What to do with such a wordy mother 10

I understand your feelings very well, no wonder there are always people advocating "love me in a way that I can accept", whether it is love or family affection, too much is really distressing. But what can be done? Who called her my selfless, great, and absolutely correct mother!

I advise you to be more patient, and if you change it, you will be crowned, after all, the starting point is still for us. Besides, when you get married, you will be free, but it is actually a blessing to have someone nagging!

Listen more, after all, it's your mother's good, it's good for your mother to live healthily around us, mom is now getting old, and it's hard to listen to your parents' voices one day

On the other hand, you already know how to do it, you have a size, you can grasp it yourself, your parents' preaching is just a choice for us Listening to them is to repay their parents' love for us It's another thing to do what they say, do it if it's good, and perfunctory if it's bad.

That's your mom. For someone else, hum!!You want others to talk about you, but others still won't pinch you! Suddenly! ~

What's the matter, this is, faint @!

You will definitely regret what you said today! ~~

I really don't understand! ~~

You should understand her from a different perspective! ~~

Oh Sai. My mother is better than yours. My mother said unreasonably, if you have to let your thoughts be the same as hers, she will scold you if you are different.

I scolded you to death. However, his old man's heart is still good. To be honest, the person who is good to you in this world is still an old lady.

Few couples exchange their lives for another, but few old ladies refuse to do so, so the old lady said let's listen. When you can't hear it, you know that those scolds are the most beautiful songs in the world.

In fact, everyone has that day, and sometimes think about your mother, she cares about you! What mother doesn't think about her children, is well-intentioned, try to think, if you reach that age, maybe even more verbose, then your children will also complain about you, at that time, what do you feel, what will you think, maybe you will be angry, try to talk to your mother more, tell your mother what you think,

When you get old, you know that what your mother said is right.

Don't care. Or she will regret it later, although she is a bit harsh.

The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait.

Think about it more and you'll know what to do.

I'm not here for you, I just want to tell you that you annoy your mother now, and one day you won't have a chance to bother you, understand?

He loves you La. Moms are like that.

Before I was 12 years old, I had my mother by my side, and I was so wordy all day long, but one day after my mother and my father divorced, my mother stopped talking about me, going to school, choosing a career, and getting married, my mother just asked me, now my marriage is not very good, think about if my mother gave me some ideas or something, now it will not be so bad, I want to have a mother wordy,

Think about how many tears and sweat she has put into pulling you so much, always have a grateful heart, and reduce the irritability in your heart, you won't feel so wordy.

Don't complain, moms are like that.

Each of us has a neighbor's child in the process of growing up, and my parents must say that you look at who's child, how good the grades are, that's our nightmare.

But from a psychological point of view, each of us is also a human parent, and they will also have their own limitations and their traumas.

Maybe she was also picked and compared when she was a child, so she may unconsciously repeat what her parents did to them back then, thinking that educating children should be like this, she may not realize why she is like this, and she will naturally come out with this behavior and language.

So from this point of view, every mother has her own internal trauma, but you have to believe that since we have been able to grow up to this point, it means that our parents are passing, she did not raise us into mental illness, took care of us to grow up healthy, and they have done their best.

She may not be the best mother, but she knows a limit, and there is a limit to what she can give you. Therefore, the next topic of growth may be handed over to ourselves, and our lives are actually known and mastered by ourselves. So when you feel pain, it may be your mother's trauma, but if you go through this trauma, you will also gain a different growth.

Just like human evolution, the trauma of generation after generation is actually digested from generation to generation, and the children we raise will be better from generation to generation.

There are two births in a person's life.

The first time is when our mother gives birth to us from the womb, this is a birth of our body, and another is the birth of personality and mind, this part is completed in adolescence, it is from that time that we have our own understanding of the world, not just what our parents gave us, it is slowly our own self-established outlook on life and worldview.

Therefore, at this time, as a parent, you must go through this process and wait for the child to grow up on his own.

Have the children ever wondered why their mother was so trembling? When the child grows up, he knows more, and some things naturally feel more than his mother, and when the child is learning to speak, he is curious about everything, and he will ask again and again when he sees anything: "Mom, what is that?"

Mom, what is this? “.Mom always has something to answer her questions:

Baby, that's a bird", "Baby, that's a bunny"...In fact, every mother is for the good of her children, and she is afraid that her children will be deceived. Also, things are a little older, so you may forget what you said before.

When the mother tells the children things, just listen patiently, and then be careful when doing things, and give the mother confidence, so that the mother will not have so many thousands of instructions.

It's like this at a certain age, and I also have such a mother.

People like you just wait for you to lose before you know how to cherish the people around you, don't let yourself regret being like this, it will make you feel guilty for the rest of your life.

Mom loves to nag because Mom cares about you, just because she has no culture, so the content of nagging makes you disgusted, you can look at it from another angle, I believe that you are an intellectual, you will put yourself in the shoes of others, and your troubles are not troubles.

Although she can't give you the life you want, she gives you a safe haven, works for you all your life without asking for anything in return, although you can't eat big meals every day, but she also makes you worry about food and clothing, all of which are grateful to your mother.

You and your mother can sit together, in a calm and peaceful atmosphere, tell your mother about your troubles, pay attention to the way you speak, don't be impatient, you greet each other with a smile, and your mother will not understand your troubles, so that the contradictions between you will not be so sharp.

Remind you of one thing, mothers love to nag, if you don't nag, you are not a mother, it's good to get used to it, don't take it too seriously, let alone have the idea of strangling your mother, quickly throw this idea out of your mind It's best to wish you and your mother harmony!!

If someone wants to annoy them, no one will be annoyed, so be content.

When you grow up, you won't feel that way.

My mom was a verbose woman with long, black hair on her big head. There are a pair of big watery eyes under the faint eyebrows, and a small mouth, which contains a lot of long-winded words, and it is very nagging!

I remember one time, I was playing with the computer upstairs, and I didn't stop after playing the computer for hours. Mom shouted downstairs: Jiayi, come down, you have been playing on the computer for a long time, you need to come down to rest your eyes.

Good boy! Come down! I ignored my mom upstairs.

After a while, my mother saw that I hadn't come down yet, and now my mother was really annoyed by me. I saw her running upstairs with Yin in a rage and dragging me from the computer to my room. said:

You kid! Really, I'm doing this for your own good, you want to be like your sister, stay in front of the computer for a long time, argue and have a banquet, and get computer sequelae. Do you keep your head shaking and your eyes blinking?

Do you want to bend your draft and turn into a four-eyed field chicken? If you don't want to, just spend less time in front of the computer and show me what you do, okay? I stood silently in a daze, afraid that if my mother kept talking endlessly, my ears would suffer again.

Although my mother is verbose and nagging, I know that my mother is doing this for my own good. I love my long-winded, nagging mom.

2018 12 15 weeks of confession six wake up: 06:00 go to bed: 22:00 parent-child reading: "I Ching", "Sun Tzu's Art of War", "Tang Poems".

What's happening today:

1. I am Jiayuan's long-winded mother. Because I didn't go to play volleyball, I spent more time at home, and I discussed with him about the reasonable arrangement of time, and I was a little excited during the period, and he said that I was too long-winded. For this reason, he also made a poem to express his dissatisfaction with my verbosity.

Ha ha. Socks and shirts.

2. Go to the teacher's new village to play a shootout in the evening. We came to our position majestically with two toy guns, but what we did not expect was that the position had already been occupied by the enemy. We had to set up another base for each of us.

Soon the two of us were engaged in a fierce battle for position. During this period, Jia Yuan dodged my bullets and bullets in a serpentine position many times, and seized my position. However, the final victory did not belong to him, because his gun was broken.

I won the final victory without much effort.

3. In the evening, I went to eat hot and sour noodles with Jiayuan, which was sour and refreshing. I think of the one on Fuzhou Normal Student Street, and I don't know whether it moved away or closed down Chongqing hot and sour noodle shop.