What do you think people should be in when they are poor?

I am to maintain a positive, optimistic and peaceful attitude, be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner, do a good job of myself, and do a good job in my career. Nowadays, there are many young men and women, relying on the good conditions of their families, smoking, drinking, gambling and doing everything they can, doing nothing all day long, driving good cars, and living in comfortable houses. There are also some married young girls, willful, casual, strong comparison, others have what she wants to have, whether you can use it or not, whether there is money to spare, to satisfy their own selfish desires regardless of it, and there are some young couples, they spend their own money like running water, they are willful, they are also laissez-faire in educating their children, and children are allowed to be willful, children want to eat snacks to buy, buy a bunch of junk food, children who eat are not serious about eating, young parents play mahjong, children play freely, homework is not completed, I can't take care of whether I learn or not, I complain about the teacher and the school because of the poor grades, and the children will have smartphones and play games.

You must be positive, don't lose yourself because of poverty, live a purposeful life, believe that suffering is only temporary, and sooner or later you will get your own happy life.

Maintain an optimistic and positive attitude, I think when you are desperate, the most important thing is to analyze the reasons for the current dilemma based on your own situation, and then make a corresponding plan for the problem, such as learning skills or learning other knowledge, determine the direction of your struggle, and then make a 5-year plan for your own efforts, step by step, work hard, believe in yourself, so that you will definitely turn the situation around and achieve success.

If you are poor, you will be left alone. There are two keywords, solitude and goodness. Du is an independent solitude, not a lonely solitude.

The poorer and poorer we are, the more we must insist on an independent personality, have our own opinions, do not complain about others, do not rely on others, be able to think independently, and find our own path to development. Like the kind of person who scares the sky and the earth because he is poor, he will not be able to get rid of bad luck in his life. To be good is to be kind to others.

If you want to succeed and develop, you can't do without the recognition and help of others, and if you want to get these, you have to be kind to others. If you compete with others for resources and opportunities everywhere, and can't tolerate people everywhere, then how can others give you a good face? ‍‍

Maintaining a simple, quiet and contented state of mind is the rarest thing in today's society, without too much desire, to be able to live this extraordinary day comfortably, and to do things without letting everyone understand themselves, just to be worthy and self-conscious. I understand human nature, understand life, reconcile myself, and then let a wise heart accompany myself to face everything without regrets and complaints, and walk out of a unique life that only belongs to you.

Maintain an optimistic attitude, because mentality determines fate, strive for the same goal, no goal of life and life is no trajectory at all, learn to store investment, financial knowledge is must be learned, it can help us to flow fixed funds, and increase income.

When we encounter difficulties and hardships in life, we must grasp our time well, cherish our youth, and work hard to build our lives! How can the road of life be pure and happy, it will also be accompanied by sadness and unsatisfactory! When you are proud, don't forget your struggle; When you are frustrated, you must cheer up your spirits!

Everyone must be a strong person in life! If you are going through a storm in your life, you must also strive to be a strong self!

I think people should maintain self-esteem and self-confidence when they are poor, maintain a self-motivated spirit, remember that poverty is temporary, as long as you don't give up, you will definitely turn over one day.

When you are in poverty, you must maintain a positive and optimistic attitude.

We must believe that poverty is only temporary, as long as we live every day in a down-to-earth manner, treat our work with our hearts, and treat our colleagues and friends well, one day, we will be able to see the moon and live a happy life.

According to their own ability, do not learn to compare, start from small things, do not be good and small, dripping into a river, the initial entrepreneurship is like a snowball and gradually growing, investing in teachers and friends to accumulate knowledge, cooperating with others, not afraid of hardships and dangers, overcoming difficulties, and striving for entrepreneurial success.

Keep up with the pace of the times, work steadfastly, and live seriously! At work, based on their own duties, even if they work overtime, they must complete the work with quality and quantity. With patience, enthusiasm and a sense of responsibility, we will provide honest and satisfactory services for patients, and try to avoid medical errors and doctor-patient disputes!

As a child, he not only takes care of his own small family, but also often goes home to visit his parents, have a meal together, and chat with his parents.

There is a good saying: the rich will help the world, and the poor will be good alone. The meaning of this sentence probably means that when I am rich, I have the ability, and I can help the world at the same time, that is, I have the ability.

But when you are poor, you have to find a way to control what is in front of you, and after stabilizing your basic life, you have to find a way to make your life better, just work hard, no matter whether there is a result or not, at least work hard, and your life will become better.

I believe that when people are poor, they should maintain their self-esteem regardless of whether they have money or not, and do not sell their dignity for money.

We should keep in mind that thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, although we are not doing well today, we can get ahead one day.

<> 1. No longer think about how to save money, but think about how to make money.

Many people may have had the experience of poverty, and at that time, they were always careful in their calculations, because they didn't have much money, and they could only live by saving. And after his own efforts, he became richer and richer, and his life became better and better. Although I don't spend money lavishly, I also understand a truth, money is not saved, but earned by finding a way.

Only by not being afraid of hardship, not afraid of tiredness, having the spirit of innovation, and having the tenacity not to admit defeat, can you become rich and your life will be more meaningful.

Second, after experiencing poverty, you will understand those who are poor more and always want to help others.

From poverty to wealth, you may experience many twists and turns, and it will not be achieved overnight. However, such an experience will make me more mature and will also make me more aware of those who have gone through hardships. When others are in trouble, I don't despise them, but think about my past.

I will definitely lend a helping hand and help others is a "charcoal in the snow", which can bring warmth to people at the same time, but also let others get out of trouble and embark on the road to success.

3. I feel that I have too little company with my family before, and I will try my best to make up for my family.

When I was poor, I always thought about how to escalate and how to get out of this situation. Therefore, I don't have much time to spend with my family, and the time with my family is extremely short, and although I feel guilty in my heart, I can't do anything about it. But after success, I will think of the importance of family affection, and it is my goal to make my family happy.

I will find time to chat with my family and take my family on a ......It will also provide a better material life for the family, and only in this way will you feel a sense of accomplishment.

He may become impetuous, he may look down on the people around him, etc. When he has money, he will spend lavishly, his mentality will be a little floating, and he will not play with his poor friends before.

The first is to become extravagant, second, to feel that one's way of life should have changed, the third is to begin to enjoy life, the fourth is to be willing to be close to other people, and the fifth is to support the poor.

A person who goes from poor to rich may have an upstart mentality, such as looking down on his past self or being anxious to prove to those around him that he is rich. There may also be a profligacy.

First of all, you have to understand what the "poor mentality" is. The so-called "poor mentality" is a reflection of a person's inner values, such as low self-esteem, vanity, strong self-esteem, and small ......The most direct behavior reflected in this is the fear in the heart, the anxiety and pessimism about the future. This will affect a person's judgment and choice of things in front of you, and directly affect your fate.

So how do we move away from the poor mentality, or change the poor mentality?

First, strengthen psychological construction. The attitude of people with a poor mentality towards the rich is nothing more than envy, jealousy and hatred: envy of their wealth, jealousy and hatred that they cannot replace them, and hatred of other people's wealth and status.

Actually, it's not necessary at all. Very few rich people are born with a golden key, speculation does not last long, most of them still rely on their own ability to work hard, instead of envying others, you might as well think more about how to break through the status quo.

Second, strengthen the expansion of the pattern. Another manifestation of the mentality of the poor is that the pattern is too small, and in the face of one thing, they only look at the immediate interests and do not make long-term plans. If you want to change this behavior, you may want to set short-term and long-term goals for your life or work.

Long-term goals motivate you to complete short-term goals, just like upgrading to fight monsters, you may not see the changes in the achievement of small goals, but you can see positive changes over time.

Third, be optimistic about the future. People with a poor mentality tend to be insecure and pessimistic about the future. The behavior reflected is to do one thing, and many psychological barriers have been set up for oneself before it has even begun.

How do you get things done? It's a good idea to have a positive attitude and try to give it a try, because by the time you complain and find a reason, others are already taking action.

In short, to change the mentality of the poor, we must first change our thinking, be optimistic and positive to do things every day, although this change will not immediately make you rich immediately, but it will definitely bring you changes in your life.

There are two very typical mentalities of the poor:

1. Always say no to opportunities;

2. Always want to get rich overnight.

If you put any opportunity in front of him today, he will say no. Even today, you have opened a very successful restaurant, and you tell your relatives and friends from the bottom of your heart your successful experience of opening a restaurant, so that they can also open a restaurant, can you guarantee that each of them will open a restaurant? Is there still someone who doesn't do it?

So that's a very typical mentality of a poor person, who will say, "You can do it, I can't!" ＂。

The manifestation of getting rich overnight is that if you tell him any business, his first question is whether to make money, you say make money, he immediately asks the second question "is it easy or not", you say "easy", then he then asks the third question "is it fast, you say fast!" That's when he said, "Okay, I'll do it!" Hehe, you see, he's so naïve!

Let's think about it, is there a kind of money in this world: making money, easy, and fast, no, even if there is, it is not our turn, so in life, we must know how to pay. So why should you pay?

Because you pay to pursue your dreams, people live for hopes and dreams, if a person has no dreams and no pursuits, then there is no meaning in life!

Whatever you want in life, you have to give first. If you want to get time, you have to give your time first, and if you want to get money, you have to give money first. If you want to have a hobby, you have to sacrifice the hobby first.

However, one thing is clear, you will be doubly rewarded for your efforts in this project. It's like a seed, you plant it, and then you water it, you fertilize it, you hoe it, you kill insects. In the end, what you reap is not dozens of times, hundreds of times the return.

In life, you must know how to pay, you don't want to be so eager for quick success, you want to get a return immediately, there is no free lunch in the world, you can not succeed easily.

I can only imagine how I felt when I became rich, after all, I am still trying to become richer, and I can't say that I have become richer.

When people are in poverty, they often do things that make them feel undignified. What they did, and what they went through, may not be something to be proud of.

When a person is about to become wealthy, he or she will feel like he or she has regained his human dignity (if that dignity has ever been lost). In fact, having personal dignity is an important part of having a vision.

Before transitioning to wealth, people often begin to reimagine their past experiences of poverty. They realize that it's not a good idea to imagine those years with feelings of stress, frustration, and resistance, because they are filling their minds with painful memories, which is probably not beneficial. So they decided not to accumulate so much emotional baggage and instead looked for better ways to imagine the past and the present.

Even if external poverty continues for some time, it still makes no sense to leave life under stress. It may be necessary for us to experience poverty, but it is optional to add feelings of pain to those experiences.

Even after transitioning to wealth, you will continue to revise your definition of wealth. As you continue to learn and grow, the way you define the layers of quality of life or happiness in relationships, such as relationships, will still change. But most likely, your biggest shift will happen just before the initial turning point is coming.

Finally, I hope that everyone can be rich, whether spiritual or material, and live a better life.