What is the love that makes you stop believing after hearing about it?

When the person I love loves another man. With his surname, when he takes her name, there will be times when he doesn't believe in love. But I thought about marrying someone I didn't love, humiliating me, and having children, and I couldn't bear it with my pride.

I'd rather grit my teeth and get tired and try to get the life I want.

I don't believe in only people, there is no need to be angry with "love" because of a person's mistake, and I will not wronged myself to marry someone I don't like because I don't believe in "love". With all due respect, you have to be wronged by something at every turn, and it is not a strategic grievance, it is a mistake.

At the moment you didn't meet it, you definitely said you didn't believe it. But you have encountered, and before you know it, you have believed! Love is beautiful, and in the dark, two people meet each other, which is an ineffable fate.

When you fall in love with him, you can't see all his flaws; You say you won't do anything for him, but before you know it, you've already done it for him, and you may obviously not like him to smoke, but you will hand him a piece of gum when he smokes! When a woman meets love, her face has the unique look of a woman in love, and only at this moment is the most beautiful woman!

I still believe in other people's love, but I don't believe that love will happen to me, and slowly accept that the girl I love no longer loves me, and no longer fantasizes about her future, so I am also ready to be lonely for a lifetime, work, life, and no lover.

I used to yearn for and pursue love a lot, and even I believed that only with love, I could not even have bread. In the long run, I believe in feelings, in romance, in fate. But now, I'm confused.

I don't want a lot, just a relationship that belongs to me, some people always advise me to look at the people around me, and I take it seriously, but there is no one around me who belongs to me, they all have their emotional destination, and the people I like are not in me. So I guess love might be the preserve of some people, maybe the game of the main character on TV. I'm just a supporting character in the crowd.

It's not that you don't believe in love, it's just that you will always meet some people who make you slowly lose confidence in this circle, and sometimes you will wonder if the path you choose is also wrong.

I believe in the existence of love, because I have experienced, love is wonderful, sacred, inseparable, when I didn't meet him, I only believe in fate, just a person who follows fate, don't pursue anything, as long as you live well, but with him, I will care about him, happy. Anger. Pity.

Le would revolve around him, and so did he. Love exists, but you haven't met it yet, when you meet it, you don't think so much, wait for a while, you will get your own love, success or not is up to your own experience. Go for it!

A better tomorrow awaits you.

I believe in love, but I don't believe that love can last, after all, no one has ever said that love = lasting. On the contrary, it is precisely because love is so difficult to endure that we always sing the praises of the enduring and faithful part of love.

I have always heard that Mr. Jin Yuelin has loved Lin Huiyin all his life and will never marry him, but then I heard that his non-marriage is related to non-marriage, and he also has other female companions.

My ex-boyfriend had just sent me home and went on a date with his ex-girlfriend to watch a movie.

may be Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng, they are fairy couples in my heart, and they are substitutes for love, but I never thought that after Lin Huiyin died, Liang Sicheng actually married his student Lin Zhu, and instantly I wondered if Liang Sicheng really loved Lin Huiyin.

I would believe that the silver branch because of the following points1Believe in true love. Sincere feelings and love still exist, but they are difficult to find and maintain in modern society.

This makes the marriage more stable, but also leaves room for extramarital affairs, and the two need to be balanced in reality.

3.Greater sense of freedom. Modern people are more self-conscious, no longer automatically accept the restrictions of traditional marriage concepts, and pay more attention to personal freedom and development.

4.Life is becoming more stressful. The pressure of life in modern society is increasing, and the pressure of busy work and survival is easy to disintegrate feelings and affect the quality of marriage. But the more the relationship and marriage are maintained in the face of adversity, the more prominent its value will be, which requires the joint efforts of both parties.

5.The mindset needs to be calm. In the modern environment, marriage and relationships need to be faced with a calm mind.

Neither too dx, nor too desperate, maintain positive confidence and open thinking. Life has its ups and downs, and relationships also need to go through hardships and then mature, which needs to be experienced and dealt with with with calmly.

So, in general, despite the complexity of the modern social environment, sincere feelings and stable marriage are still worth pursuing. It requires a more pragmatic attitude, a stronger sense of tolerance, and a more relaxed attitude to explore and face. Under the right conditions, marriage and love remain important ways to achieve happiness and meaning in life, and this will not change.

The key is to have a correct understanding and reasonable expectations of relationships and marriages.

We see that more and more people are looking forward to love now, and they see some people who like it very much at first. But after getting along for a while, we found that each other has a lot of shortcomings, so there is no way to be together, and even we see some people even after they get married. The two also encountered various problems, which eventually led to their divorce.

So some people want to know if you still believe in marriage and love in such an emotional environment? Indeed, we see that there are many people now, and they may have a lot of problems in love. As a result, they can't go on like that, of course, we see more people who don't get along so well even if they get married, and even they have a lot of conflicts with each other, and eventually they can only break up with each other, or even divorce.

So it's because of this that we see a lot of people now, they don't trust marriage and forms of love that much. But despite this, we still see that there are still many people whose love is very happy and beautiful. Because we see that there are still many people, they are all looking forward to love, and they also hope to find someone they like, because in this way, two people can be better together.

So we see that everyone has a different view on marriage and love. Maybe for a small number of people, they think that the current marriage and love are not worth looking forward to, and even many marriage searches and love are not as good as we imagined. But we see that although some people are not so happy in love.

Even some people have a lot of problems after marriage, which leads to their eventual divorce. But we can see that there are still many people who are very much in love with each other. Not only that, but after they get married, the two of them can also care for and love each other, which not only makes them get along well together, but also makes their married life happier and better.

I believe, but love is only a part of life, don't let love affect the pace of your life, just use love as a seasoning in life, so that if you don't have love, you won't be overly uncomfortable, and love will be light, and it will be good.

At the age of seventeen or eighteen, I believed in love! is willing to live and die for it, and is willing to go to the soup for love, and break his bones. But the vigorous love did not come!

At twenty-seven or eight, I believe in money! Willing to live and die for it, willing to go to the soup for money, and break bones. But a lot of money didn't come!

At thirty-seven or eighteen, I believe in family affection! is willing to live and die for it, and is willing to go to the soup for family affection and break bones. Family affection is like breathing, and sometimes I forget that it exists. But she was never far away, always around, from the day I was born!

I believe in love, in its beauty and dazzlingness. I also believe in money, in its power and magic. It's just that I believe in family affection more, and I will never abandon it, from life to death!

The underlying logic of "what is love" lies in a so-called objective fact, which can be understood as what most people think love looks like in the eyes of most people, so I will add a "so-called" in front of the objective fact. Because love has a certain subjectivity, we encourage everyone to find a suitable mode of getting along with each other, and at the same time, we are giving everyone science about what is good love.

Isn't that a contradiction?

Therefore, the question I need everyone to think about is, what is the love in the eyes of each of you?

The love in the eyes of some people is respectful, the love in the eyes of some people is ups and downs, the love in the eyes of some people is white-headed to old age, and the love in the eyes of some people is living in the present.

Maybe we think about it more carefully, is it possible that everyone's definition of love must be long-lasting?

This is really not necessarily, among many relatively affectionate and literary friends, there is a group of people who enjoy the moment, they can travel to strange places romantically, they can stay at home together without going out, but they do their own things, they can talk about certain events together, and they can also move slowly on the road of life.

It's just that, as time goes by, they feel that they have lost the feeling of being together, and they agree to choose to separate at a certain time, and then they don't communicate with each other.

In their eyes, this is what love looks like at its best.

It may be different from what most of us understand about love, but you certainly can't deny the objective existence of this matter.

Back to the question just now, what does love look like in your eyes? Do you have the answer in mind now?

At the same time, a dialectical logic is generated, if you don't have a love in your heart, or you don't know what love looks like in your eyes, you will find that the "don't believe in love" in your mouth is not true.

After such a big detour, I actually want to tell you that if you don't know what love is like, we still have to choose to believe in love. Even if you are looking for someone to live with, you have to know how you should live your life.

Do you remember the independent self-awareness that you shared with you before? To understand independent self-consciousness is to know clearly what I have, what I want, and what I bring to others.

It's the same with love, what do you have in love, what do you want in love, and what can you bring to others in love.

When two people are compatible in these three issues, love comes knocking.

Although there are many time management masters now, and various news comes out frequently, but other people's affairs, we just eat melons and watch the excitement, return to our own lives, and we still have to be responsible for ourselves.