Why are more and more young people not going home to see the elderly?

<>——— more and more young people are not going home to visit the elderly, mostly because the reality does not allow it, and it is not deliberate. The length of time, the severity of work pressure, and the assumptions of today's assumptions all influence whether young people go home to visit the elderly.

Short vacation time, long distances, and expensive travel expenses

More and more young people are going out to work hard to find a way out for themselves and future generations, but most of them are not able to gain a foothold in the big cities and do not have a good life. And every New Year's holiday, the old people in the countryside will call over and urge the young people to go home for the New Year. From the perspective of young people, their statutory holidays are very short, and they will have to come back to work immediately after a day or two when they go back, but the salary will be much higher when they work on statutory holidays.

In addition, if they are far away from home, young people are more reluctant to go back, so they either spend more money to buy a high-speed rail ticket or spend less money to buy a long-distance ticket. There is always one choice to sacrifice time and money, and this is probably the dilemma of most migrant workers.

Busy with work and socializing

Young people who want to go home to see their parents are often forced to choose the holidays, which cost a lot of money and take a break from work and socializing. With the increasing social pressure, in order to survive in society, those who are migrant workers must grasp the job opportunities and necessary social interactions, because the substitutability of migrant workers' work is too high. For example, migrant workers, they take orders are one-time, and they can't stop their work on holidays and go home to accompany their parents, if they really do this, the contractor will not easily agree, and someone will inevitably replace your job.

In fact, staying and working on holidays is to have a good relationship with the boss, so as not to leave a bad impression on the boss, and this kind of social interaction related to the job has to be done.

Always thinking about accompanying parents and not in a hurry

Many young people have this idea, they feel that their parents are healthy and young, so they think that they will have time to spend with their parents in the future, and they are not in a hurry now. However, among the top ten regret events in life counted by netizens, there are children who want to support but don't treat their relatives, and often regret that they can't serve their parents well when they are alive. So, if young people can go home more often to see their parents, they should go home more.

The state has also written "go home more often" into relevant laws and regulations to warn against unfilial children. However, it is a moral obligation in itself to go home to visit the elderly, and it is a natural behavior for each of us, and we should go home more often even if there is no legal requirement.

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The biggest reason why young people go home to visit the elderly is that they are not happy with their life outside, and they don't want to add trouble and pressure to their parents, and they feel guilty and sorry. The old man in the family is already old, and he has not lived a happy life with him, and he feels very guilty. There's an old saying:

When you go out, you don't want to report good news but not bad news", they don't want the elderly to know that their lives are unsatisfactory.

No matter how difficult the world is, fortunately, there are always people waiting for you to come home.

There are many things to do, and work is busy.

Nowadays, the phenomenon of involution among young people is serious, everyone is working hard, they are very tired, but they may have the encouragement and support given by their parents, they have not given up, they have not retreated, they have no time, but they are actually very concerned about their families, and they are actually helpless to go home to visit the elderly, and they are under the pressure of work and life, and these situations are not what they want.

When I grew up, I realized that even going home was just a luxury.

There is a large difference between urban and rural areas.

With the progress of society, the gap between rural and urban areas has gradually widened, and now young people in rural areas generally have a higher level of education and are very open-minded. In big cities, the conditions are good, such as online shopping, entertainment, education, and most importantly, there are many employment opportunities.

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Timing issues.

Now young people and many migrant workers can freely arrange the time to go home and go out, young people's units have a standard holiday time, the holiday time is short, plus the current mask reason, if you go home, you have to delay two or three days on the way back, for the work party, every day of vacation is very precious.

I often call the elderly at home outside, and by listening to the voice and asking about the physical condition, I know that the elderly are living a good life, and I can rest assured that I will not go home to visit the elderly.

The question of spending. In addition to the cost of going home, it will cost a lot to buy gifts for the relatives and friends of the elderly. For urban young people, urban consumption is already high, and they can't save much money in a year, plus various consumption, it is admittedly a big expense.

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We are chased by life, running desperately, but forgetting our parents after birth, faltering, and drifting away.

More and more young people are not returning home to see the elderly. It's not that they don't want to go back and visit. There are also some reasons because of the actual situation. And I think it is mainly divided into the following types.

1. Less free time and busy socializing

Most people's jobs require communication with each other, and this takes up most of the time and energy of the people who work there. As a result, they spend less time with their parents. Sometimes,Although your boss has not offered you to work overtime, there are some tasks that can only be done when the other person has free time.

In this case, you have to sacrifice some of your vacation time to build a good relationship with your boss. And these are some of the rules that are necessary in all the workplaces. And this is related to his promotion and salary increase, but he can't help himself.

2.Tired of coping with parents and relatives.

When most young people come home on holidays, they will be bombarded by their relatives around them in turn, and get married? How much is the salary? How's the kid?

Keep talking about blind dates, marriages, and so on for children. And this makes young people who are already tired from work. Even more helpless.

This also contributes to the reluctance of most young people to go home to see their parents. lutu

3.The distance is long and the cost of the road is expensive

Many people are far away from home, looking for work, and the journey home can cost thousands of dollars. And it takes two or three days to waste. For migrant workers who only have weekend off, such expensive travel expenses and insufficient time have led to them not being able to go home to visit the elderly.

And this is the reason why most people do not go home to visit the elderly. Young people who go out to work hard,In the big city, you are not rich. When it comes to choosing time and money, everyone's choices are different, so it's even more difficult to go home and visit the elderly

4. The information is developed and the communication is convenient

Most people like to report good news but not bad news, and in these short communications, wanderers will only report their happy places to their parents, and do not want their parents to know the difficulties they encounter. And online communication has greatly reduced parents' worries. In this way, to a certain extent, the regret that young people cannot go home to visit the elderly is also avoided.

As the saying goes, always go home and see. The warmest place in the wanderer's heart must be his hometown. If time permits, if the conditions can, be sure to spend more time with your parents in a limited time.

When I was a child, our eyes lit up every time we mentioned the New Year, and slowly when we grew up, we rarely went back to accompany our grandparents.

Busy with work and studies, in a different place

When I went home, I faced a lot of discussions, and I was physically and mentally exhausted

Because of the epidemic, you may not be able to come back if you go back

For college students, if they are far away from home, they can only go back on National Day, and they can't even go back to the Mid-Autumn Festival, not because they don't want to go back, but because they are really busy so they can't go back, who doesn't want to reunite with their relatives at home? It's just that I'm too busy, and it's really "every festive season, and there is one less person in the dogwood".

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For adults, on the one hand, going home because of busy work on the other hand, is afraid to go home and become the object of discussion, when you struggle in the big city, return to your hometown, buy a house, get married, buy a car and other issues, the pressure outside is already very great, and you have to deal with all kinds of problems when you get home, which is really physically and mentally exhausting. Naturally, I didn't want to go home.

<> at present, there are still infected people with the new crown epidemic in the country, once there are more people who go back on holidays, there is inevitably a risk of being infected, so for the health of themselves and their families, can they not go back or not, this year's National Day I and a few classmates did not go back, because of the epidemic in my hometown, although I am very homesick, but once I go back, I will not use it for a semester, so for the sake of my studies, for the sake of my family, I can only wait until the winter vacation to go back, which is also no way.

A person's maturity begins with letting go of his obsession with his parents;

And the maturity of parents also begins with letting go of their obsession with their children.

If you have time, you must go back to see your parents and your hometown more often, because my parents are old, and now I don't see each other anymore.

First of all, as a young person, I belong to the more home-loving family, so I will go home to see when I have a holiday, and I have many friends around me who don't like to go home, and even don't go home all year round, and I often ask them why they don't like to go home to see, and I synthesize their reasonsI have summarized the following three reasons.

1.There is a generation gap and different concepts:

Young people today are becoming more and more self-conscious, which is why there are so many questions about young people who feel that their parents don't understand them. Many times we want to communicate with our parents, but their traditional ideas have been ingrained, and no matter how we talk to them, it is ineffective, so young people are reluctant to go home. And some young people are used to being alone, unwilling to be with the elderly at home, and trying not to go home for various reasons, perhaps because of the generation gap, they can't talk about it together, they can't eat together, so they choose not to go home to escape.

2.Fear of family conflicts:

For a long time, young people are busy with work or school, and they come home just to relax and get away from the hustle and bustle. However, many young people are very worried about being nagged by their parents and choosing not to go home after returning home. Because of the different living habits, there will be contradictions, many young people go home, they like to sleep lazy, all aspects of life are very casual, and parents often have conflicts because of these small things, at this time for some reason and the family broke up, for a while I can't think about it, I am angry, I am annoyed when I hear the word home, but the ugliness of the family can not be publicized, and I would rather run away than communicate.

And many parents have used the phrase "it's all for your good" to cover it, maybe this is what young people hate to hear the most, and it's also the reason why they don't want to go home.

3.The career has not yet been successful:

There are many young people who go out to work hard early, and some people who always succeed are very strong, and they always want to live a life to show their families, but the ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny.

Finally, I would like to say, "Home is a place that makes you feel incredibly warm, no matter how cold it is outside." Home is a place where someone lets you rely on you when you are tired, someone lets you talk when you cry, and someone shares happiness with you when you are sweet.

Home is the place where you were born and raised......So if you have something to do, go home and take a look. ”

In today's social situation, it is commonplace for young people not to go home to visit the elderly, and everyone thinks that it is okay to pay the elderly when the time comesAs everyone knows, the lack of the elderly is not a material need, but also a spiritual need, and they all hope that their families can accompany them more.

Work pressure is high and there are few holidays

Nowadays, with the rapid development of society and the pressure of job competition, it is not easy to find a good job in a big city, and everyone must know it deeply. And the holidays are very few, most people are basically single off, there are few people on double holidays, everyone wants to relax and rest during the holiday, so there is basically no time to go back to visit the elderly. In order not to affect work and family life, everyone has to devote time to work and life, which virtually reduces the number of times everyone goes home to visit the elderly.

So basically, only when the holidays are very long, there will be time to go back to visit the elderly.

Always thinking about accompanying the elderly is not in a hurry

Everyone feels that there is still a lot of time to accompany the elderly, and they are not in a hurry, and they always feel that there will be time to accompany the elderly in the future, but they don't know that the time is slowly decreasing. Everyone puts making money as the most important task at present, and they all want to make money first and then go home to accompany the elderly, so this is the reason why young people do not go home to visit the elderly.

The distance is long and the cost of the road is expensive

Most of the old people like to stay in the countryside, while most of the young people work hard in big cities, so the distance between the old and the young becomes far away. Due to the rapid development of today's society, prices are soaring and road fares have become expensive。Young people think that it is not easy to work outside the home, so in order to save money, they reduce the number of times they go home to visit the elderly, and basically only go home to visit the elderly during long holidays or important holidays.

Life is short, people's desires are unlimited, only relatives are the most important, I hope you can take more time to accompany the elderly, cherish the time that can accompany the elderly.