After the blind date, should the girl take the initiative? Why?

Updated on society 2024-06-13
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You reach out to the man and make it clear that you are willing. You have to seize the moment, be good at onslaught, and not be ashamed. Among the many girls that men pursue, they will give priority to the girls who take the initiative, and the girls who are indecisive and unwilling to express their stance to get the certificate will be thrown away as a spare tire.

    Engaging in love is competition, and it is also sitting in the right seat. It's like watching a big play, if you go late, you will be occupied. In the end, there are many problems left.

    In the people, there is fierce competition. There are many boys in the people, and men with poor conditions often cannot marry a daughter-in-law and have no children, and this race is immediately eliminated by society. The world is so ingenious!

    The best genes of human beings are inherited at a rapid pace! It's the same with women, most of the last marriages are bad!

    If you wish, you should reach out to the man. In theory, women attackers account for 1 3. To work in the city, the female attacker is more than 1 3.

    There are few men with good conditions, girls are slow to attack, and good men are robbed. After all, the act of blind date means that both parties are in love for the purpose of love, unlike ordinary pick-ups, there is also the problem of embarrassment and shame, blind date is what to say, if you have a good feeling, say it directly, for example, "I think we have a good chat, if you think it's okay, you can continue to understand" or be frank "We had a good chat today, next time we have time to watch a movie together", in short, it is to express.

    When I met a boy with eyes on a blind date, I would take the initiative to contact each other, and we would talk more about each other's familiarity to see if we could come together! I don't think girls have to be reserved, and when they meet someone they like, they should shoot! If you don't want to miss it, take the initiative......So you don't have to have a boy take the initiative about this matter, if you meet a boy who doesn't like to talk and is introverted, if you don't take the initiative, then it's all fun!

    You don't have the meaning to take the initiative to contact the other party, you can go through the introduction, contact, reveal whether the other party can agree, whether there is any idea of wanting to get along with you, if there is, then you are too big to take the initiative to contact, if not, you will not present a difficult scene.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    After the blind date, I personally think that girls should take the initiative; Because if you are satisfied with the other party after the blind date, you need to take the initiative.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think we should take the initiative, because the girl who takes the initiative will be recognized by the other party, and the two of them will have further development.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think you should take the initiative, because in a relationship, the man takes the initiative first, and if the girl takes the initiative, it will seem unreserved.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Boys should take the initiative, otherwise they feel that boys don't have that energy, and there is something wrong with their psychology.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's a two-way street, but it's up to the boy to take the initiative.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Introduction: When many people reach the age of marriage and have not yet partnered, the family will arrange a blind date, so that they can hold their grandchildren as soon as possible. Young people also listen more to their families, because they really can't find a partner.

    But after the blind date, I found that the woman was not active at all, did she not want to be with her? Today, I will tell you about it, if the woman does not take the initiative after the blind date, should she continue to develop? <>

    I want to tell you that if the woman doesn't take the initiative to contact you, it's actually because girls are not very enthusiastic about blind dates, and if you say that girls who are enthusiastic from a different angle, she won't choose a blind date. If you want to continue to be with her, you have to accept her ininitiative and take the initiative, and not contacting you does not mean that she is not interesting to you. You can try to talk to her for a few more days to see how she treats you.

    There is also a kind of thing I want to tell you, if she doesn't mean anything to you when you first meet, she definitely doesn't want to contact you. <>

    What I want to tell you is that it is very normal for girls not to contact you, because girls have always been a slow heater.

    And it's very passive, you met on a blind date, there is no emotional foundation, and girls generally don't take the initiative. If your conditions are superior, the girl may take the initiative to contact you, but if your conditions are average, what the girl has to do is to let you pursue her, not to contact you yourself. <>

    What I want to tell you is that if you have a crush on this girl, it is recommended that you can continue to develop and continue to pursue her. In fact, you can often ask a girl out to dinner and watch a movie, and then chat with her more to solve her troubles, so that the girl will be impressed by you and want to be with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the woman doesn't take the initiative after the blind date, then you can take the initiative to contact her, if she has always ignored you, then you don't need to continue, if she will also chat with you, then you can ask her out again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If a girl never takes the initiative to find you, it means that you are not attractive to girls at all, she does not have you in her heart at all, don't mistake her ininitiative for a girl's reserve. In this emotional game, you have no drama at all, there is no hope at all, and you really don't need to take the initiative to find her anymore, because you can't warm up a heart that doesn't mean anything to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Just because she doesn't reach out to you doesn't mean she's completely boring to you, you can try to find some topics to talk to her about and see how the other person treats you. Girls are people who believe in first feelings. If the first feeling is not interesting to you, they are reluctant to reach out to you.

    At this time, as a boy, you should be a little more patient, you can ask the girl to come out to watch a movie, eat, and let the girl deepen her image of you in further chatting and getting along.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the woman doesn't take the initiative after the blind date, I think you should be able to take the initiative to contact the girl more, if the girl doesn't take the initiative, I don't think there is any need to continue to develop.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Should continue to develop, blind date girls, generally very shy, need boys to take the initiative to pursue, so you can try to develop.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If after the blind date, the woman does not take the initiative, but does not refuse, this means that when waiting for the man to take the initiative, the man will take the initiative, take the initiative to communicate with the woman, and create opportunities with the woman to talk about some topics and understand each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think that since it is a blind date, the boy must take the initiative, talk for a while and then watch, if you think it is appropriate, talk about it, if you feel that you have talked for a while, the other party still does not take the initiative, then forget it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    She is trying to get away with it, pretending not to care about you in order to gain the initiative, what you need at this time is to be anti-customer-oriented! From today on, don't take the initiative to text ** to her, she will definitely contact you to ask the reason, if she still doesn't take the initiative to contact you, then I don't need to say, you know!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If she doesn't take the initiative, you can take the initiative, if you don't take the initiative, then there is no need to develop.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, among boys and girls, girls are generally more passive, so if the boy does not take the initiative after three days, the girl will not take the initiative, in fact, most of the girls are not active, so don't pay too much attention, you should continue to take the initiative to chat and communicate with each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you think that the blind date is more satisfied, then take the initiative to chase it yourself. If the other person is also satisfied with you, you will have results.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can take the initiative to chat with the woman first, and ask the other party how they feel about you? When you take the initiative many times, if she doesn't give back, there will be no follow-up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think if you want this relationship to continue to develop, then you, as a boy, must take the initiative, because girls generally don't take the initiative. In this case, he will lose the initiative.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After the blind date, if the woman does not take the initiative, the man can also take the initiative, if you like this girl can find some opportunities to contact him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If after the blind date, the woman is not this initiative, we, as boys, we must take the initiative and then take the initiative to chat with the girl.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Look at the girl's attitude, find more interesting topics, or ask out to play some games, maybe the other party is also restrained and embarrassed.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think you should decide according to your actual situation, if you like girls more, I think you should take the initiative, after all, as a girl is likely to be very reserved.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think it's normal for girls to not take the initiative after a blind date, because girls are a little shy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's time to develop for a little longer, and if it's still like this, then it's time to say goodbye.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Maybe he's been busy lately, and when he's busy, maybe it'll be fine. I can ask him in person, as a boy you should be proactive.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, you can choose to take the initiative yourself, so that you will have better development.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Blind date is different from chasing by yourself, don't have excessive pursuit psychology. At this moment, your level is more manifested in the introducer, when you introduced the other party, you acquiesced to the conditions, we are equal, let the other party see more, the introducer has not said your advantages, such as talkative, such as hobbies, abilities, the bottom line of principles, etc., this is the charm of a person in love and marriage.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Blind date is generally a boy should take the initiative, especially the woman to be introverted or not good at taking the initiative, if the man does not take the initiative to lose a fate, if the man takes the initiative, the woman is more cold or refuses, then don't continue.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This is not necessarily, because girls themselves are very reserved, many girls will choose to passively accept, as a boy, you have to take the initiative to see her reaction and attitude towards you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Party B does not take the initiative to contact you, in fact, this is normal, who said that the woman should take the initiative to contact you to continue to develop? Can't you develop without taking the initiative to connect? Boys should take the initiative to contact, if the boy has a good impression of the girl, the boy will take the initiative to contact and communicate with him, which is conducive to the communication between the two people and further accelerates.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If the woman doesn't take the initiative, you should be a little more patient as a boy at this time, you can ask the girl to come out to watch a movie, eat, and let the girl have a better impression of you in further chatting and getting along!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Under normal circumstances, girls are more passive, so it is normal for girls not to take the initiative after a blind date, as a boy should take the initiative to contact girls, if boys take the initiative to contact girls, girls always ignore them, or do not reply, it means that girls may not want to associate with him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This really means that you can't continue to develop, which means that the other party is not interested in you at all, so I don't think there is any need to hang on a tree, otherwise you will only be sad in the end.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    After the blind date, the girl does not take the initiative, it does not mean that you have no hope in the future, because he feels that the two of you have just come into contact, so you don't know a lot of things, and he may also wait for your initiative.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    After the blind date, the woman does not take the initiative, the man can take the initiative, if the man asks the other party well, the other party often does not agree, or finds an excuse to shirk, it means that there should be no way to continue.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    No, the blind date girl does not take the initiative, it may be because he is more shy, or he has an inner personality, and the boy must take the initiative at this time.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This is not necessarily, so if the two of you have just started to get in touch, it is normal for girls not to take the initiative, and after the two of you are familiar with each other for a period of time, I believe he will take the initiative if he wants to talk.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Whether you continue to develop or not depends on how you feel, whether it is suitable or not; Men are decisive and simple, they don't need to care about anything else, they can go if they like it, and chase it if they are suitable! How can there be so many inkblots to ask this and that.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think if your blind date never takes the initiative to talk to you, then her attitude is either too reserved, too shy, or not interested in you, so she doesn't take the initiative to find you.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I don't think you can think like that, because women are generally more shy, more introverted, and they are more shy, so you should take the initiative to talk to her.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you don't take the initiative, it doesn't mean that you can't continue to develop, maybe your relationship hasn't reached a very good point, try to be kind to the woman as much as possible, and slowly, it will get better.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Not necessarily, some girls are more reserved, more upright, and hope that boys take the initiative, which is also a more common situation, you can ask directly.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    After the blind date, if you like the woman, you should take the initiative, if you take the initiative and the woman still ignores you, it is proof that there is no possibility of continued development.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    As long as the woman does not refuse, you can continue to take the initiative to develop, because it may also be that the woman is particularly shy, so she does not take the initiative.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It depends on the character of the other boy.,But basically there should be no dislike.。 For shy boys who have not been in love, it will be better to take the initiative to contact.

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