Please help analyze the current situation of my boyfriend and me

Uh··· First of all, this question is worth 20 points!

Secondly, it doesn't matter what the past has before, who hasn't been in the past?! He does love you, but the man's possessiveness is also very strong, and he is probably very conflicted in his heart now. It may be that you are not the first person he possesses, he will feel uncomfortable, sad, and even angry, in fact, this is normal, although theoretically supporting the love of a person does not care about all of him, but, in this real society, we have to consider some so-called vulgarity, such as your first kiss, your first love... It doesn't belong to him, and what makes him feel like he opened an expired can when he was hungry, disappointed, sad, painful... It comes to mind that he is trying to avoid you like that, and maybe you have lost the trust of one of you.

In the end, since the wound has been left, then, the next thing is how to heal the wound, this is up to you, and the bell must be tied to the bell. Why is love great? Because it can heal the wounds on our hearts and give people joy and happiness.

There is no room for this relationship to be saved, since you want to continue, then your boyfriend's attitude determines the garden or dispersion of this relationship. So, use your love to make him forget his unhappiness, let him remember your sweet past, and keep happiness in his heart forever! Share your love with him!

Hello this friend, is he agitated because of your past and can't accept the fact that you have talked about two boyfriends? If so, I think he has any misunderstanding or untie knots about your past, you should communicate with him well, tell him everything you can tell him, and if he truly loves you, he will definitely understand you.

What matters is not what a person has been, but what he is and will be.

I had the same experience as you in the past, and my current boyfriend was sad about my past, but he eventually let go of my past because he told me that he loved me now.

I hope your boyfriend can understand you as well and wish you happiness.

To be such a man, it is true that my heart is too small, and I also belong to this category, and I want to be chic, and I am also distressed.

I hope that men like me can open their hearts and don't care too much about the past.

If you find your true love, cherish it, but I'm not very much in favor of online dating.

Are men stingy, I'm just as careful as upstairs. Hehe,But these are nothing.,I've been with my girlfriend for three years.,I've had countless conflicts.,But the relationship is still very good.,Although sometimes it's hot and cold.,But overall the relationship has been on the rise.,A little confidence in your feelings.,Landlord.。

Since you really love each other, you should sit down and communicate well, if he really loves you, you shouldn't care about your past, who doesn't have a past? It's not a way for you to drag it out like this, friends tell you that it's better to have a long pain than a short pain, make a choice as soon as possible, and be brave to face the reality.

I can tell you responsibly,,, you are impossible, that there is no future ...

What you need is communication, face-to-face, you tell him everything you think, you are adults, he will understand.

I think it may be that he attaches great importance to you and is very concerned about your past, or he has a strong desire for exclusivity, which leads to a small pimple in your psychology because of your past. I think the solution is very simple, it's just that you're just a fan. You can try to soothe him more, say some soft words or say some love words, so that he will slowly forget and return to his previous feelings.

And increase the number of times you see each other every month, perhaps because you are in two places and have a sense of insecurity. Seeing each other often, it is much easier to maintain a relationship.

In addition, I would like to wish you a happy relationship.

I don't know those things that mention your past, it should be that he is minding some of your previous things, you should talk about it now, figure out what he is asking to be very excited, painful, this is the key, find the reason and face it together, if he really cares about your past and can't let go, then I think this relationship may be very dangerous, because to love someone is to accept all of him and admit his past.

Let's talk about it, and the key to understanding the reason is to get the right medicine.

The love of our generation comes and goes quickly, it gets sad fast, and it gets better faster.

It's because we misunderstand love.

Compose your love with your heart.

Personally, I think that your expression may not be quite right.

Why should you let your ex-boyfriend get involved in this? Maybe you just think of your ex-boyfriend as a regular friend, but in the eyes of your current boyfriend, things are not so simple - in his opinion, you are threatening him - if you break up, there is a good chance that you will rekindle with your ex-boyfriend. In other words, your ex-boyfriend's intervention can only make things more troublesome – he is more and more helpful.

What's more, there is also your sentence "If you are tired of playing, just give him a **, and he will come to pick me up" ......This is simply a threat from Hongguoguo - basically no man would bow to such a threat - even if he wanted to reconcile with you, but after you said this, he could not make any more compromises. What's more, when you say this, any man will suspect that you are disconnected from your ex-boyfriend - otherwise where do you have the confidence to say that people will take you back? Girl, love is a matter of two people.

You're now letting a third person — your ex-boyfriend — get involved, and it's like telling everyone you're stepping on two boats — no matter what it is, can you make it clear? It's like pouring dirty water on yourself - don't do this kind of stupid thing again.

Well, it's actually you're wrong. Neither of you is right. It's his fault for being possessive, but it's okay if he only accompanies you and allows you to be with other women.

Most people will be angry if you change your personal approach, and you shouldn't be like that. That would only make the problem worse. Your personality is very impulsive, and if you like him, you will transform yourself and transform him moderately.

Otherwise, I don't understand.

No matter what conflict you have with your boyfriend, it would be a huge mistake to find an ex-boyfriend to get involved.

You're so immature, if I were your boyfriend, I'd break up with you, even if he's wrong, you can't let your ex-boyfriend scold him and get angry with him, it will only make the conflict worse. Also, what are you trying to do by pulling your ex-boyfriend in? Exploit?

Throw it away when you're done? "I feel very aggrieved, after all, there is no such grievance around him", I want to say, then why did you break up with your ex-boyfriend, "aggrieved"? Have you ever considered how aggrieved your boyfriend is by doing this.

Forget it, don't talk about it, it's too naïve for you.