Before, we were together, but then I felt that it was not appropriate and gave up.

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't necessarily don't care about you, my boyfriend is also such a person, he always doesn't take the initiative, and he doesn't understand my basic ideas, so I'm not less angry with him, when we first started talking, we could only see each other once or twice a month, at first I was very uncomfortable, and I often cranky, thinking that he didn't care about me, but he was excellent in other aspects, so I kept giving him time, giving him opportunities, always thinking about waiting, and then observing. I persevered for a few more months, and through a long period of contact, I realized that he actually cared about me. Now I understand him very well, because he is too busy with work, and he is very stressed, and he rarely finds time to spend with me, and he usually only has one or two ** a day, and at most sends a few more text messages, I have complained about him:

    Even if you're busy, a few more ** will kill you? He explained, "It's hard for a person to be in the mood to chat with her lover in a very busy work environment and under a lot of pressure", and then I really realized it, and gradually understood, and then through his performance, I knew that all his efforts were to make my life better. I was really moved, so happy, and very glad that I didn't arbitrarily reject this peerless and simple man at that time.

    It's nothing, there are many men who are like this, just silently paying for their other half, and will not show you too much when he thinks the time is not ripe, and will not easily make promises, but this kind of person usually has a strong sense of responsibility, and once he has made a promise, he will stick to it for a lifetime with perseverance beyond ordinary people. Hehe, the experience of many people who have come here tells us that don't easily refuse this kind of person, maybe one day, he will give you a big surprise. Don't be distressed, after all, there are many good things.

    I wish you lovers will eventually become married, hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He's barely interested in you anymore.

    Women are like that.

    When a man loves her and spoils her, he doesn't know how to cherish it.

    Once the man loses interest in her.

    It was only then that she felt what she was really thinking. Sorrowful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If I do not contact you for 1 week. It's a bit excessive.

    It's my words. Waiver

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The feelings that are divided in and are no longer complete feelings, give up!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm ip: Ms. Yes, what I just said about my relationship experience when I was young, everyone has their own situation, you can't be specific about it, we can't make a correct judgment, we have to explain the situation of both of you in more detail, such as your age, personality, and his work and family situation, etc., I believe I can solve the problem between you. I've been experienced in this area from my previous job, and I've seen so many true stories that both sides regret deeply, and I really don't want to see you as the next couple.

    In fact, if you have any ideas, you can ask him directly, tell him directly about your dissatisfaction with him and your expectations for him, don't always wait silently, otherwise it is easy to have a lifelong regret for both parties.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe this was his angry remark. When my husband and I were angry, they would say that they would break up, and he would also say that they would break up. But it didn't take long for them to reconcile again. People are angry and will say things without thinking through their brains, and your boyfriend is angry, that's why he says that.

    If you really don't think the two of you are suitable, you can simply strike while the iron is hot and divide it. If you are just angry, make it clear to him, otherwise this misunderstanding will be difficult to solve, and you may miss your life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't feel suitable, it means that you don't love him in your heart, if you don't love him, you will be uncomfortable, all kinds of unaccustomed, if you really don't love yourself, don't force yourself, if you love him just not confident, uncertain about the future, you don't want to bother yourself, don't think so far, if it's not suitable, look at the present, see if he loves you now, do you dare to entrust your future to him, can you accept his personality and temperament? Think about it all and think carefully before making a decision.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What you think may also be a possibility, but does the first question you raise about this relationship mean that you want to give up this relationship? So why do you care so much about him? But since he also agreed, it means that he also doubts whether your relationship can continue!

    There is a very ambivalent mentality, and the troubles that plague him are in a dilemma, so it is better to try them separately, and he can look at these problems in a different light, and maybe he will suddenly become clear.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What you said to him today, he thought it was you who proposed the breakup, you broke his heart, he was calm on the surface, but it hurt inside.

    When there is bitterness and fire in his heart, he vents it to his family.

    Do you really want to break up?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think such a person feels very good, if you go back to quarrel with your family just because you said such a word, it can only mean that his family is too used to him, and you have to think about whether he is a person who can be responsible. What does your future hold in the future?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is normal to quarrel between boyfriends and girlfriends, but it is a bit hypocritical to break up as soon as you quarrel, as the saying goes, quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, it is inevitable that there will be unsatisfactory or stressful times in life, we must learn to look at the problem from the perspective of others, two people together more tolerant and understanding, less complaining and accusation. The person you choose should trust him or her. Home and talent are prosperous!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then you want to be with him.

    Or don't you want to be together? If you want to be together and care about him, then tell him explicitly. If you don't want to be together, then you have already told him, and he agreed, that's enough, it doesn't matter to you whether he quarrels or not, you don't need to put your mind on this.

    So do you want to be with him or don't you want to be together? If you want to be together and care about him, then tell him explicitly. If you don't want to be together, then you have already told him, and he agreed, that's enough, it doesn't matter to you whether he quarrels or not, you don't need to put your mind on this.

    So do you want to be with him or don't you want to be together? If you want to be together and care about him, then tell him explicitly. If you don't want to be together, then you have already told him, and he agreed, that's enough, it doesn't matter to you whether he quarrels or not, you don't need to put your mind on this.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.It looks like you guys.

    They are not mature enough, and they can't completely make their own decisions.

    2.You don't love each other enough, and if you love each other enough, how can you say that it will not be inappropriate, and he also said that you can try this vague statement separately.

    3.It is recommended that you make yourself stronger first, and it will be better to know what kind of love you want.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Emotional things can never be said, love is a matter of two people at the beginning, and finally it is a matter of two families, parents are strong, definitely not, unless parents do not participate in the children's feelings more, give more financial support, two people love each other, and each has financial ability, after the run-in period, two people will last for a long time!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't rule out what you want.

    Men sometimes do it for the sake of face.

    I'd rather have my heart bleed.

    It doesn't matter if you have to pretend.

    So if you still love him.

    Don't talk about a breakup.

    It's so emotionally hurtful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Female, he said that we are not suitable, do I still have a chance to redeem it].

    Problem description: I was with him for two months, and I chased him at the beginning, his personality is more introverted, and he feels that he is not worthy of me, and he thinks that I deserve better. Before we were together, we talked about everything, and he would talk to me a lot about him every day.

    But after we met, I felt that he was very good to me and did a lot of things for me. We have been together for more than ten days, and we are in a different place. can only rely on WeChat to communicate, and he doesn't like to play **, because he feels that he is chatting about WeChat every day, and he has nothing to say if he plays ** again.

    How do children between the ages of 3 and 18 learn English? This is how smart parents train their children to speak English.

    Ad. Later the last time I said to break up, I said he didn't care about me, it was too cold. He said he didn't know what I was thinking about all day, did I want to find a boyfriend to revolve around me every day, I said no, I said you haven't called me for ten days, and then he agreed to break up, and said that he would watch me happy.

    I feel very sad, and then I will call him, I hope to say something to provoke him, when it comes to who to marry Zhaozhi or something in the future, he is still indifferent, and agrees with what I say, but I can feel that he is crying on the ** side. Later, he kept urging me to sleep, so he hung up the **. When I called him again, he didn't answer, and I was so angry that I blocked his WeChat.

    Two days after the breakup, I missed him very much, and I called him to ask for reconciliation. He said that what I said was very right, that I had a discord with him, and that he was very tired of arguing every day. He said that we are going to get married after we fall in love now, and since we know that our personalities are not in harmony, we should separate Chi Min as soon as possible, otherwise it will hurt the two of them.

    He said that he didn't want to talk about it anymore, and asked me to find one that suited me, was good for me, and satisfied myself. Ask to be friends. Later, we talked for an hour, and he was reluctant to reconcile.

    And then I still be friends, I can't help it, so I hung up the **.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's okay, in fact, if the two of them talk about Lu Bu with this kind of content, the foundation of emotional companionship is not good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, I feel that many things can be done, but the hole is a relationship This kind of thing can't be done, after all, two people want to live together for a lifetime, if they don't have that feeling for each other, then breaking up is the best choice, and the long pain is not as good as the short pain, it's best not to procrastinate.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think that from your description, at least his character is absolutely fine, but if he is righteous, loves to fight and has a firm stance, I guess your life will be very tangled, and I don't think you want your life to be too unpeaceful, often fighting and killing. In fact, it is not so easy to understand a person, and it is difficult to tolerate a person's shortcomings that you think are wrong, and you should think about it carefully, because if you are together, it is better to be for a lifetime, and it will only make everyone sad.

    But I don't quite understand, you have only been together for three days, are these three days officially together for three days or just known each other for three days, and there has been no other contact before? If you have only known him for three days, I don't think you should make a judgment about his temper and character, will it be because of your cheerfulness or negligence that you can't understand his personality and feelings more deeply? Whether he really cares about you, whether he is really gentle, whether he has his own opinions, whether he is emotionally stable, there are too many things that need to be verified.

    If you don't understand, then even if you go online for help, it won't help.

    The point is, he said that he wants to be friends more, I think this method is very good, try to agree with his point of view, to understand each other more deeply, maybe because of separation, your thoughts will make you finally come together, unless one party really does not want to be with the other party, then the degree of harm to both parties will naturally be less.

    I think don't rush to be together, distance produces beauty you know. Keep your longing and desire, I think you will definitely be able to get the true love of the other party, support you, you must love, but it is a love with a distance.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't know, but there are three ways to do this.

    1.The master of the love field, who wants to capture the art of indulgence, holds you dead in his hands, and makes you follow him with all his heart.

    2.Ordinary friend, you're not the type he likes, he doesn't feel that way for you, it's just that when you're like a sister, so keep your distance from you.

    3.really loves you, there is a kind of love to rest assured, send you away thousands of miles away, he knows very well that there is no future for people like him now, and you will only suffer together if you follow him, so it is enough for him to see you live a happy life with others.

    Which situation can only be proved by time, many things can't be forced, and you won't be happy if you are barely happy, just let him have more contact with him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He knew he couldn't give happiness. A thug like him can't become the boss and become a stepping stone for others.

    Let's go.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe he has a reason in mind that he can't say, and you should find out first.

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