Confused about love, blind date, and marriage.

Updated on society 2024-06-04
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Marriage needs to be tolerant, and even have a certain feeling.

    The personalities of the two are also related to the future of their marriage...

    The two can walk together, no matter how much you pay for her or how little she pays for you, this is not a place where a man needs to be effective.

    Because,Girls like to be considerate,Generous,Even tolerant of their own men。。。

    Seeing that the other party has shortcomings (different consumption concepts), to abandon her, instead of guiding her or reminding her, this is not what a man should do!

    After all, everyone has shortcomings, people are not saints, and even saints will have shortcomings or mistakes.

    When you see that she has shortcomings, in the same way, she also sees that you have shortcomings, and then you need to raise her or guide her, not abandon her immediately...

    Will you still do this to another girl when you meet another girl in the future?

    At this point, you have to think about yourself ...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I've been looking for it almost 20 times. Finally, I found what I liked.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Life is all inclusive, there is no perfect You look at her and her shortcomings, don't you see the shortcomings in you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your real partner hasn't appeared yet, wait slowly, a good meal is not afraid of being late.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because you are demanding too much of others ... You don't want a girlfriend... It's a goddess ...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't look for your favorite, tired. Find the one who loves you the most, worry-free, just look for it, in fact, women are the same, there is no best, you can see the truth in life, not in the mouth, but in the heart, you can feel it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People After a long time, a person will develop an inexplicable fear and sadness.

    There's no reason why it will affect you all the time.

    Because the people you come into contact with are all different.

    Calm your heart, treat each other seriously, give yourself a chance, in fact, happiness is all around you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't you already know the reason, you don't like you, you don't like you, you don't like you.

    It's not easy to find one that looks right in the eye, but if you don't contact a few more and don't compare, how can you know who is suitable and who is not.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't worry, that person will always show up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Nowadays, blind date has become the fastest and most accepted way in the marriage market.

    Many people think that blind date is a way to quickly get rid of a single and a mode to quickly enter marriage. But there are still a lot of disadvantages of blind dates, many people go on blind dates just to get married, this result does not have too many requirements for the feelings of two people, everyone will understand each other's situation, family income and other basic conditions clearly, and you can get married quickly if you can accept it. In fact, this created two people who had no feelings and entered into a marriage.

    When the marriage begins, everything is calm, it is easy to feel confused about your marriage, which is very normal, but it is also inevitable.

    If you are confused about marriage because of blind date, but you don't know what to do, it is better to get rid of yourself from the state of marriage, try to get along with your other half like a lover, and gradually cultivate a relationship. Sometimes what I think I don't have feelings may be just one-sided thoughts, and I find the good in each other in getting along day after day. Slowly hide the shortcomings, so that you can start to brew a good emotional foundation.

    Marriage needs to be based on feelings, and marriage without feelings is not much necessary in nature, so if we want to live happily, we must find all the happiness and satisfaction from life.

    But if there is no emotion, there is already a fear and rejection of life, maybe in the end the marriage of two people can not go too long, after all, life needs two people to maintain together, but if one party has the idea of retreating, the pace of progress will be blocked, and it will be difficult for two people to move towards a happy ending. Therefore, we should try our best to put ourselves in this relationship, strive to feel the happiness that this relationship brings to us, don't erase everything because of preconceived ideas, exude charm to attract each other in continuous exploration, and constantly explore each other's shining points.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    At this time, you need to adjust your state, know what you want, and you can get married without love, but both parties must trust each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In this case, you should communicate effectively with your husband, explain what two people think in each other's hearts, ask each other how they feel about you, and then you can do a series of surprise activities to effectively impress each other and only stabilize your relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't have any feelings for him, two people can cultivate a relationship, because feelings can be cultivated.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    We have to know that married life and love life are not the same, love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. If you are confused about your marriage, then you can also talk to your husband or go out and find a job, which will keep you busy. And the relationship can be slowly deepened in the process of getting along, even if there is no emotion now, it can be felt after many years of life.

    If you are very confused about your married life, you can also tell your husband about this situation or go to a professional emotional expert, through confiding, you can let the emotional expert understand your problem, and let the emotional expert help you solve the problem. We must know that married life is inherently hard, because in married life we must tolerate each other's shortcomings, and also endure some small problems of the other party, at this time you will feel very tired. So if you are a little confused, then you must tell your husband about this situation, and then you can find the meaning of life again.

    You can also get a job so that you can make your life fuller, make yourself less confused, and give yourself the motivation to move forward.

    At this time, you can go for a job, so that you can make your life full, and you can also find the meaning of marriage. And you can also have a child with your husband, through giving birth to a child can make the family more warm, and it can also make you feel what marriage is. After giving birth to a child, you will be able to feel the responsibility of the family and the meaning of marriage, and you will no longer be confused, but will concentrate on taking care of the child.

    Therefore, we must be strong, as long as we get through the confusion period of marriage, we can understand the happiness of marriage.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Faced with such a situation, you should adjust your mentality, make yourself more sober and rational, and also believe in your marriage. You can also slowly cultivate feelings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should choose to communicate more with your husband, you need two people to understand each other's situation, and you can choose to go out on dates often.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When encountering such a situation, you must adjust your mentality, and then you should get along with your husband more, and you should take marriage seriously.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Every man has a different attitude towards the family.

    It's more related to the environment in which he grew up, and also to whether or not he has really grown up. A mature man has to take on the responsibilities of being a husband, a parent, and a child in family life. Let him know how to bear these responsibilities.

    If you quarrel just over a few things, there's nothing wrong with that. But behind the small things, whether there will be big things, I don't know.

    To maintain a harmonious family relationship, it is necessary for two people to communicate frequently, in a calm and calm manner.

    Wishing you happiness!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The most important thing for a woman and a man is happiness and security, think about it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Forget it, let's withdraw, we don't look down on each other, it's good to leave early, it's pointless like this.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Life is like this, treat yourself with a normal heart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I understand your disappointment and sadness.

    The current society is indeed what you evaluated, reality! And power and money are very important.

    The ups and downs of the love experience may not be a bad thing, but the positive side can make you see this society more clearly and see through people's hearts.

    In a **, it was said: What is more terrible than ghosts and gods is the human heart.

    The two men you met are indeed the worse and inferior among the men. This also illustrates a truth, online dating is risky, and investment needs to be cautious.

    Love can be more reliable than ordinary life.

    You're a doctor, and you're a city dweller, so you can look good. It should be possible to find a man who is very good.

    I hope you can pick yourself up and give yourself a little more vacation, join some hobby groups, and expand your social network. Choose your partner from these friends.

    There are many love traps online, and most of the people who go online are idle or boring people. You're looking for something serious, but the other party is suspicious. After all, you can't know his life, family and social interactions. Just by virtue of his one-sided words, it is difficult to distinguish between truth and falsehood.

    I hope you will come out of the shadow of love as soon as possible. Your conditions are really good.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't guess the actual meaning of love, give up the code and slow down, and walk on the road you want will be happier.

    You don't love him, he doesn't care about you, you think this kind of love is still necessary.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Is it possible to live a good life alone for a while?

    Quietly let everything before pass.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    At any time, don't be sad for a negative man, women should know how to be sad, and in the end, it is their own heart that is broken. If that man is ruthless, you can't break his heart, so pack up your grief and live well.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Sometimes I've been crazy, but I've faced waiting, but as long as you love, waiting is not such a difficult thing!

    So, go crazy! In the most beautiful years! Youth will eventually decay, time is fair to everyone, everyone only has a few years of freshness, and no one can afford to lose

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In fact, after being together for a long time, the long-distance feeling of the world eggplant does not exist at the beginning, and there is a good saying:

    Distance produces beauty, because distance allows two people to maintain their own sense of mystery, and there is a place where they want to explore each other, so they will collide with the spark of love, but once this distance disappears, the feeling will slowly fade away. In fact, when two people are together, they don't necessarily have to know each other's everything, know all each other's friends, and leave a part of the space for each other, so that they will have more worries and misses. Love is so strange, when you are not together, you desperately want to be together, and it is a wild place, and you will never be separated, but when you are together, there is no such grandiose rhetoric.

    Perhaps, it is because, after searching together for a long time, they will find each other's shortcomings and find each other's bad habits, but as long as love is persistent and tested, they will tolerate each other and help each other to talk about correcting it, instead of, when they see these, let go of each other's hands and separate. Therefore, true love is in the world, it is really rare, when there is fate, you must seize it, otherwise, you will regret it...

    I hope you are really happy ...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hold on and believe that he and she are your favorite, irreplaceable.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Distance produces beauty, you have to have a sense of mystery, otherwise you are a transparent person.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Perhaps, people are curious.

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