What should I do if my husband can t forget his girlfriend before marriage?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-23
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It doesn't hurt if it's just keeping in touch and not being particularly intimate. Particularly intimate means that there are text messages or ** interactions every day or every 2 days, which is also considered intimate. If there is any of the above phenomena, you should be cautious, pay attention to observe your husband's every move in various ways, it is recommended that it is best to communicate, if your husband really loves you, I think this matter is easy to solve!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It has been said that there is no love for no reason in the world, and there is no hate for no reason.

    The reasons you should know.

    Finding the cause is the crux of the problem.

    Look at him not forgetting her.

    Or is there another factor.

    Maybe it's a misunderstanding, but if it's a misunderstanding, it's better to solve it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That shows that his ex-girlfriend has memories that he can't forget.

    Then you have to work hard!

    Let him have a better memory!

    You give him better memories than his ex-girlfriend's memories Everyone has a past.

    Such a thing cannot be forced.

    Forcing will only increase your estrangement.

    It's okay to talk about it calmly.

    Talk about your first love and everything.

    On the contrary, don't keep everything to yourself.

    That's the least desirable thing to do!

    It is easiest for a world war to break out over a trivial matter.

    You can knit him a scarf in the winter.

    In the summer, I cooked soup to cool off and waited for him to come home.

    And so on, happiness is earned by oneself and not by guessing.

    My husband and I also had a lot of arguments the other day.

    But now it's good to talk.

    I wish you all happiness always!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Tell him directly that you have a headache right now.

    Tell him that accepting you is about forgetting the past.

    asked him what he still had for her, and what he couldn't let go. You can explain the reason for this. Advise him on how to get out of that relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If he can marry you, it means that you still have a status in his heart, and you should not limit his empty space. It's your fate to come together, and even if you can't get together, you can still be friends. Don't even be friends because of love you don't really understand.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it may be because of the urging of his family, so he just found someone to marry, I think such a person is really terrible, if you are not satisfied, divorce.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because he and his ex-girlfriend can't go back, and he can see the shadow of his ex-girlfriend in you, and he can't get his ex-girlfriend, so he chose you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your husband may be old, and his relatives are urging him to get married, and at this time, he met you and thought you were very suitable for life, so he married you. If you don't love a man, you can get married, if you can accept this kind of life, then you can marry and teach your children at home! If you can't accept it, then get a divorce quickly, don't delay your youth!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because he is not young, and the family pressures him, so he wants to find a person who is the right person to marry, and in order to cope, he will marry you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Adjust your mentality, communicate well with your husband, adjust the way two people get along, cultivate common interests and hobbies, and let him gradually put you in the most important position in his heart in the process of getting along.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Personally, I think don't let yourself think too much at this time, tell yourself that the person is already your own, and he will definitely love you very much after a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, you should correct your mentality, communicate with your husband, determine what kind of girl he likes, and constantly improve yourself and improve your charm.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What should I do? Does my husband not forget his ex-girlfriend?

    I think people are thoughtful, and it's not something you can control. Now let's analyze why your husband hasn't forgotten his ex-girlfriend?

    1.Because people have feelings, it is said that people are emotional animals.

    I think that since you and your husband are married, and he still can't forget his ex-girlfriend, it means that his ex-girlfriend must be better than you in some way.

    Since it's a fact, don't fight him and her, and punish yourself for his mistakes.

    2.I think what you should do is to influence him with practical actions, so that he can always feel that this home is his safe haven, and only in this way can you tie his heart.

    3.If you are a sensible woman, I think you have to give her time to slowly transform. Don't always inquire and follow everywhere. If you do this, it will backfire and push him into the arms of others.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have every reason to be angry.

    But getting angry won't help.

    Either accept it or walk away.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is a problem that many people who are married may face. First of all, you have to see whether your husband's ex-girlfriend is married, if the other party is married and has little contact with her husband, then her husband's unrequited love will not have much effect and will not affect your marriage.

    At this time, we must let him shift his attention in time and shift his focus to the family, not let him blindly indulge in the memories of the past, he must let his husband see the reality clearly, let him know who he is living with now, and must let him know who he should be in his heart now, and who he must forget now, this is what he should do.

    If your husband's ex-girlfriend is still single, then her husband's thoughts are likely to threaten or hurt her marriage. After all, his ex-girlfriend is still single, and although his husband is married, he can still have the opportunity to contact his ex-girlfriend, which will have a serious impact on his family life.

    Every day, my husband thinks about another woman, and she is a single woman, so it is easy to breed other thoughts, and it is very likely that he will contact his ex-girlfriend when he is not paying attention, after all, there is still a relationship between the two.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The third sister intervenes in the upper position and worries about this problem again, you can snatch it from others while others are unprepared, and others can take it back in the open.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What should I do when I find out after I get married that my husband can't forget his ex-girlfriend.

    Hello, you tell your husband that you care about this very much, and this will be a problem in your married life that is not very big, nor is it small, like a bomb. It's going to explode at any time, and you're very insecure. Since there is a problem, of course, it is necessary to find a way to solve it and put forward a few simple suggestions!

    1.You tell your husband that this problem should affect your married life and make you very unhappy. 2.

    If he says he can't let it go, says you're stingy, says he just wants to think about it, etc., and so on, just want you to compromise nonsense, you tell him, it's okay to compromise, isn't it just the plot of Bai Yueguang, who doesn't have an ex, if not, potential suitors can also mention it in front of him, talk about how you get along with others, how good people are to you, and if you don't make it up, you have to make it up for me. He mentioned your Bai Yueguang to his girlfriend in advance, and the two recalled together, and he said a word to you. See who should die in the diaphragm.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's really hard to treat this kind of action, I don't have any culture and can't do Wen Zou Zou's reasoning, I negotiate as a ruthless shrew on this kind of bottom line issue, and I solved this kind of problem before marriage. In addition, you have to manage yourself well, let him fall in love with you and cherish you, otherwise it will be difficult for people who are not here to hold on. After all, there are a few people who know and love each other on a blind date, and I am also married on a blind date, and he has been talking to his ex for seven years, and it is impossible to forget it completely, what you have to do is to make him no longer think about the past and devote himself to your family.

    My approach is, I'm prettier than his ex, haha, a little shameless, I've seen their previous **, not as tall as me, not as thin, not as good as me, good looking, dressed, and generally worked, I also make money better than her, and get along well with his family, and I realize that now I am getting better and better, and the image has also been greatly improved, which is obvious to all, and the family economy is also in my control.

    The only thing is that you won't blindly get used to him, you must take care of what you should manage, and you must not be soft on what you shouldn't condone. If he dares to do something deviant, I will definitely choose to divorce, as long as he is a smart man, he will definitely weigh the weight. Don't say that you are reluctant to accuse him, he is willing to make you sad and sad, you can't even talk about him?

    This is your home, your man, if he has you in his heart, he will not do these small actions, be sensible, and he will be less injured.

    If you don't have a strong aura to control him, and you can't change him and can't do without him, then be kind to yourself whenever you want. When you choose him, you choose to bear the consequences. If your love and time can't match their youth, it's really a pity.

    Actually, I don't know what I want to say, but I just think that it is better not to let my curiosity or be bored, or to do something from time to time to destroy my originally harmonious marriage. To manage and feel his love with his heart is actually to say the same thing to himself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then if his ex-girlfriend is also married, they will not be in touch again.

    Then he occasionally thinks of his ex, in fact, it doesn't matter, there is no need to be so careful.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Parted. Because such a husband will not feel sorry for you at all, his heart is not on you at all, so he should be divorced.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, you should pay more attention to your husband in life, you can talk to your husband, so that he can pay more attention to the current family.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should choose to separate from each other, because he still has an ex-girlfriend in his heart, so he won't pay much attention to you when you are with him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Loving someone is selfish, and girls can tolerate that their boyfriends have other girls in their hearts, and they are even more afraid of being used as a substitute for old love. I don't want to be a white rose, I just want to exist uniquely in my boyfriend's heart and enjoy the fullest love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, for such a man, you don't ask too much. Since he is so nostalgic, then you should use him as a tool to make money. Don't be too emotionally invested in him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You should have a good talk with your husband, ask him what he really thinks in his heart, and if your husband really can't let go of his ex-girlfriend, he should divorce him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can do some communication with him to divert his attention, so that he can avoid thinking about his ex-girlfriend.

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