Why is life always cruel and how long do I wait!

Updated on society 2024-06-06
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I also have a similar situation as you, my boyfriend and I have a good job, but we are in two cities, his job is more difficult than mine, I decided to go to his side, only I can be together in the past, but only he can find a job over there to help me find a job, but it is so difficult to find a job over there, I don't know what to do, it is impossible to break up, because we both love each other. What to do? I dread the moment before going to bed every day, because I can't help crying for a long time when I think about the difficulties in the future.

    I have the same worries as you, or even more, but there is no way, only wait, but you remember a sentence: "Any difficulty will be solved one day", I use this sentence to encourage myself every time I encounter something difficult to solve, rest assured, God will not let you be trapped in this difficulty forever! There will be a day when any difficulty will be solved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Why wait?

    It's because you haven't made up your mind yet, and your love is not yet mature.

    Got it clear.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Persisting until the end is often only tired, and if there are more of these things in love, it will become miserable.

    Parents are right, a man must first have the ability to support his family, marriage is not something that can be maintained by love alone, but also has responsibility.

    Also, distance is a terrible thing, so for the sake of long-term planning, please come to work in a city as soon as possible!

    Although, you are in pain right now, because love is not understood and supported, if you choose the right person, then your future must be beautiful, gold always has to shine, isn't it?

    Life is like a cup of bitter tea, of course it will not be bitter for a lifetime, but it will always be bitter for a while

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you love someone, even if you wait for him for a lifetime, then what's the matter.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Life is jungle law, no way!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Life was originally very cruel, I remember that I submitted articles to the magazine, and I voted no less than 20 times, but I didn't get it once, no way, I had to read more books.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Parents are for the good of their children, and you should also understand your parents' worries You should think about it yourself, no matter what kind of decision you make, don't regret it if it's good or bad But I believe in fate, no matter how you insist, in the end it will always be yours, not your fate, even if your parents don't object, you and him won't be together Believe me, that's right, don't be so painful!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Wait until you don't want to wait.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I've had the same problem as you, my boyfriend and I ended up breaking up, not because of my parents' opposition, but because I made my own decision because I hated distance. You decide your own things so that you don't regret it, and even if you regret it, you can't blame others, because it's your own decision.

    You tell me?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ideals are not the same as reality.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The more this is the case, the more you have to go out, integrate into life, and feel all kinds of emotions and emotions.

    I used to treat you well, but now I have fallen into the well, which can only prove that you have not made real friends, and now you find that it is still too late; If it is not for the other party itself to be a very narrow person, then you have to find problems from yourself, why did you not get a return for your interactions, why do people want to interact with yourself? Wait, analyze more, it's not terrible to fail, it's terrible to fail again.

    If you are depressed, let it open up, the outside world is big, there are all kinds of birds, far more than what you can see now, know more about life, and so on, you will feel that now because of this thing, you are simply narrow-minded.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The road is a person who walks out, constantly strengthens himself, learns a craft or technology in his free time, starts a business, works well, has technology and others look up to you, and even the boss is polite to talk to a skilled worker.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Life has no enmity with you, why be too cruel to you and too gentle to others? Be sarcastic, be sarcastic, what are you afraid of, you live your own life. Let's go to work! Don't feel sorry for yourself here. As long as you're not doing sales, it's okay to be introverted and outward.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The town and street gods stick, look slowly, and calm down.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is society, you will slowly understand in the future, what you have to do now is to make yourself stronger.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It doesn't matter, you are what you are when you are told you are, the key is how you see yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everyone has desires, and they have been told since childhood to protect themselves, fight back if necessary, and take down the people who bully you. This feeling was protected and raised, but gradually changed from self-preservation to offense, because everyone wants to live better, and that desire makes them constantly encroach on other people's territory, and others also want to encroach on others, resulting in people killing each other, forming a situation of opposition between everyone and everyone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want to open up, look at life simply, don't be too careful, and you won't be so desperate

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Reality and ideals are not the same thing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The child takes a deep breath and tells himself that the world is beautiful.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Cinderella. Singing: Zheng Jun.

    How could I be hooked on you.

    I'm asking myself.

    I can give up anything.

    It's hard to leave today.

    You're not beautiful.

    But you're so cute.

    Oops, Cinderella.

    My Cinderella.

    I'm always breaking your heart.

    I've always been cruel.

    I told you not to take it seriously.

    Because I can't believe it.

    You are so beautiful.

    And you're so cute.

    Oops, Cinderella.

    My Cinderella.

    Maybe you didn't think my heart would hurt.

    If this is a dream.

    I would like to be drunk for a long time, rather than wake up.

    I have been patient.

    I waited so.

    Maybe it's waiting for you.

    Maybe it's waiting for you.

    How could I be hooked on you.

    I'm asking myself.

    I can give up anything.

    It's hard to leave today.

    You're not beautiful.

    But you're so cute.

    Oops, Cinderella.

    My Cinderella.

    I'm always breaking your heart.

    I've always been cruel.

    I told you not to take it seriously.

    Because I can't believe it.

    You are so beautiful.

    And you're so cute.

    Oops, Cinderella.

    My Cinderella.

    I was patient.

    I waited so.

    Maybe it's waiting for you.

    Maybe it's waiting for you.

    Maybe it's waiting for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Everyone has to suffer, otherwise it will be difficult to gain a foothold in society.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Some things are just helpless!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't just think about yourself, you should think more about your family.

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