What should you do in the face of friends who just treat you as a trash can ?

Everyone needs to have a "trash can", and if you don't want to, then maybe the friendship is over.

Everyone's existence in the social relationship structure of friends is different, just like you and your friend Xiao Liu are just friends of wine and meat, but you and Xiao Zhang can be friends of life and death. Similarly, your position in Xiao Liu's friendship with Xiao Zhang is also different.

If you have a friend who always comes to you to confide in your troubles, you should be happy first. A lot of things in his heart, maybe he didn't say it to his parents and wife. In addition to doing a good job of "trash can", we must also give positive incentives.

In the face of such friends, it is worth getting along for a long time to switch relationships.

There was a classmate in my class who was as pessimistic as me, and this brought us together, and she always liked to cry to me alone in front of me, and at first I comforted her and told her about my hard work.

But I didn't expect that she only cared about herself, but I shouldn't be like this, so the two of us were pessimistic, sad and sad, I couldn't bear it, I broke up with her, and never saw her again.

I don't like such friends, and I met a girl before. He said he liked me before, and then he was with another boy, and after the two of them broke up, he came to me again, saying that he liked me before, and then he got back together with that boy, and this girl had too many scheming, and I hated it very much, and then I had no contact with him.

Since he doesn't value me and treats me like a trash can, then why should I be friends with him? He just wants to put all the bad things on me, why should I cherish this friendship with him. I'm going to make it clear to him, and if he does that to me again, I'm going to be indifferent.

Friend, this word has many definitions for everyone. There are wine and meat friends, ordinary friends, confidant brothers, etc., and there will definitely be different ways to treat different friends.

For me, I am undoubtedly very happy if a friend uses me as his "trash can" and tells me some of his annoyances or unpleasantness. Because, he didn't treat me as an outsider, but really regarded me as an existence with a very good relationship. Although I want to be a trash can, but this also proves that my friends trust me, after all, some words and some thoughts are not said to others, not to my family, but to me, that at least proves that I am also a special existence for him, isn't it worth being happy?

Don't always look at what others should do, but think more about what you have done. Friends are mutual, and people have given their trust in themselves, so being a qualified listener and enlightening him so that his mood is no longer depressed is not what friends should do.

I think I will stay away from such friends, such people will only tell you about their negative emotions, and never share some joyful things with you, and these negative emotions will also affect your study and life.

I don't think it's necessary to listen to him tell you something bad, if he talks to you again, you can interrupt him and tell him that you have something to go, and after a long time he will find out that you are different and will not look for you again.

Give somebody a taste of his own medicine. If he doesn't respect you, then why should you respect him? The word friend is really broad. Some people see you as a true friend, but others don't.

If I had such a friend, I would have cut it off from him.

Thinking of you when he needs you, and hanging you aside when he doesn't, I don't think he sees you as a friend, but as a tool. The interaction between people needs to be heart-to-heart, and since the other party treats you like this, it is no fun to continue to be friends.

What are the characteristics of treating you as a trash can "friend"? The interaction between people is to help each other on the difficult road of life. People with negative energy will only use you as a trash can for emotions.

Good interpersonal relationships.

Not only will it make you feel happy, but it will also provide you with good social support.

Research in Australia shows that people with stable relationships live longer.

But a "toxic" friendship will not only make you feel negative, but also make your blood sugar rise and your immunity decrease. Learn to deal with failed relationships and avoid negative emotions.

It's also important. 1.Don't dwell on bad relationships.

"Breaking up" with a friend is no less painful than a lover. Even this bad relationship can make us feel guilty, afraid of rejection, afraid of failing again, and even hurt our self-esteem.

If you've been dwelling on self-doubt or sadness, you may isolate yourself and affect other normal relationships. Think about your strengths, ask other friends how they really feel, and avoid putting yourself too low.

2.Find the emotional expression that works for you.

It's a bad feeling to be hurt or left out in the cold by a friend. While everyone approaches it differently, the core is to find the right way to express it. You can cry, you can talk to other friends, and you can observe and record your feelings.

Expressing affection doesn't mean that you're going to end the friendship, it's about learning to make peace with this kind of thing.

3.Make your life more quality.

While revenge can make you feel good for a while, the harm of this vicious cycle is endless. It's better to turn your attention to yourself, try new hobbies, spend more time doing what you like, avoid being immersed in painful feelings for a long time, and gain new friendships.

Friendships are not as strong as we think and may end with changes in circumstances, such as moving, transferring, attending higher schools. At different stages of life, we will have different choices. In this case, alienation is actually the only way to grow.

I don't think about you, I don't know how to take into account your feelings, I only take advantage of you, I only think of you when I'm in trouble, I don't want you to celebrate when I'm successful, etc.

Their characteristic is that they usually don't play with you, they have their own circle of friends, and they will only talk to you after they have troubles, and dump their troubles to you like garbage, but they will never think of you when they don't have troubles, and will only look for you when they need to talk.

So if you are a friend who treats you as a trash can, they will be very inattentive, they will care about your feelings, and they will make you happy anyway. If you're unhappy, they'll throw a tantrum at you.

He is very petty and treacherous. Doing things recklessly. He loves to complain and complains every day. Emotional instability. will often get angry at you for no reason. The city is very deep.

This kind of friend is generally more pessimistic, has a not positive attitude towards life, and may be a little depressed, often in a bad mood, and has no opinions.

Everyone will make a lot of friends. But many times, the friends we make may not be friends in the true sense of the word. If the other person just used me as an emotional trash can, then I should have calmed down and re-examined our relationship.

Personally, I think there are two phenomena in this situation. One is that the other party didn't mean it. The other party is actually a very kind and well-behaved person, but because of their own pressure and emotional problems, they have to talk to you.

This phenomenon of emotional trash cans was inadvertently created. I think if that's the case, let's not be so aggressive. This kind of friendship can still be maintained and maintained as much as possible.

First of all, no matter who you are, it is a bad thing to treat you as an emotional trash can, and we have to find a way to solve and change it. But if the other person is also important to you, try not to ruin your friendship. You can talk to him directly about what you think, or treat him the way he is, and you can treat him as an emotional trash can first.

Put this act on him. Then when he confronts you or is dissatisfied with you, you say what is in your heart. Let him know how to put himself in each other's shoes.

Of course, if the above methods did not calm him down and made him realize that he was wrong, then I don't think such a friend should be. It's actually very rare to be able to meet a good friend. Friendship is also very precious and pure.

But if the other party can't even empathize with each other, then such a friend really can't be regarded as a good friend.

If you think about it in many ways and determine that the other party is not a good friend, if the other party is a better person or a better person. My personal advice is not to do something drastic and turn the two of you against each other. You can gradually stay away from her and be indifferent to your relationship, after all, you can stay a line and see each other in the future.

At this time, I definitely don't want to associate with this friend anymore, because he just treats me as an emotional trash can, and he doesn't care about me after complaining, which will also make me feel very uncomfortable.

Friends are supposed to talk to each other, and that's a matter of course.

If you encounter an emotional conflict, you can also express it with your friends, isn't that what friends should be?

I would listen carefully to him about his relationship problems, because friends must help each other. I can understand him very well.

Personally, I think that people who can exchange sincerity for sincerity are called good friends, and such feelings are called friendship. Then you're quite puzzled. You are all true friends.

Why classify people? That's because each of us is a different individual, and each of us has some shortcomings. Even if you are a good friend, not all topics can be discussed together, you like to worship idols, but your friend Qiqi thinks it is a waste of money and meaningless.

You are very anxious about the future and always thinking about how to get better, while your friend Xiaohan is very happy every day, not thinking about the future, only caring about the stability of the present. Then you can't chase beans with Qiqi, and you can't talk to Xiaohan about your future thoughts. What we say in life is "talk when you see people, talk nonsense" can also be applied to friends.

This is not an opportunistic approach, on the contrary, precisely to make the emotions between two people more intimate.

So what is the right dose? One month. When something breaks us down for up to a month, we can find friends to comfort us.

Friendship is a sincere treatment of two hearts, not the beating of one heart to another. - Lu Xun After we ask our friends for emotional value and seek advice, we should try to repay them.

Today, I complained about the boss with my friends and invited the other party to drink a cup of milk tea; If you have a problem, ask a friend for help, and then invite the other person to dinner. You may wonder why we are so clear about our separation, we are so picky. If a friend often asks you out to hang out and tells you how bad her partner is and how great her clients are, but eating is always your money, will you feel a little uncomfortable?

Not only does it provide sentimental value, but it also chases money. I think the next time the other party asks you out, you will definitely refuse. Over time, your impression of the other person will be greatly reduced.

You shouldn't want to maintain this friendship. The camaraderie is also very close.

If only one party is giving and the other party is just taking, the relationship will not last. If you really care about the friendship, you have to find a way to balance it so that it is a healthy relationship. Friendship not only brings people out of the feeling of storm, but also frees people from dark and chaotic thoughts and into bright and rational thoughts.

We should all cherish and manage this kind of relationship beyond blood relations, and exchange sincerity for sincerity.

This is actually bad. If you always treat your friend as an emotional trash can and throw all the negative emotions at him, it will inevitably affect your relationship.

Of course, this is not good, the person who can tolerate your emotions shows that he is really good to you, you should put away this temper and don't vent it on the other party, which will make the other party very sad and make you lose someone who is good to you.

It's really not good, it affects yourself and your friends more, and both parties won't be particularly happy, it's such pain, and it's not very good.

Negative emotions are like household garbage, if a small amount of garbage is placed in an environment with self-cleaning ability, the environment will not be seriously affected, and it will return to its previous state after a long time. If there is domestic garbage into this environment every day, exceeding the ability of self-purification, the pollution will be transmitted to this environment, which is not good.

I don't think it's good to always treat friends as my emotional trash can, after all, it brings too many negative emotions to friends, and friends will avoid them.

It's not good, so that the friend will slowly move away from you, because the friend will feel that you don't value him at all.