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First of all, if a person's thinking is very extreme, then be careful. Nowadays, marriage is based on the premise of voluntariness, and there is no blind marriage or dumb marriage. Before getting married, both men and women will have a period of communication and understanding, if in the process of dating, you find that the other party is a very radical person, and it is easy to lose your temper, then be careful.

When the other party is angry, you can carefully observe their behavior, if there are symptoms such as bruising tendons and not being able to control their emotions, then you should be more careful, it is very likely that the other party will use violence to solve the problems in the marriage when you get married in the future.

Second, the desire to control is very strong, and you have to manage everything. Some people have a very strong desire to control, so strong that they have to control what color clothes they buy and what they eat. If the two go out on a date, then basically they have no right to speak, and the other party is controlling them throughout the whole process.

You even dressed up for today's date, but he will ask you to change your clothes before going out, just because he doesn't like the color you were wearing. If you are not in the same place, you must report your itinerary at all times.

What you eat, who you meet, what you do. At first, you may feel that you are very concerned about yourself, but after a long time, it feels like a shackle, with a pair of eyes staring at you all the time, and there is no personal space at all.

Third, learn more about each other's family of origin. A person's personality has a lot to do with the family of origin, and if a person grows up in a complete and happy family, he usually does not have violent tendencies. Especially in the original family, his parents are very affectionate, and he himself grew up receiving everyone's love since he was a child, so such people are generally gentle.

If there is a lot of quarrel and anger in the family of origin, and even if his father is already violent, then be more careful. It is likely that such emotions will be passed on to the child, and the child will grow up to solve the problem in the same violent way.

It's very simple, you can look at his usual behavior. You can have more time to observe him, and the fox's tail will be exposed.

Well, look at his personality traits, and the things he likes, and the way he usually deals with certain things, etc., if he is very irritable and irritable, it is also one of them, anyway, they will be very extreme at that time, and they will take it as a habit to vent themselves.

I think it's best to look at some of his subtle words and deeds, so it's more real.

I think the police's approach is legal, because the police only want to let the woman vent her inner dissatisfaction through this method, and the police also understood the situation at that time, knowing that the relationship between the two husbands and wives has not broken down, so it is concluded that the woman will not kill the man. The fact that the police also obtained the man's consent shows that the man really wanted to reconcile with his wife and realized his mistake.

The specifics of this matter.

At that time, the police at the police station received a call from a woman, who cried and told the police that she was going to jump off the building because she was beaten by her husband. After the police understood the situation, they immediately came to the woman's residence, in the mediation process, the woman kept emphasizing how her husband beat herself, how I want to fight back, the police saw the woman's resolute attitude, so they asked the man sitting next to him, and the man agreed to pick up the woman's child, and then let the man lie on his stomach for his wife to beat.

The woman grabbed her husband by the neck and began to beat him, and hit the wall with his head, but the force was very light, obviously not ruthless, and the police stood next to it and praised the woman for beating well. After the woman vented, she no longer blamed her husband, and the police later criticized and educated the man, and the matter was resolved peacefully.

What do I think about this?

I think the man who accidentally hit his wife may have been emotional, but no matter how bad the mood is, he should not vent his anger on his relatives. Every woman is very sensitive to the relationship between husband and wife, there is a saying that there is a first time and there is a second time, and this woman chooses to believe that the man will not do it again in the future, and the husband should behave well. You know, there are more than 30 million more men in the population, and every man who has a wife is lucky because you didn't become one of them.

What to do in the face of domestic violence?

When you are subjected to domestic violence, you can immediately call 110 to inform the situation, or you can report it to your local neighborhood committee.

Legitimate. Because domestic violence is illegal, and fighting back is justified defense, so I think it's legal.

In fact, this kind of disposal must be unreasonable, because we all know that if you are beaten by others, but you hit back, both of you need to be held responsible, so you still need to choose other safe ways to deal with it.

This is certainly not legal. Domestic violence is an illegal act, and since the police have been called, the relevant departments should intervene, or mediate, or enforce the law, and it is obviously not right to let the woman fight back.

Of course it's not legal. If it is injured, it is a crime of intentional injury, and what is the difference between it and a man's domestic violence. The police's approach of countering violence with violence is inappropriate.

This kind of disposal is not legal, but it is reasonable, and the police are only doing this to encourage the woman not to tolerate such a thing, but to respond in time and protect herself.

I think that since the police have made such a point, then it means that such an approach is reasonable, so the woman can also resist according to the methods provided by the police.

With the awakening of women's self-awareness, more and more women dare to say no to domestic violence. A 19-year-old girl in Chongqing **** her father's long-term domestic violence, not only domestic violence against her mother, but even her children are often punched and kicked, this girl really can't stand her father's domestic violence. In the past few decades, my father promised that he would not commit it again after every domestic violence, but it was useless, and the next time it continued, and my mother was even sent to the hospital in the worst case.

However, the mother continued to compromise, which led to the father's domestic violence becoming more and more serious. The most wrong thing for women to do when they encounter domestic violence is to compromise, so what should women do in the face of domestic violence?

Establish a correct awareness and take a correct view of domestic violence

Due to the influence of traditional thinking, many women do not realize that domestic violence is an illegal act, and even blame themselves for domestic violence, feeling that they have done something wrong that leads to domestic violence. There are even people who feel that domestic violence is disgraceful, after all, "domestic ugliness cannot be publicized", but domestic violence is no longer a family problem, not a family ugliness, but a social problem, when encountering domestic violence, you must know how to say no to domestic violence, domestic violence is only zero and countless times, once the first domestic violence is not refused, then there will be countless times of domestic violence waiting for you.

When there is domestic violence, you must know how to call the police

When encountering domestic violence, you must report to the police in time, which can not only protect your personal safety, but also keep evidence for yourself, and divorce or even fight for property in the future are favorable evidence and witnesses. According to the relevant laws of our country, when encountering domestic violence with neighborhood committees, neighborhood offices, women's federations, etc., it is necessary to come forward to coordinate, and when the life of the victim of domestic violence is threatened, it is the responsibility to protect the personal safety of the victim.

Timely arrival at the hospital**

When encountering domestic violence, in addition to calling the police, you also need to go to the hospital for the first time, because going to the hospital for relevant examinations will also leave evidence, and the hospital's diagnosis report and injury report have legal effect and can be regarded as evidence of domestic violence.

Keep evidence of domestic violence

When encountering domestic violence, it is best if you can use your mobile phone to record the process of being subjected to domestic violence, which is the most direct evidence. Surveillance can also be installed at home, so that even if the mobile phone cannot record it, the surveillance can record what happened at that time.

You can directly report to the police, identify your injuries, collect relevant evidence, prosecute the man, and protect your own interests.

At this time, you should call the police to deal with it, or ask the Women and Children Protection Association for help, collect evidence, file a lawsuit, and choose a divorce.

When women face domestic violence, they must have the courage to resist and use the law to protect their legitimate rights and interests.

The man was sentenced to 15 years in prison for beating a female journalist to death. This result was hotly discussed by netizens, and everyone agreed that the sentence in this case was too light. After combing through the details of the case report, we can see that the ** of this case claims to have a close relationship with a female reporter, and some netizens said that it is because of the close relationship between the two, so the conviction of intentional injury causing death is so light?

The female reporter's father said that he had never heard his daughter mention this man, and that the man was married, and the female reporter had only been in the job for three or four months. It stands to reason that there can be no intimacy between two people at all. But in this case, we can also see that even in an intimate relationship, it is not advisable for the man to commit domestic violence against the woman.

What can be done to avoid domestic violence? I think the following points must be noted.

1. Stay away from short-tempered and violent people to avoid domestic violence, first of all, to stay away from short-tempered and violent people. In this case, even if it is a colleague, if you see that this person is wrong, you should stay away as much as possible. If you find that your love partner is a manic and often likes to hit things, etc., you must break up as soon as possible, and don't think that you can move him with love.

2. If you are subjected to domestic violence after marriage, you must report to the police and sue for divorce if you are subjected to domestic violence after marriage, you must immediately report to the police and sue for divorce. Domestic violence can't be only once, many domestic violence maniacs are very extreme people, they may kneel down and apologize after they wake up, but this doesn't mean anything, he will still beat people crazy next time he is subjected to domestic violence. Therefore, it is important to divorce at the beginning of the day.

3. In the face of domestic violence, you must not swallow your anger In the face of domestic violence, you must not choose to swallow your anger, and do not treat yourself as a virgin, thinking that you will be able to influence him by relying on your love and tenderness. No, in the face of domestic violence, if you have a way to fight back, you must fight back, domestic violence maniacs are generally bullying the soft and afraid of the hard. Be sure to protect yourself to the fullest, and then divorce when it's time to divorce.

I think that before a girl and a boy have a relationship, they must understand the boy's family background, and secondly, carefully observe the boy's state, especially the boy's behavior during the quarrel.

Before getting married, it is necessary to observe whether the other party has violent tendencies. And when the other party makes a move, you have to show an unbearable attitude, otherwise he will only get worse.

The most important thing is to defend your rights, the first time you are subjected to domestic violence, you must protect yourself by the law, you must know that there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, so you have to think clearly about whether to leave him.

I think that either you can fight violence with violence, or you can leave the domestic abuser, otherwise you will only be injured or die forever, which is unbearable for individuals.

This can be associated with domestic violence, and playing the piano indiscriminately. Are they a family?

Let's not talk about who is right and who is wrong in this couple, there are many solutions to family conflicts, but you can't do it. There are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, and the person involved in this incident drives on the highway when he is angry and disregards his own life and the safety of others, and the woman asks for help is the wisest choice.

Very smart. When encountering such a thing, it is very smart to know when to ask for help, otherwise, you will not know how to die.

The impact of this incident was great, and I have to admire the courage of this woman to dare to act.

Chinese women are too patient, and men think that there is no resistance for the first time, and nothing will happen in the future, so they have no fear, and most of the women do not choose to resist because of family elements (some because of the persuasion of parents, relatives and friends around them, and some because they have children at home, and they are reluctant to have children), I still hope that women can be brave and call the police as soon as there is domestic violence.

Domestic violence is now a common thing, and we are quite weak in the face of domestic violence, and I think she was forced to do so when she asked for help from the toll booth.

It's just very correct, girls are a vulnerable group, and they must call for help in time when they encounter danger, and they can't just tolerate it.

The woman is pitiful, she can't ask her mother's family for help, her mother's family will worry about her safety and won't call the police, and her mother-in-law's family won't care.

We should go to the police. For this kind of harm to people's bodies, especially this kind of domestic violence, then in fact, our country is still very serious, so how to understand such behavior, I think it is still very difficult, so this is why the country, an important reason to introduce anti-domestic violence, so in fact, in the case of domestic violence, we should still how to protect our personal safety, I think it is very important.

1. How should we protect ourselves? Then I think that when facing domestic violence, we must first seek help as soon as possible. Whether it's calling the police or going to the golfer's house, I think that this kind of behavior can make me immune to some domestic violence, and the other thing is that when this kind of behavior continues, I don't think I should succumb to such prestige, and I should solve it in time.

Because I think that domestic violence is very bad, so how we should deal with such things is still very important.

2. What kind of social nature can we discover through such phenomena? In fact, the essence of domestic violence, I think there are two aspects, the first is that the pressure of life is getting bigger and bigger, which may lead to some short-tempered people, they will have such excesses, which is also a reason, then, because of his own reasons, if there is such a thing as domestic violence, I think it still has a very big impact on life. So I think if there is really this kind of domestic violence, I think we should still solve this kind of behavior, maybe to divorce, maybe to live together, so this still needs us to make a reasonable choice, which is also a very reasonable idea for this incident, because for domestic violence, then how we should choose such a life is also an important way for us to be responsible for ourselves.

So I think I should let myself grasp my life, so if something like this happens, we should try to solve it.