I m always worried that I ve climbed the other person, what should I do?

The reason why you always have this kind of worry is that you yourself don't have enough confidence in yourself, and it is also because the other party doesn't fully trust you. Two people who truly love each other do not have anything high or low, they are simply and purely together.

I think it's the other party's family background or something, which has caused too much pressure on you, which will make you so worried, and only you can help yourself at this time.

If you are worried that you are climbing the other person, then you need to double down on yourself and try to make yourself fully worthy of the other person, which can also increase your confidence in the relationship. I think you yourself will want to climb each other, then it is estimated that many people around you think that you have climbed each other, so since you can't have the same family as the other party, then you can study hard, through the postgraduate entrance examination, the doctorate examination to match your identity, or you are already an office worker, then you have to work hard, work hard, and become the person valued by the company, so as to get the opportunity to improve, and make yourself stronger. At the same time, you can reduce the doubts of others about yourself and say that you are climbing high to each other.

You have to have enough confidence in yourself, you have to believe that your love can get rid of those external things, you have to believe in each other, believe that the other party doesn't think so, if he (she) thinks that you have climbed him (her), if he (she) cares about these appearances from the beginning, then he will not get along with you at all from the beginning, let alone say that he wants to marry you and want to be with you for a lifetime. Of course, it is also possible that the other party fails to give you enough security, which will make you feel high, so you can not be in a hurry to get married, date first, and give each other some time. If you're in a state of worry, then I don't think there's any need to be together, you can't get over yourself by yourself.

I don't know how you judge yourself as inferior to him, being with him is a high climb, not a succumb. Even if by secular standards, he is divorced and you are unmarried; He is past the age of his establishment, and you are just right; He is starting a business with an unclear future; And you work hard and have a stable income; In short, you are better than him in these aspects. Therefore, whether you continue to develop with him or not, you must first break this inferiority complex psychologically and face your feelings with confidence.

In love, there is no one who climbs whom, only who loves whom more, and who is more suitable for whom. Spiritually, they are all equal individuals.

On the other hand, if you feel that he is perceptive and transparent in front of him, it does not necessarily mean that he is better than you. He is 5 years older, so he is naturally better than you in terms of human sophistication, so there is no need to think that he is inferior to others. Perhaps, it's just that you're simple-minded, and he's deeply involved in the world.

You don't know his current situation, and you don't want to be arrogant because of this. If it really feels good, you can only know if he is short-term only by trying. Only by understanding can you make a judgment. In the face of love, we must be brave and confident.

I have been thinking like this for a while ago, no matter how much my friends persuade me, I can't get out of my dead circle.

It's just that I've been thinking that my boyfriend is tall, and I'm average.

My boyfriend isn't very handsome, but he's definitely higher among the boys than I am among the girls.

My boyfriend is in good shape, but I'm a big fat guy.

My boyfriend is very gentle to people, and I'm very good to me, and I don't like to talk to other girls.

I asked my friend, and I said, you say, what does he like about me.

My friend joked that he liked how self-aware you were.

Of course, I knew my friend was just joking with me, but I still felt uncomfortable. Because I really want to know what my boyfriend likes about me.

I always feel like I'm going to be too high for him, so sometimes I'm impatient to talk to him, and I even think about breaking up, because I think I'm going to have low self-esteem in this relationship.

Later, he seemed to notice that something was wrong with me, and he kept asking me why. I felt annoyed, and then I got angry and told the truth.

He was so angry that he said none of this was a thing, all he liked was me.

He said that if no one threw a tantrum with him one day, he might be so bored that he got used to it.

He said he liked me, always optimistic and cheerful.

He said he liked me and could tell at a glance every time he wasn't happy, and he said that my understanding made him happier than any comfort.

I was really touched.

So then I thought, why should I worry about myself climbing high but him, no matter how I don't suffer.

Why don't you find yourself unhappy?

This is a very normal process, and by the time you get through this period, your relationship will be more stable.

Don't be so unconfident in yourself, since you can be together, then he likes you, you must have some advantages that you don't know are shining.

Nowadays, many families are adopted daughters looking forward to Gaomen, and they all hope that their daughters can find a wealthy in-law family with better family conditions than their own family, but sometimes the right family is also very important, but we have to admit that the right family will reduce the possibility of many disputes and contradictions. Sometimes when you feel that you have climbed the other party, you have to adjust your mentality, and try to compensate the other party more from the other side.

Give yourself more confidence No matter what your identity is, you are a girl and a princess, and you are no worse than others!

This is your psychological problem, no one climbs anyone, as long as two people love each other, those are fine.

You don't need to say anything, ask for help in case of trouble, don't call Gao Pan; Only by increasing self-confidence can you stay away from negative influences, and even similar negative words will not appear in your dictionary in the future.

If you say that love is high, you don't have a little bit in you, and others can take a fancy to you?! If you talk about friendship, to be honest, I never care who others say I'm with who is particularly good (a bit of a high-climbing tone) and you know him well. Someone once said that I knew his boss very well, and I asked him rhetorically:

Did he tell you that he knew me well? If he didn't say it himself, how dare I say that I know him? ”

You can say that dating is a matter of two people, and no one climbs the other, after all, they all live by their own efforts.

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There is no need to leave how the other party is going to say it, because in terms of the relationship between you, it is your kind of life, so there is no need to pay attention to how the other party says such things at this time, it will only affect your real life, so at this time, as long as you manage your own emotional life, you can do it.

Because for some people, their jealousy may be stronger, so there may be such a behavior at this time, and some people may even create some adverse effects on your marriage from the side, so you must protect your love at this time.

How can you speak like that? Won't speak.

A man loves face, don't expose him to his face, he won't be able to get off the stage.

It's not your fault that your husband is small and small-minded.

It's a trifle. If you're married, you're going to live your whole life.,Why bother...

You're too outspoken. Your husband lost face not because you said he had no money, but because you said that he lied to you about how many houses he had. Anyone whose lies are exposed in front of the public will be annoyed, let alone husband and wife?

This is the privacy between the two of you, and it is a sweet little secret that can be recalled in the future, but it was made public in front of the public as an argument to refute "it is convincing to marry", and everyone will be angry. Moreover, this kind of reasonable, well-founded and factual, as soon as it sounds, is like a real joke, not a joke, but a mockery.

Today, my husband's aunt said that I am blessed, I found my husband, the most valuable thing in my husband's house is the TV, the family is surrounded by walls, and I also applied for a poor household, my family has a house in the urban area, I have a car, and my rural hometown will be demolished, I don't want to lose my husband's face, ignore her, don't respond, and after talking to my husband, my husband actually said, his aunt doesn't look down on me, angry with me, I am really speechless.

Men have good faces, and his relatives are really good at being people.

That's right, I thought it was a joke when I saw it, and they just heard it and felt differently, and then forgot about it after a while.

Men care a lot about face, and you said that on this occasion.

You're not wrong, it's the truth after all, and besides, you said it in a joking tone, he's too cautious!

Women are not satisfied, weak men have a bottom line, men don't resist, that is in their hearts, this woman is in love with her, the two are together to respect each other, don't go too far.

There are those who are worthy and unworthy, and the woman rides on the man's head during the day, and the man rides on the woman's body at night.

When two people are together, you can't just look at your appearance, even if you look handsome, but your heart is not good, what's the use of not being good for her, that's not raising a little white face.

Sarcasm about you may be a problem with her personality, or it may be something you are doing wrong.

How so? If one of the spouses is always sarcastic about the other, it can only mean that they look down on the other party from the bottom of their hearts. Or it's the expectation that the other side will be better.

didn't say who was worthy of whom, just a willingness to fight and a willingness to suffer. Maybe that's how they live! Alas....

After marriage, he dragged his majesty and took revenge at night.

Most women love to show off, so you can meet her needs.

This woman's foolishness has been said since ancient times to respect her husband and love her son, and while sarcastically and belittles her husband, she is also belittleing herself.

What is there to climb high and not climb, to be blind when you get married?

Since we're together, why bother, cherish it.

I don't think the woman is very good.

Is the man weak and incompetent???

Your heart is always hard for me to reach.

My love will always be on you.

I'm afraid that if you get there, you dump her.

It shows that you think you are good and self-righteous.