Should I take the initiative, and what should I do if I can t take the initiative?

There are many kinds of active classification.

You can just tell him that let's try to get along, and see how he reacts.

You can also come out to chat with him as a friend, he has just fallen out of love, you have a reason to find him, to see his attitude towards you, you can express your thoughts appropriately, don't say it directly.

I think it's better for girls to be a little more subtle, so I suggest you have a second one.

Then you can try to reminisce with him about your old days, and if he can forget about the breakup for a while, then you should be able to talk to him and wait for him to come out of that shadow, and then take the initiative to see.

Then find an opportunity to take him to sing and give him a hint at She's "Not Full of Lovers", hinting at him! That's how my girlfriend hinted at me in the first place。。 The effect is not bad, hehe.

If he likes you, he will tell you, and if he likes him, he will accept him. If you don't like it, it depends on how he treats you. Strive for your own happiness, which is beyond the control of others. I hope you choose to be happy.

If you like it, take the initiative, if you don't like it, you don't need to take the initiative, let him take the initiative.

If you really like him, take the initiative.

If you want to say it, just say it, it's your own thoughts, he won't do anything if you say it, maybe you can persuade him, that's a good thing!

If you don't know how to take the initiative to communicate with others in social situations or interpersonal interactions, you can try to improve yourself from the following aspects:

1.Improve your topic materials and knowledge reserves, read more books, news, articles, pay attention to hot topics, and accumulate conversation points and insights, which will help you communicate and show yourself in conversations.

3.Learn to discover each other's needs and needs, listen to each other's words, pay attention to the details of expressions, postures and tones, respond to each other in a timely manner, and establish contact and trust with each other.

4.Imitate the behavior of others, observe how the people around you take the initiative to communicate and communicate with others, appropriately absorb their experience and methods, and find a way that suits you. At the same time, pay attention to and respect the personality of the other person, and do not deliberately imitate it.

At the same time, be patient, confident and courageous, constantly try new ways and methods, and believe that you can gradually become more active and more confident.