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Summary. If you live alone, this feeling is not surprising. Because you have colleagues outside, friends around you, someone to talk to you or pick up your topic, or even work or play outside with you, a group of people are lively together.
Once you get home, you suddenly feel quiet, and of course you suddenly seem lonely. It's all one person! Even if you live with your parents, after all, many times, many topics can't be talked about together, so naturally there are no colleagues and friends to talk about.
Why do I feel more lonely when I get home.
Do you live alone? Or live with your parents?
If you live alone, this feeling is not surprising. Because you have colleagues and friends around you outside, someone to talk to you or pick up your topic, and even work outside with you or go to play in the cherry blossom hall, a group of people are lively together. When you come home, you suddenly become quiet, and of course you suddenly seem very lonely.
It's all one person! Even if you live with your parents, after all, many times, many topics can't be talked about together, so naturally there are no colleagues and friends to talk about.
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When only grandma is left to reminisce about the past, she will feel lonely when she finds that her grandfather is no longer by her side and she is alone.
Grandpa and grandma have a very good relationship, and I have never seen the two elders quarrel, they are both very kind people. Grandpa didn't know how to cook before, so he had to let grandma do it herself. In the early years, it was okay, but later my grandmother gradually became unhealthy.
Grandpa actually started cooking by himself. Although noodles are usually boiled, the picture of the two elders eating noodles together is probably very beautiful.
Grandma always listened to grandpa. The year before last, my grandmother had rectal cancer, and my grandfather accompanied my grandmother to the city for surgery. One morning, while my grandmother was still asleep, my grandfather got up alone and sat by the window to secretly wipe his tears.
The voice may still not be fully controlled and heard by the grandmother. As a result, grandma comforted grandpa and told him that he was fine, and he would be able to ** after the operation.
Although the operation was done, my grandmother's body still did not **. The doctor said that grandma's body may not survive this year. Grandpa hasn't been the same since he heard the news.
Since the beginning of the year, several family meetings have been held to arrange the funeral for grandma. Shrouds, mourning halls, hearses and other things are arranged personally, and they must be the most decent and good-looking. Because grandma is a beauty-loving person.
He even said that grandma would definitely not see that when her two granddaughters got married, she bought a gold necklace for each of us as grandma's makeup.
As a result, last year, my grandfather passed away due to illness. Before leaving, grandpa asked grandma to stay at home in the countryside and not go anywhere, but always lived in the township. This family can also be regarded as the result of the hard work of grandparents at a young age.
Grandma really listened to grandpa and lived alone in the countryside. It was useless to try to persuade her to go to the city. After the New Year, I finally agreed to go to the city for more than ten days.
Tomorrow is ready to go, grandma said to grandpa in front of grandpa's portrait today: "Tomorrow you will go to the city with our cubs, you have to go with me!" Don't get lost, let's go see their new house.
I was in my room and I was so moved to hear my grandmother's words.
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The worst feelings of loneliness come when comparing yourself to others. For example, when you don't go home for the Chinese New Year, and there is only your father or mother left at home, this is the loneliest time, the lights are on outside, laughter and laughter, and the table in the house is full of your favorite dishes, but you are not there, only he is left alone to guard the table full of dishes and get a little cold!
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When there is no one to accompany you, when you are home alone. Especially when the children are older, they all go out to work. When they are not at home, parents feel lonely. Therefore, as children, you should always go home and see them. Stay with your parents. Especially for the elderly who live alone.
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There really isn't a one-size-fits-all answer to this. Hardly. When the family has no relatives around.
When there are no relatives and friends, no friends, no one to communicate with him, no one to communicate with him, and he is the loneliest when he is helpless for help. From this I think of those "empty nest" old people!
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When you are not feeling well, your loved ones are not around.
When you feel like you need someone else and you don't have the person you need around you, you can feel lonely and feel like you have no one to talk to. When there is a communication barrier. Or when it's hard to find someone who can understand you.
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Human beings are advanced animals that like to live in groups, if you are placed in a no-man's place for a few years, there will be problems with even basic communication, if a family of three children go to school or work far away, and then leave a person at home for a long time, you will find that it is very lonely, just like some lonely old people, it feels really lonely to go in and out alone.
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