they tell their true feelings and cause others to understand and pity.

Therefore, men and women are still very different in terms of feelings, we should look at the emotional crisis rationally, and we also need to look at the differences between couples objectively, only by better understanding men and women when there is a problem, what kind of performance and response measures can better ensure the union, so that we can consolidate emotions and be happy.

First, if two people have an emotional crisis because of personality incompatibility, then I think two people can sit down and talk about what kind of personality they have that makes the other person unhappy. If two people still love each other, I think they can change their personalities appropriately according to each other's suggestions, at least their personalities can get along and get along, so that they can have a chance to talk and go on.

Second, if there is an emotional crisis due to a misunderstanding, then I think it is necessary to explain the cause and effect of the incident clearly and solve the misunderstanding. After Xie Shiji opened a misunderstanding, the two would naturally reconcile. Many beautiful relationships are separated because of misunderstandings, end because of misunderstandings, and solve misunderstandings.

Then the emotional crisis does not exist.

Third, there is an emotional crisis due to the obstruction of parents, and I think this situation is very helpless for both people. Maybe two people love each other very much, but it is because of the obstruction of their parents that it has brought a lot of trouble to the love of two people. At this time, I think that if two people love each other firmly, they can try to let each other's parents see their strengths and do their best to get each other's parents to agree that the two of you are together.

Fourth, if two people have an emotional crisis because of a problem with principled loyalty, it is one party who betrays the relationship. Then I don't think it's necessary to deal with this situation at all, just break up. Don't forgive the other person just because they admit their mistakes.

1. When encountering an emotional crisis, deal with it calmly, and don't be impulsive. Second, when encountering an emotional crisis, learn to empathize. What kind of performance and solution can be better achieved in order to better achieve the integration of Jianchang, so as to consolidate the relationship and be happy.

If you have an emotional crisis, it is best to self-examine. If you really have no choice, you can only choose to break up.

What to do when your relationship is in crisis, listen to me and tell you about it.

When facing emotional crisis, think more about others: "It's a pleasure to love others. "When I'm loved, I think:

It's a blessing to be loved! But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by. Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart.

Calm, calm, learn to analyze rationally.

When I have confirmed that my relationship is in a serious emotional crisis, and I find that he is not getting as good as I expected after many rescues of my own, then I will definitely seek help from an emotional specialistOf course, the premise is that I value this relationship very much and am willing to make some efforts for him, so I will choose to meet an emotional expert, and then narrate this matter to him and accept his advice.

We've always heard a saying that 360 lines make a championWe have always heard others saying that there is a succession of techniques and specializations in our lives, so we have to be clear. Maybe you don't know enough about a certain aspect, maybe you can't deal with this aspect well, because no one is omnipotent, there will be no such person, he may be all-encompassing, everything can be solved very well, there will not be anything that can stump him.

So if there is a crisis in the relationship, perhaps the one who knows each other best is each otherBut sometimes it is precisely this understanding that prevents us from seeing the essence of things from an objective point of view, and perhaps you will only think from your own side about the points that cause your conflicts, and you will not be able to objectively discuss the cause and effect of this matter or other aspects of this matter.

At this time, the existence of emotional experts is very necessaryFirst of all, he is not only able to objectively evaluate things between you from the perspective of a third party, evaluate his good or bad and your rights and wrongs, but more importantly, as an expert who specializes in dealing with emotional issues, he may have encountered many such cases, and they have received professional training, and they will definitely be able to give better advice to make your relationship better.

Not really, because I'm an expert in emotion theory myself, and it doesn't make sense.

I won't, because I don't think an emotional specialist can help me sometimes.

Generally speaking, I won't, I'll figure it out myself.

I probably wouldn't, I think I can fix it myself.

No, I feel like the emotional expert is very far away from me.

I won't, I don't think there's anyone who can help me.