I have a more hesitant personality, and I have the characteristics of a hesitant personality

Guilty because of the past, it's very similar to me, hehe.

In fact, none of these problems are faults! Really, you can overcome it! Hesitation, that is, you think too much, put aside a little!

Don't overthink it! That's not good! It's true!

In that case, you will not be able to achieve great things, you will not achieve anything! advice to address hesitation; 1, try to listen to some light and happy ** every day, don't listen to those sad love**, it will make you more annoyed and hesitant!. 2. Get up every morning and go out to exercise.

Running and stuff like that. Going out in the morning to get some fresh air will help you solve your hesitation! 3. Try to do something, and do things decisively, decisively put forward ideas, suggestions, solutions, etc.

4. Speed up the reflection and do some quick arithmetic problems every day. 5. Don't think about this and that, it's useless, be brave! Don't be scrupled!

To achieve great things, you must have an adventurous spirit! I'm afraid that this and that won't be able to make the climate every day! Try to focus on one place and don't think about things that have nothing to do with what you're doing!

And the past, let it pass! Forget about it! Remember, there are things that others have long forgotten and you have been thinking about!

What's the use of thinking about the past? Can you travel back in time? So I advise you not to let tomorrow's bad affect today!

Why don!!'t you spend that time doing what you need to do today? 3q It's not easy to get a big night, give more points!

Hahaha There are not a few people with a personality like you. Looking ahead and looking backwards, how can people worry about the sky, and words like Juan Siran are spoken by people with a character like you. And you want to let go of these rational things and let yourself feel the emotional things.

It requires perseverance and compulsion of emotion.

Let's say you want to travel, but when it comes you do, you hesitate. I'm afraid of that, my advice is: then wait until something that hasn't happened happens!

Or go out and put it, too timid why? Be brave, you'll know when you go, why bother thinking about this and that? Why do you want to take a step forward and worry about this? It takes time to change slowly. Trust you OK

In general, indecisive people tend to have the following personality traits: lack of self-confidence, emotional vulnerability, easy to suggest, follow the crowd in the group, overly cautious, and so on.

In addition, lack of training. Such people have grown up in a doted home, living a ready-made family life of "clothes to stretch out their hands, food to open their mouths", and their parents, siblings are their crutches. If this kind of person enters the society alone, he is prone to indecisiveness.

Another situation is that the family has been too strict since childhood, and the people who are taught by this education method can only follow the rules and dare not take a step beyond the thunder pool. If the situation changes, they are worried that they are not up to standard, and they are hesitant to hesitate about their motives.

Sitting alone in the corner, I often have insomnia and dreams at night, I am prone to waking up, I am losing my mind, I have difficulty concentrating, my memory has also declined, I sometimes laugh for no reason, I always have some negative thoughts, and I have become indifferent to my relatives and friends.

But the character can be trained, participate in outdoor training more, and learn to dance ballroom dance.

People with hesitant personality are more concerned about the outcome of events, although the outcome of some things is already doomed, they don't want to make decisions easily, they always want to make the optimal solution, but they can't find the optimal solution, so they have been hesitating.

People with hesitant personalities hesitate to do things, don't know how to make trade-offs in their hearts, and can't make decisions on the spot.

People with hesitant personality traits are not good, and people with hesitant traits are not decisive.

In the complex crowd, everyone has their own personality, and these colorful personalities make our human world magical.

There is always a saying in everyone: character determines fate!

Sometimes when I think about it, it seems that there is a little bit of truth, because people with different personalities have different psychology and different ways of thinking, and their style of doing things will be different. Here, I just want to talk about what will happen to the hesitant character?!

When faced with a thing, whether it is big or small, people with hesitant personalities, when making decisions, are always like falling into a swamp quagmire, not knowing how to break free, the left choice is not good, the right choice is not right, just like this, pick up and put down, put down and pick up the repeatedly, struggling, the process is hard, even if there is a result, it may be painful, because the result of this election is not what you want!

Hesitating will only make your heart extremely painful!

The choice is made in hesitation, but along this road, you will still look forward and behave backwards, for fear of making the slightest mistake, and carefully complete what you want to do.

In your heart, the joy may not be too overwhelming, because the person who hesitates will think in his heart: "If I hadn't chosen this path, would it be better?" "

Vacillating, this is the most worrying weakness of the hesitant character!

People with hesitant personalities, when they succeed, will waver and deny their success. Can you imagine, what if he fails? How he will face the reality of failure, being caught off guard will only be his most instinctive reaction.

It's over", "What should I do""How so?"""It's all my fault."""If only I had ...... at the beginning.""Wait, a series of self-reproaches will come to you. Or even a breakdown of the heart!

Faced with the reality of failure, those who hesitate will become caught off guard!

This sentence may make people feel a little one-sided, but it is true, hesitant people, in fact, they just don't think about it in their hearts, and they haven't learned to hide their truest thoughts too much, because they really don't know what to do at this moment!

As people often say, excessive concern makes doubts, so hesitant people think too much, think about this person at once, think about that person at once, always can't make a decision, after a long time, the simple problem is complicated, and it naturally gives people a sense of insincerity!

Therefore, in reality, you, me and him, perhaps, will always encounter a time of hesitation, in order not to let yourself regret the pain, in order not to let others misunderstand, when you encounter something to think clearly, you want to do it, such an effort, even if it fails, it will definitely be a different feeling!

I used to be a hesitant person. Therefore, he suffers a lot in terms of dealing with people and things, and he often falls into passivity.

Whether it is in work or study, I have missed a lot of opportunities and the help of noble people.

Later I was lucky enough to meet my teacher. It was he who changed my personality from the following four points and made me regain my confidence in life and work.

I'll share it with you today. I hope you can be a little inspired.

First of all, things come to comply. This sentence is understood to mean that if the matter has passed, don't dwell on it anymore, you should adapt and face it.

Secondly, the future is not welcome. The meaning of this sentence is, never feel anxious about something that didn't happen.

The third point is that it was not mixed at that time. The meaning of this sentence is to focus on doing the current thing well and not half-heartedly.

Finally, I didn't love in the past. The meaning of this phrase is that things that have passed, whether good or bad, should not be paid attention to.

Did you learn today?

Some things are difficult to choose, and at this time it will be very tangled, and it is difficult to grasp both sides of things. For example, if you listen to a lecture, you may not be able to gain much, but if you don't listen to it, you are worried about missing out on any useful knowledge. Especially when it takes up a certain amount of time, it is inevitable that it will be difficult to choose.

It's a question of whether to go or not.

And many things in life can be like this, which puts people in a dilemma. At this time, the decisive person will make a choice quickly, while the person who is usually hesitant will have a hard time. It's like standing at a crossroads, looking around, the more you think about which direction to go, the more difficult it is to choose.

At this time, a little external force is needed, otherwise this hesitation period may last for a long time.

Therefore, if you are aware of cultivating your own decisiveness, it is necessary to change your indecisive personality. For example, when making choices, be decisive, don't think too much about the adverse consequences, and start from some small things to cultivate your own independent choice. Slowly, when encountering more important things, you can make choices faster and reduce hesitation.

If you are a decisive person in the eyes of others, you will be more likely to gain the trust of others.

If you are hesitant about something, you will decide as follows:

Clause. 1. Calm down for 10 minutes.

If you decide to do it within 10 minutes, don't have any worries, and if you don't do it, don't think about everything related to it.

Clause. 2. Weigh the pros and cons.

Sometimes there are many such things in life, so it's good to decide according to the situation.

Hesitation is when there is a branch road, thinking too much about the consequences, trying to achieve the perfect event, and not being able to distinguish the main point of the matter. Lack of relevant knowledge or experience, so I don't know which one is better. Generally speaking, hesitation is also a corner of the character, and it is difficult to stop hesitating in everything.

As long as there is a branch, you will have thoughts, and the more likely results will be hesitant. But there are many things that can be changed by increasing knowledge, expanding horizons, enriching experience, and enhancing self-confidence. When a branch is present, the hesitation that arises is reduced when it is possible to quickly determine what is right or wrong.

To get rid of hesitation, the only way to do this is to expand your own capabilities and enrich your knowledge base. When you encounter something, set a time limit for yourself to complete it, and develop a style of doing things that no longer hesitates.

The hesitant character can easily judge with 2 simple actions that you really need to master.

A hesitant personality will hinder your personal development in the future, boys should do things simply, but you must think about it before doing it, and let it go when you think about it!

Can personality be changed? I only know that habits can be changed, and if my personality changes, I can change it myself. It seems that personality can only be changed, right? If you want to change on your own, if you have this ability, I will change it when I go back.

When faced with a difficult or difficult decision, you can try a reckless choice and take it one step at a time. Although it may make you lose something, I think you can slowly change this personality of yours, and instead of delaying on both sides, it is better to choose one side to go to the end.

In fact, it's good to think about it the other way around, what you think hesitation is a kind of caution, some things are your own is your own, if not, you can't get more opportunities, I used to think that you were like this, and I didn't have confidence in living, and then I felt that some things just wanted to open up.

Do you want to change? Do you often choose to do what you are used to rather than what you take risks?

Have you ever heard of the "Enneagram"? Personally, I am friendly to consider you to be the ninth, the mediator. Although he is often hesitant, he has the ability to perceive the inner experience of others, to listen to the views of others, and to always find the key to open the door to happiness for others.

So, it's kind of unique. Pavarotti (Italian singer). Dwight D. Eisenhower (34th in the United States**) was the No. 9 personality.

So, don't feel inferior, you have mysterious abilities that no one else knows about, but you just forgot to pay attention.

Change slowly, don't rush, do more of what you're good at, and develop self-confidence.

When your hesitation brings you real pain, you can change.