There are all kinds of reasons to be reluctant to throw it away?

When it comes time to graduate, everyone will definitely be reluctant! But in fact, life is composed of a series of "encounters" and "partings".

We can't deal with everyone we come into contact with for the rest of our lives, so do you feel guilty when you are separated?

Since there is no guilt in the countless separations from people, why can't we change crops?

People and people, people and things, in fact, must pay attention to fate. When fate arrives, the right person and the right thing will naturally appear.

This thing has been with me for many years, but now I really don't need it, and I don't need it anymore, so I have to 'break up' with it. "This is a matter of course, and everyone can bravely put aside their guilt and come on!

Yes, many people are reluctant to throw things away in their lives, and as a result, there are more and more useless things at home, making a mess at home. In fact, we should learn to make trade-offs, dispose of things, clothes, and shoes that have not been used at home for a long time, and learn to break away so that our lives can be refreshing.

It is true, in life, we often have a lot of things that we don't use, and we rarely use them, but we spend our own efforts and money to buy them back, such as the clothes that we bought back with **, which are not very suitable and dissatisfied to wear, and are always hung there, but it is a pity to throw it away, year after year, it is always hung there, reluctant to throw it away.

For a variety of reasons, we are reluctant to throw away things that we don't usually need, but they always pile up at home. This should be something that many of us are very troubled by.

Now advocating abandonment, we have a lot of daily necessities, including clothes and supplies, etc., which are reluctant to throw away, and always use various reasons to keep him, but in fact, he belongs to the chicken ribs.

You can choose not to throw away things that you are reluctant to throw away, even if they are useless, but there is no need to throw them away if they are memorable.

Indecisive, restless, indecisive, will be chaotic.

It is advisable to look at the renunciation, the dissipation of all things in order to welcome the arrival of the better.

There are all kinds of reasons why you are reluctant to throw it away, so you should not throw it away. Why do you want to keep it?

I think it's nostalgia, because those things may carry his memories, and every thing is an experience for him, so he is reluctant to throw it.

There are memories and stories of remembrance, resolutely do not throw away, this most people should be able to understand, but mine is a bit serious. I have a thick clip, and the things in it, from bus tickets, plane tickets, train tickets, scenic tickets, admission tickets, performance tickets, to a piece of cloth, a plastic bag, petals from more than 20 years ago, and when my grandfather was still there, let me confirm whether I could go to the bank to exchange and I haven't done this until now, the third set of RMB with a face value of 10 yuan. I don't often look at all kinds of things, but every time I look at them, I always feel that if I don't save these things, I will lose those memories that shouldn't be lost.

They are the thread between the present and the past.

They may also be more emotional, they think that every object in their life carries their own memories and emotions, and many objects may be an object for us, and it may be a story for them. When you are young, you may not know how to cherish it many times, and the old does not go to the new and does not come. And when you really reach a certain age, you will find that you may have lost a childhood.

For example, I still keep some of the children's childhood toys and clothes, maybe in his eyes, this is nothing, and this is his childhood smile in the hearts of his parents at that time.

Attachment to the past, this type of person has a very persistent belief in old things and has a strong emotional connection with these old things. No matter what old things are, whether they are useful or not, they can find memories of these things and give them a certain meaning. Before throwing these things, you must rack your brains to find a reason not to throw them, "When did you buy it?"

How much? How many times? ”。

So, every time you try to get rid of old things, there are always some memories that hold you back.

I think it may still be used, so keep it for now, there are roughly two categories, one is clothes. I always feel that all kinds of worn and unworn clothes can be given a new life through matching, but as long as I put it in the depths, I will never wear it again. This experience has been repeated many times, and many people have adopted the method of Amway, and those who have not worn it in two years will be donated or thrown away.

It's still pretty cool, and then I had a baby, and I went backwards again, because! I always think that some changes are made for children to wear, and they are unexpectedly delicate, ah am I hopeless. The other category is cartons, milk powder barrels, packaging bags, cans, these "household waste", will always feel that they can be used, yes, children often let the kindergarten bring, haha.

Some people will always buy something because they like it, such as buying stationery of the same color and different colors, buying skin care products at a discount, and often buying books thinking they can read them. There are also people who will hoard newspapers and magazines that they have subscribed to for decades and clean them up from time to time. These are all hoarding of physical objects.

I am reluctant to give up anything, and in the end I hoard everything, which is a serious hoarding syndrome. Hoarding disorder: Hoarding disorder is a kind of compulsive behavior, excessive acquisition or mobile phone objects, even if the item itself is worthless, dangerous or even unhygienic, some people can not even live normally because of hoarding behavior, a serious degree of hoarding is a mental illness, belonging to a kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder.

The old things are reluctant to be left behind, which is a feeling of nostalgia, a kind of nostalgia for the past experience attached to the object, and there may be a lot of things that have happened to these objects, and these things are something you can't forget or can't let go. In other words, it's a renunciation of one's past self, and it's not a manifestation of obsessive-compulsive disorder. Of course, in psychology, we have an attachment to the past, a kind of reluctance to our past self, which is a normal phenomenon.

Cleaning our rooms, psychologically speaking, is also a manifestation of cleaning up our own mental garbage. If there is a lot of garbage accumulated in the room, it is also a reaction that you have negative emotions in your heart and have not been poured out in time. This kind of person may not be very happy in his heart, and he may be a little pessimistic and negative.

This is perhaps to listen to his heart, and not let the negative emotions accumulate for too long and bring more serious consequences.

I am reluctant to throw it away because I think it is still useful, not garbage, I can use it, and if I can't use it, throw it away or donate it to poor areas.

Nostalgia, everything that comes to us has its own story, and each story is the highlight of future memories.

It's more nostalgic, although those things may no longer be useful, but he can give people a kind of support.

I think there are two kinds of people who will be in this state, one is that this person is very thrifty, he will feel that everything can still be used, and there is still value in keeping. The second is that this kind of person is particularly nostalgic, and all the things he has used will have feelings and can't bear to give it up.

Unlike now, the material conditions are basically good, and there is no shortage of food and less use. However, those old people who have experienced the era of material scarcity deeply feel the fear and anxiety brought about by material scarcity. Moreover, from the perspective of our Chinese traditional thinking, three years of the new, three years of the old, another three years of sewing and mending, and thrifty housekeeping was an important way to maintain life at that time.

Maybe what was considered useless at this time will come in handy again after a while, and if you don't keep it at the time, maybe there will be no place to buy it. After decades of behavior, this is a value that has penetrated into every pore of the elderly.

Is it a disease to be reluctant to throw away anything? Listen to what psychologists have to say.

Hello friends!

It's a good point, but this "reluctance" is the most proficient, because "if you don't give up, you will never be able to".

I think there will be something in every home that is useless but is reluctant to throw away. In my house, there are mainly the following kinds of things that are useless but unwilling to throw away.

Second, it is all the papers and questions that I did in my junior year of high school. After the college entrance examination, many people will choose to sort out all the books and test papers and sell them as garbage, but I am quite reluctant. They carried the joys and sorrows of my senior year of high school, and they were the result of hundreds of days and nights of my struggle, so I really didn't want to sell them, even if they really had no value.

Every time I see those books and test papers that are more than one person high, I will remember the appearance of writing books by myself in the third year of high school. Whenever I think about it, I feel like I was the best. These books not only bring precious memories, but also bring courage and strength to yourself now, seeing them, I always feel that I have passed the college entrance examination, and the rest of the things are trivial!

Thirdly, it is probably the diary I have accumulated for several years. Probably since junior high school began to write a diary,So far now I have accumulated a thick stack,To be honest,These used books are really useless,But it's a source of my past memories.,Whenever I think of the past,,I will turn out the diary.,See what I used to be like.,After so many years, what I've become.。

There are a lot of them, and mom and grandma are storage freaks.

I think the most obstructive thing is some of the rags that my grandmother collected, which were some old clothes from the past, and when my grandmother's eyes were still good, she liked to cut out some of the patterns on them.

Grandma would make slippers, soles and insoles by hand, and then put the patterns on them to decorate, but now the nurse's eyes are not good, the needlework is no longer possible, and the broken rags are not willing to be lost.

There were three large parcels of rags, which took up a lot of space, and I used to discuss with my mother about throwing them away, because they were all cut and destroyed, and there was no way to donate them.

Mom disagreed, worried about making grandma angry, and said that the family occasionally needed some rags or something, those previous cloths were of good quality and had use value.

However, I never saw them used, so I was very frustrated.

Then, there are all kinds of broken small household appliances that my mother is reluctant to throw away, such as very old electric irons, which are very heavy and a large piece of iron, if they are not placed carelessly, it is easy to burn people and burn clothes after heating.

There is a new one at home that can be used, and my mother is reluctant to throw away the old one, saying that it is such a large piece of iron, how can it be said that it will be lost.

The broken solar lamp was originally a very good-looking decoration, but it is estimated that the solar panel is broken, and it will no longer light up, and it is not good-looking to decorate.

Just because it was shaped like a jar, my mother said that the outside shell could be used to hold things, but the glass was thrown away, so it was a pity, so I left it, and I haven't seen her use it until now.

We even have old-fashioned food stamps, which are not collectible, and the tattered ones are tied with two bundles of rubber bands.

I just don't understand this, and I can't use it, and it won't increase in value, my mother and grandmother are very precious, and I'll take it out and see it if it's okay, and I will talk about it, and when I see the food stamps, they can talk about the words of Chen sesame seeds.

A lot of bits and pieces at home are saved on the grounds that it is a pity that they may be able to be used in the future, and the storage room is not enough at all, and there are stuffed everywhere under the bed.

However, some with memories, some with the idea of being thrifty and thrifty, I just let it go.

Yes, everything has an expiration date, and after a long time, it will not be fresh. As the old saying goes: people and things are the same.

I recommend you to take a look at the book "Breaking Away", being reluctant to throw anything away is a psychological problem, and you have to find a way to customer service.