Is it easier for mother in law and grandfather to bring out naughty children

No, it also depends on the education method of the elderly, but the elderly are always poor at seeing children.

Whether it is parents or grandparents, it is even more difficult to successfully bring a good baby.

Nowadays, every family is busy, and parents are busy with work, in order to provide better material conditions for their babies. So the work of taking care of the baby is handed over to the child's grandparents and grandparents.

But after all, the elderly are older, and it is inevitable that there will be some inconsiderate things, and some unpredictable accidents will occur that will hurt the baby.

Grandma watched the baby accidentally fall, and Bao's mother warmed the whole family.

Unexpectedly, suddenly the child's center of gravity was unstable, and he rose and fell from the seat.

The child was crying at that time, and the grandmother hurried to help the child. When the mother heard the movement, she immediately went to comfort the baby.

At this time, the grandmother caused the child to fall because of her own negligence, and she was suddenly at a loss, standing helplessly, not knowing what to do.

The grandfather even loudly blamed the grandmother, thinking that the grandmother did not take good care of the child, which caused the child to have an accident.

Grandma felt even more guilty, her head lowered, and she couldn't refute it for a while, so she could only accept Grandpa's accusations.

When the mother saw this scene, she coaxed the baby and said warmly: Which child doesn't wrestle, it doesn't matter.

Such an embarrassing scene was successfully resolved by Bao Ma's words, which is enough to see the wisdom of this Bao Ma.

thinks that grandpa is right to accuse grandma, and is afraid that Bao's mother will not be happy, so she keeps this matter in her heart, and reprimanding grandma herself is also a way to relieve her mother's leniency

It is important to have a harmonious family atmosphere, and the environment in which children grow up is inseparable.

In fact, in this little thing, grandma is very innocent, grandpa is very sensible, and Bao Ma is also very warm-hearted, and the three parties have created a good family atmosphere for the family, and this good family atmosphere is very important to the growth of the baby.

In this family, the mother-in-law knows how to be considerate of the daughter-in-law, let the daughter-in-law eat with peace of mind, and take care of the children to eat, which shows that the mother-in-law knows how to feel sorry for the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law does not blame the mother-in-law for the mother-in-law's mistakes, but knows how to solve the siege for the grandmother, tolerates and understands the grandmother, which shows the daughter-in-law's respect for the mother-in-law.

In such a good family atmosphere, the child's growth will be particularly positive and healthy, and it will also bring many benefits to the child's growth.

There are many benefits to a harmonious family atmosphere, and children grow up positively.

Because of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, many families make it difficult for their sons to be caught in the middle. Not only that, but the baby will also be deeply affected, which in turn will affect the baby's growth process.

Look at people. If the sons they bring out are very capable, bring them to them. If it's a trash, bring your own.

Lack of family affection and care, too indulgent children, reluctant to discipline, so that in the end they can't control their children!

Children will be estranged from their parents and rely on their grandparents, so it's good to be able to bring them themselves.

1.Spoiling the baby too much hinders the baby's self-growth.

When the grandparents are young, because of the restrictions of living and working conditions, they may not be able to take good care of their children, they are easy to produce a kind of compensation psychology, the love for their children and the love for their grandchildren are all concentrated on the grandchildren, and they love the baby and pay too much attention to it, so that everything is done for them, accommodating the baby everywhere, resulting in problems such as willfulness, strong dependence and low self-care ability of the baby.

In terms of historical tasks:

A generation only cultivates and educates one generation, the times are changing, there is still a gap between the two generations, the gap between the next generation will be larger, the exchange of learning, living habits, the direction of values, etc. will have an impact, and the ability to adapt to society in the future will have a great impact.

For grandparents;

What I see now is that grandparents' love for their grandchildren is more doting, they are very fond of their children, and they always give them the best for their grandchildren's lives, but it is difficult to understand what contemporary children really need. They dote on their children and are reluctant to beat them, and their children will have certain defects in their personalities.

To parents: Isn't it a pity for us parents to lack the company of parents in the growth of children, and how sad it is to lack this scenery in our life journey. When we are old, we look back on the time we spent with our precious babies and see a blank space, how empty. The future of the child is placed by the side of the grandparents, what a dereliction of duty this parent deserves!

For children: the child is with his grandparents, and the children who play with him are accompanied by their parents, he is different from others, he will feel different from others, he will be isolated by others, he is very lonely in his heart, he can't feel the beauty of the world, and the deeper he will hurt the people who love him.

The above views are all common phenomena that I have found, and can only be said to be the behavior of most ordinary people in society. For other cases, it is a different matter to think that grandparents are high-level intellectuals, grandparents are illiterate, and parents are divorced.

I have two children, our family Dabao before the age of 1 was brought by myself, 1 year old to 2 and a half years old was brought by my mother-in-law, mother-in-law took 1 and a half years, and now Xiaobao from birth to want to be raised by me at 8 months. I think Xiaobao's future will also be led by me, the mother. <>

After Dabao was weaned, I was anxious to go to work, in fact, in that situation at that time, my husband's income was also very objective, and I didn't need to go to work to make money to support my family, of course, I went to work not only to make money, but also to think about not thinking at home and not keeping up with society, the whole person was out of touch with society. So let my mother-in-law take the children and I go out to work. However, the year I went out to work was really torturous for my children.

Mother-in-law is very young, very avant-garde, food and clothing for the child are very hygienic, compared to many mothers-in-law are very good, but the company of grandma and mother's company is not the same, the child is not called my mother during that time, there is anything to call grandma, sleep with grandma during the day, if you can't reach out to touch grandma, you will cry. At this time, the child is already insecure, and even sleeps at night with his hands touching me, or leaning on my body to sleep. And before he had always slept in a small bed by himself, and he would not rely on me, during that time, because his mother-in-law had developed a habit of sleeping with him in his arms during the day, and since then he has been sleeping with adults, otherwise he will not be able to sleep well at night.

The child is getting older, the mother-in-law leads him to the small supermarket, every day to buy a pack of QQ sugar, after a long time the baby's teeth are a little black, I see very strange, I think how can a good tooth be blackened, there will be tooth decay, I asked my mother-in-law, he told me that it may be to eat sugar, I said not to eat less sugar, after eating sugar to drink more water, and mother-in-law said that it is okay, when the time comes, the teeth will be replaced, I said that such a young child to change teeth also have to be 6 or 7 years old. I said a lot of bitter things, and my mother-in-law said that he knew. But the child's teeth are already broken.

The mother-in-law looks at her grandson very kindly, and the child tries her best to meet him whatever he wants, unlike the mother who has many requirements for the child, and the child does not understand that many requirements are based on his basic health. The position of the mother-in-law with the child is different from the mother's, whether it is good or bad, there is no absolute, because the position is different.

Mother-in-law is bad at taking care of children, they are all taking care of children in the way of the old life, and every time I feed the children, I have to bite off my mouth to give the children okay, so I would rather bring them myself than let my mother-in-law help and can't get along.