Should adults interfere when they hit their children on the street?

Stopped a few times. I hate it when parents scold and beat their children in public, and the damage to children can extend all the way into adulthood, very, very serious. I have been a teacher in a training school for several years, and when parents scold and beat their children in front of me, I will use the teacher's "authority" to stop them immediately and criticize and educate them "fiercely".

Later, I stopped being a teacher, and once I met a parent beating and scolding a child on the street, I had an idea, walked over and persuaded him, saying: "This parent, I am a teacher from a nearby elementary school, seeing you beating and scolding children like this, I think there is a bit of a problem with the way, can we talk a few words?" The parent was stunned for a moment, immediately a little embarrassed, and then we talked a few more words, and I took out the set of theories back then, and Balabala said a long paragraph, and the child looked at me with tears in his eyes.

In the end, let the child admit his mistake to the parent, let the parent apologize to the child, and then the matter is over. ‍‍

Of course you have to stop it! I don't think it's advisable to hit a child for the purpose of educating or establishing parental authority. Parents who lack patience and wisdom tend to treat their children in a simple and rude way, which is not good for both parents and children.

Education requires patience, children have their own reasons, parents should find out the reasons behind the child's deviant behavior through observation and communication with the child, and then take corresponding countermeasures. The parent-child relationship, like all relationships, is one of mutual respect and equality. The child is a complete and independent individual, and parents should not think that they can be above the child. ‍‍

It must be stopped first. But don't blame the adults just yet, maybe the child has done a lot of things that can drive people crazy, maybe the person is not the child's biological parents, maybe the person has a mental problem or something else. On the adult side, gentle persuasion is still the main thing to figure out the situation.

Sometimes adults hit children in anger, maybe he tells you that the anger can be dissipated a little, and the rationality can recover a little.

Of course, I know you are for the good of children, but it is natural for children to be naughty; Parents should discipline their children, but scolding them in public is counterproductive, and the more this happens, the more difficult it will be for the child to manage each time; There must be a reason why children are disobedient, and this reason must be related to parents, that is, they didn't set the rules from the beginning, which is the fault of parents.

I don't think you should meddle because some people are extreme, and if you dissuade him, maybe the child will get a heavier punishment.

Yesterday I was traveling with friends, and I saw a woman beating a little girl about 8 years old in the scenic spot, the process was very brutal, she pushed the girl to the ground, and grabbed the girl's collar to pull her up and kicked the girl down. My friends and I were about 30 meters away from them, I threw the camera at my boyfriend, and quickly ran over, at this moment the woman grabbed the girl's collar again, I grabbed the woman's hand fiercely, told her to let go, I had little strength, I couldn't pull it away at all! She said that the doll is disobedient Balabala, and she doesn't understand the dialect very well, I said is this your child, if you don't let go, I'll call the police!

She said it was her child, you call the police, and then I still couldn't understand her dialect, and at this moment my friend and boyfriend arrived and pulled the woman's hand. Later, there were more and more people, and she silently pulled the child and ran away.

Personally, I feel that I can intervene at the right time. It just depends on what kind of education methods and methods the elderly adopt.

I won't interfere, after all, it is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs, and he can't make it unpleasant for others and himself.

There is no persuasion or not, it depends on whether you are willing to persuade or not, it doesn't matter if you persuade or not, but I can't bear it!

Someone else is beating up in the street, but it's your own child, do you still need to ask? What is this question trying to express, are you highly qualified, or do you handle it calmly? I feel like you're supposed to be the childless kind.

I don't understand any child who has not been beaten by their parents when they are growing up, as long as it is not too excessive, it is a very reasonable means of education.

Legal Analysis: If an adult hits a child, and the child is injured to a certain extent, it may be suspected of a criminal offense. According to the law, if an adult hits a child, the circumstances are serious, and it may be suspected of constituting the crime of abuse.

Whoever abuses a family member, and the circumstances are heinous, is to be sentenced to up to two years imprisonment, short-term detention, or controlled release.

Legal basis: "Public Security Administration Punishment Law of the People's Republic of China" Article 9: Where violations of the administration of public security such as fights or damage to other people's property caused by civil disputes are relatively minor, the public security organs may mediate and handle them. Where, after mediation by the public security organs, the parties reach an agreement, they are not to be punished.

Where no agreement is reached through mediation or no performance is made after an agreement is reached, the public security organs shall punish the violator of the administration of public security in accordance with the provisions of this Law, and inform the parties that Chunyu may lawfully initiate a civil lawsuit in the people's court regarding the civil dispute.

Adults hit children and break the law. Hitting a child by an adult is a wrong act of education and does not generally constitute a crime, but if the child is slightly injured or injured, he may be investigated for criminal responsibility for the crime of intentional injury. At the same time, if an adult beats a child for a long time, it may constitute abuse, and the people's court may, at the request of other relatives, make a judgment to change custody rights in accordance with the law.

Article 234 of the Criminal Law stipulates that anyone who intentionally injures the body of another person shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, short-term detention or controlled release. Whoever commits the crime in the preceding paragraph, causing serious injury, is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years; Whoever causes the death of a person or seriously injures a person by especially cruel means and causes serious disability shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than 10 years, life imprisonment or death. Where this Law provides otherwise, follow those provisions.

It should not be involved. In most cases, conflicts between children are caused by both sides, so don't take sides of the equation, even if your own children have conflicts with other people's children, don't indiscriminately think that it is someone else's child's problem. As long as they are not injured, parents do not need to be overly involved, as long as they pay attention to their emotional feelings and guide them to learn to express their thoughts and feelings in words.

If there is a special situation, such as if a child is really bullying another child, then you need to talk to the parents of that child and teach your child to protect himself and try to avoid the child who always hits others.

If none of the children are seriously injured and do not need special treatment, the only thing you need to do as a parent is to stay calm and pay attention to your children's emotional feelings. Remember to stay calm and pay attention to your children's emotional feelings. If your own children are fighting, remember that the more you intervene, the worse it may be, because they are all your children, and whoever you talk to will displease the other child.

So the best thing to do is to stay calm and pay attention to your children's emotional feelings, not only to those who are asking for help but also to be aware of the feelings of children who are not actively seeking you. You will find that when you don't get involved in the war between your children, gradually they will also calm the war and learn to communicate and live with each other harmoniously, but your involvement may lead to their war.

I think that when children fight, parents must intervene, and as parents in the issue of educating children, they must inform their children not to use force to solve problems. If the child has a tendency to violence, because the child does not know the severity of the attack, as a parent, you must intervene when you see your child fighting, so that the child does not use violent methods to solve the problem. If parents turn a blind eye, it will only make children think that they are doing the right thing, and today's children should clearly understand that this is a legal society, and force cannot solve the problem.

Many parents think that it is a normal phenomenon for children to fight nowadays. Because the good and strong hearts between children are very important, they will also choose to use force to solve problems, but in fact, it is difficult for children to have a cognition when they fight. If you break or bite your child, it will only cause a financial burden on you, and even make your child think that he is doing the right thing.

Nowadays, some parents will tell their children when educating their children that if they are beaten, they must be beaten back, but in fact, it is not correct to educate their children in this way. <>

Educating childrenWhen parents educate their children, they must establish a correct understanding for their children. Because the child is relatively young, he thinks that as long as the parents do not reprimand themselves for fighting, it is a positive thing. However, if the child has a violent tendency when he is young and is not controlled, when the child grows up, he will still think that as long as he can solve the problem with his fists, he will not use words to tell it

Violent Problem SolvingWhen a child is being bullied, parents will also tell the child to reach out and fight back. But in fact, if you do it with each other, it will only aggravate the development of the situation, so when parents educate their children, they should tell their children that they should play friendly with each other. Even if you can't solve a problem by yourself after encountering it, you can choose to tell the adults around you and let them solve it.

You shouldn't meddle, children's affairs should be handled by children, and if adults interfere, it will make the matter more and more serious.

I think if the situation is not very serious, parents can not get involved in the child's dispute, the child has its own world view, what the parents have to do is to guide them to the right path, but the conflict between the children parents should not be less involved, to cultivate the child's ability to be independent, can explain the right and wrong to the child afterwards.

This still depends on the specific situation.,If it's just a fight, then don't care.,As long as it's not very dangerous, I don't think adults need to interfere.,After all, children also have children's ways.。

Parents can manage it, so that the child will stop, and the child will be better, which is also good. Because the child will be scolded by the parents, he will also be very good.

I think it's best for parents not to interfere when children fight, but not to endanger their own health, and to stop them in time and tell them that it's wrong.

No, it's because when the child fights, it's just because there is some small conflict, and the matter should be handled by the two of them.

It is best for parents not to participate in children's fights, and the reasons for children's fights are very simple, so they should be allowed to deal with it themselves, so that the two people can reconcile after that.

I think it's best for parents not to meddle in children's fights, because it's best for children to solve problems by themselves, as long as they don't go too far, they don't need to interfere.

Conflicts between children can be starving, depending on the situation, whether or not a Dana Zen feaster needs to intervene.

In general, conflict between young children is a normal social learning process, and children need to learn how to get along with others, resolve conflicts, and build friendships as they interact with their peers.

If the conflict between children is minor, adults can let them resolve it on their own, which helps develop children's problem-solving and self-regulation skills.

However, if the conflict between children has led to serious consequences such as physical harm or mental trauma, or if the children need the help of an adult to resolve the conflict, then the adult should intervene in time and give appropriate guidance and support.

At the same time, adults can also help children better resolve conflicts by guiding them to learn to express their own needs, understand the feelings of others, and find common ground.