How do you refuse to take off your shoes when you are a guest at someone s house?

Updated on society 2024-06-28
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you are a guest at someone else's house and want to refuse to enter the door, then you must prepare your own shoe covers, and put on your own shoe covers without waiting for the owner to bring you slippers.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I've also paid attention to and compared the customs at home and abroad, as if there is no such thing as taking off your shoes when you go inside a house (except in Japan).

    At present, in China, regardless of the first-tier cities, it seems that everyone is accustomed to changing into slippers when they get home, and even if there are guests visiting, there will be a few pairs of spare slippers at home for guests to use. But in real life, many people are still reluctant to take off their shoes in places other than their own homes, some because of the smell of their feet, and some are purely habitual. I know an old man, but if you go to someone else's house, if you ask him to change his slippers, the old man will turn around and leave, and he will not talk nonsense with you.

    So what if you go to someone's house and really don't want to take off your shoes?

    First, you can excuse yourself for smelly feet, for fear of affecting everyone's mood, so please forgive the owner and don't change your shoes. Generally speaking, most hosts won't insist that the guest change their shoes if they say so.

    Second, if you see that the owner's home is really clean, but you don't want to wear the owner's public slippers, then you can directly take off the shoes and wear your own socks into the house, as long as there is no special smell, the owner generally will not care.

    Third, you can ask the owner if there are disposable shoe covers or the like, so as to save the owner from wearing the slippers that the owner has taken care of.

    Fourth, if it doesn't work, then you should weigh it yourself between taking off your shoes and friendship.

    As far as I am concerned, when there are guests in the house, I usually declare that I don't need to change my shoes, and let the guests go directly into the house, at most, the guests have left to clean up, which is better than making the guests feel unhappy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When you are a guest at someone's house, how do you refuse to enter the door with slippers? I think it's a guest at someone's house. If someone else's house has tiles or wooden floors, you must take off your shoes, put on someone else's slippers, and enter someone else's house.

    It will feel like you're being polite. And be respectful of others.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How to refuse to be a guest at someone's home? Slippers enter the door, that is, you go to the house to be a guest at someone else's house, and you want to wear your own shoes to enter the door, now every family's home is cleaned up, the floor is very bright, if you enter the door without taking off your shoes, people are very disgusted.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you go to someone else's house and the owner asks to take it off, it is best to take off your shoes.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Usually visiting other people's homes. It's all about changing slippers. If you refuse. That is dishonesty to the director.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you go to someone's house and refuse to let you enter the door without taking off your shoes, then you can do as the host wishes.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The guest is as he pleases, in this case, it is best not to refuse, feel uncomfortable, you can not go in the future, I am really helping you look forward to it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Can you ask the owner if there are shoe covers? The owner will generally say that it doesn't matter, don't use a cover, if you go to someone else's house for a long time, you can bring your own shoe cover.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If this is the case, then it is better to visit other people's homes less often, so as not to make everyone unhappy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Usually follow the local customs, really don't want to slippers, you can consider bringing your own shoe covers Oh :)

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This kind of can ask others if they have shoe covers, and shoe covers are usually prepared at home.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Prepare shoe covers when you go by yourself and put them on before entering.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Generally, you need to take off your shoes, unless the other party does not have enough slippers.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can say that my feet are too smelly and I am embarrassed to take off my shoes.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, it is better not to be a guest.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This depends on the specific situation. If the host's house is very well decorated. And the director is very particular, all of them are wooden floors.

    Then, when you walk into such a house, you must need to take off your shoes that you wear outside. Otherwise, you will trample on the floor of someone else's house. Even if others are polite.

    If you don't say it, you will feel unpleasant in your heart.

    Some others are more particular at home, and he will prepare disposable shoe covers. In this case, you only need to put it on your shoes when you enter the door. Within the permitted range of activities.

    Nothing too much to consider. And if everyone has a good relationship, others will take the initiative. I just want to change my shoes so that I don't have to mop the floor myself.

    This time it was very convenient for everyone to talk.

    If you are not particularly familiar with it. It's not good for others to take the initiative. This is the time to test your self-awareness.

    If you behave well, others will definitely want you to visit more next time. If you don't behave well, you don't want to move around too much. So the performance in other people's homes is still very important.

    This has to be considered for the next season. In the summer, it is more convenient to go to someone else's house to slippers. But if you have athlete's foot.

    Particularly severe. As soon as the slippers are put into a bad smell, everyone will look embarrassed. It's better not to take off your shoes.

    Or change into a cleaner pair of socks before someone else's house goes to the house. In winter, the socks are thicker, so they don't smell good. It's just that the slippers will be very cold.

    If someone else's home is heated, they will definitely need to drag their shoes.

    Mainly for the sake of understanding the owner of the other party's house. Avoid letting others clean and take care of it too much. In any case, try to put yourself in the shoes of others, whether you need slippers or not, and also consider the relationship between each other, the season and the temperature.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Not necessarily, because it depends on the environment you are in, we are a county seat, and you don't need to take off your shoes when you go to someone else's house, so you can wear it in this way

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you are a guest at someone's house, you should take off your shoes when you enter the door. Nowadays, many people take off their shoes when they enter the house to keep the room clean and hygienic.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In most cases, when you are a guest at someone's house, you should take off your shoes when you enter the door, which is a polite and a good habit. But in some cases, if the host does not prepare slippers, the ground is not very clean, or does not have the conditions to take off the shoes, then don't be reluctant, follow the local customs, and wear shoes to go in.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This should also be a case-by-case analysis, if the owner prepares slippers for you, then you should take off your shoes, if the owner is not willing to let you take off your shoes, you can wear some shoe covers. The main thing is to pay attention to your self-cultivation and politeness. Don't cause trouble for others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    According to different situations, if someone else has prepared slippers at home, you can take off your shoes and put on someone else's slippers. If someone else's home is more casual, you can ask, if you need it, change it, don't use it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Regardless of whether this other person is close to you or not, whether the relationship is good or not, I think you have to take off your shoes when you go to someone else's house, which is a sign of respect for others, after all, the place you go to is not your own home.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When you are a guest at someone else's house, you need to change your shoes when you enter the door, so as to show your respect for the other party, and don't step on the host's house with your own shoes.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it depends. If the floor of the owner's house is very clean, you will worry about the stolen goods stained by the shoes to pollute the floor, so you will prepare a shoe rack, slippers, etc. at the door, then you must respect the rules of the owner, take off your shoes and change shoes when you enter the door. If the host doesn't prepare those, you don't have to take off your shoes, which is also respectful.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, you should take off your shoes and put them on the owner's home slippers or bring a shoe cover to ensure that your shoes do not stain the floor of the owner's house. The host said: It's okay, no slippers.

    Actually, I still hope you drag it out, after all, it's really not easy to clean.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When you are a guest at someone's house, should you take off your shoes when you enter the door? I think the guest is as good as the host, according to the environment of the host's house, if it is a building, it is generally necessary to take off the shoes and maintain the hygiene of the host's house, if it is an ordinary house, there is no need to take off the shoes, just feel free, but be sure to make the host feel comfortable.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is the minimum courtesy to take off your shoes when you enter the door, and avoid tampering with the owner's floor, unless the owner does not want you to take off your shoes.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When you go to someone else's house, you must first ask the owner if you need to change your shoes, if you want to change them, then you have to change them, otherwise others will be unhappy, if you don't need to, then you don't need to change them.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on the situation, now it is generally a tiled floor, and the home is relatively clean, so you have to take off your shoes. If it's a concrete floor, you don't need it. If it is inconvenient to take off your shoes, you can ask if there are shoe covers.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Whether the other party wants it or not, or not. should make the action of taking off their shoes, if the other party stops, then don't use it, the guest is as you please.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on whether the other party has prepared corresponding slippers for you, the other party's preferences and requirements. You can ask the other party if they need to change their shoes, and make a decision based on the other party's needs.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Whether or not to take off your shoes depends on whether the guest has a habit at home, and then you decide whether to drag your shoes, hoping to help you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In this case, when you enter the door, you can take off your shoes and say hello to the main family and ask about it, just see what the main family says

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If there is a shoe cabinet slippers at the entrance, you should change them, or ask the owner if they need to change their shoes.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This feeling should be divided into situations, if others don't say anything, it's best not to take it off, if you can, drag it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There should be an indication that you want to change your shoes, and you can decide whether to take them off depending on what the owner means.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If the host has slippers for the guests, they can take them off. Otherwise, you can not take it off.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It depends! If people need to change their shoes, they will usually bring you slippers.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Look at the rules of the host's house, and you should respect the host's house.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Most of the time it should be, it's a matter of politeness.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It depends on whether they have the habit of taking off their shoes at home.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The guest is free to the host, and the host can do whatever he says.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    People often struggle with the question of whether guests should take off their shoes when they step through the door. Risking a little social embarrassment to avoid a bacterial invasion seems like a no-brainer. But do we really need to worry about germs brought into our homes by our shoes?

    First of all, there is no need to hide the facts: there are "hundreds of thousands of bacteria per square inch" on ordinary shoes. In some study samples, almost all shoes were found to have fecal bacteria, including E. coli – a bacterium found on 96% of the soles.

    While many types of E. coli are harmless to humans, certain strains can cause severe diarrhea, urinary tract infections.

    Even meningitis.

    As scary as the picture of microbial invasion is, the study doesn't actually give us anything serious to worry about. Many people may want to do a cleaning at the thought of germs on their shoes, but the truth is that the amount of bacteria that our shoes bring into the room is generally not enough to make the average healthy person sick. For healthy people, bacteria in shoes do not pose a risk, or the risk is minimal.

    Healthy people usually need to be exposed to many strains of harmful bacteria to actually get infected.

    Another point is that most people don't stay on the ground for long when they are stepped on by their shoes. In some cases, a layer of bacteria covering the ground may be "re-atomized" by a stream of air coming in from outside the window, thus entering the air we breathe. This can increase the risk of infection.

    But the biggest threat is actually on the ground. Researchers believe that we should be more worried about children crawling on the floor, and for healthy adults, it's not too much of a problem.

    All in all, if you're at risk of infection, or if you have young children, it's a good idea to take your shoes off when you enter the house, but for most healthy people, the decision to take them off when you enter the house is based on underlying health considerations, and it's entirely up to personal preferences and habits.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    As for this question, there is no one standard answer either. If the host tells you to take off your shoes, you'd better take them off. Otherwise, it will make him feel uncomfortable, and you personally feel very awkward. Of course, as most hosts, he doesn't force guests to take off their shoes.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    When you are a guest at someone's house, should you slip on your shoes? If you are a guest in someone's house, and there are floor tiles or lattices in their house, then you should take off your shoes and put on their slippers. It would be polite that way.

    And it won't dirty other people's land.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Then it depends on whether someone else's house wants to change their slippers, and if they want to change it, then they have to replace it.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Then it depends on whether someone else's family asks for it.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    In the first case, the guest was given slippers and the guest did not change them.

    There are two situations here, the first is that the guest takes off his own shoes, does not change his slippers, and goes directly barefoot. In this case, you can tell the guest that the ground is cold, be careful of the cold or wear slippers, or it has not been cleaned for several days, and the floor is dirty, it is better to wear slippers. The second is that the guests do not change their slippers and wear their own shoes, so they should tell the guests that the ground is slippery, it is safer to change slippers, or change slippers to wear more comfortably.

    In the second case, the guests are not given slippers, and the guests are required to rely on their self-awareness. In this case, you should take the slippers to the guest or tell the guest that the slippers are in**, and say to the guest, come, the slippers are here, you can see if it is suitable to wear this pair.

    When guests come to the door, as the host, they should still take the initiative to be enthusiastic, and when they encounter things that they are not used to, they should be a little flexible, and the way of handling things should be tactful, and the tone should not be too blunt, not too direct, so as to avoid embarrassment for guests. If the guest is really vexatious, then intervene in the blacklist and refuse to come to the door next time.

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