What will happen to our marriage, will our marriage be happy?

...Let's see if you love your husband anymore.

The decision on this issue is in your hands, because it really hurts him to do so.

And you're already getting married, saying things like this to your ex-girlfriends.

Maybe he also wants to make a settlement.

In fact, I think we should look at this issue from a development perspective.

Maybe he used to love his ex-girlfriend, but the person he chose to marry was you.

This can probably show that you have something that he likes more than his ex-girlfriend because you are the one he chooses to live for the rest of his life.

Don't talk about divorce lightly, it hurts others and hurts yourself.

Be generous and forget about it, I know it's not easy, but think about good things.

Try to ignore her moments of happiness together and beautiful moments.

What I'm trying to say is that you're both the choice of the other side.

So face up to your choices.

Go ahead.

I believe the sun will always shine!

I hope you can be very happy ...

Marriage can't prove anything, it's just a legal procedure to be together, whether you love you or not is his business, the key is your attitude, since you are married and together every day, can't you pull your husband's heart back?

We should encourage more men like the third floor.

1. The probability of being happy after divorce lies in the reason for divorce.

In layman's terms, if you divorce just because of some occasional small conflicts between two people, then the possibility of living happily after the divorce is very small.

Why is that? As the old saying goes: "husband and wife quarrel, bedside quarrel, bedside and", this sentence is telling us that there are never two people who are completely suitable for being together in this world, and no matter how suitable two people are, there will always be inappropriate places together, therefore, in the face of various trivial things in life, it is normal for some conflicts between husband and wife to occasionally occur, and there is no need to divorce because of this.

To put it bluntly, if a person divorces because of a little conflict, it will be difficult for this person to get a happy married life for the rest of his life.

On the contrary, if the frequency of conflicts between two people is very high, and even if two people only meet each other, they will quarrel with each other, or if two people are together, they will quarrel when they can't say a few words, or if they have a tendency to domestic violence, then this kind of marital relationship seems to be a husband and wife, but in fact it is just a contract.

In this situation of successive conflicts and disputes, in fact, the home is no longer the home, and the possibility of a happy life after the divorce increases.

Article **42, the probability of being happy after divorce lies in the reason for unhappy married life.

To put it thoroughly, if it is because of our own reasons that we ourselves are unhappy in the marital relationship, then there is a high probability that we will not be happy after the divorce, and if it is because of the other party's reasons that we are unhappy in the marital relationship, then there is a possibility of living happily after the divorce.

Under what circumstances are we unhappy because of our own reasons?

For example, if the other half accidentally broke something a few years ago, and since then, every time we have a conflict with the other half, we will talk about it, that is, quarrel and turn over old accounts, and always remember the bad side of others, in this case, the cause of our unhappy life is ourselves.

Under what circumstances is it because of the other party that you are unhappy?

For example, as a woman, she works day and night to earn money, but her husband always complains that she is not as good as others, no matter how good she does, her husband is all kinds of accusations and dissatisfaction with herself, so she feels unhappy in her life, and in this case it is because of the other party's unhappy life.

However, it is normal to say here that there are occasional contradictions and disharmony in the marital relationship, although some people can't speak, but they know how to care about people in the actual action, so they still have to be cautious about divorce.