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Everyone has to find a suitable spot for themselves. If the point is too high, then you will live in loss for the rest of your life. If the point is too low, you will be doomed to mediocrity for the rest of your life.
Find yourself some. When you are troubled, you stand alone at the top of the building. It will be much more open-minded.
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There is no goal.
The reasons are varied, whether you lose your goals because they have been achieved, because you don't have a goal at all, or because you have other ......Analyze what are the root causes of this? Is it the character, the experience, or the way I don't know.
Knowing what it is, knowing why it is true, you can prescribe the right medicine.
In general, when you don't have a goal, you should first calm down. The second is to be down-to-earth, not completely detached from reality and undisciplined when looking for goals. Third, we should make the most of our strengths and avoid our weaknesses. Choose a goal that you are interested in, have strengths, and have development potential.
You can choose two or three goals to try, and finally choose one of the two or three goals (up to two) to refine the plan and implement it, and once you have set a goal, you must complete it. Learn to enjoy the process.
In the process of reaching your goals, you gain experience, build self-confidence, and learn skills. This will go a long way in the choice of your next goal.
Life is the process of choosing one goal after another to constantly surpass and overcome oneself.
Believe you can succeed.
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Look up at the road and keep your head down to do things. Even the goal has not been set, and the struggle of choosing the wrong direction is more painful than not struggling. When you go down the wrong path and come to your senses, how much youth you have wasted.
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Then calm down, think about it, and choose a goal. Or do some specific and necessary things around you first.
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I really know that I am tired of not having a goal and I don't know how to do it or what to do, but if I think about it carefully, I will have to face it sooner or later, life is like this, and it would be good to figure it out by myself, make more good friends, and talk about it hehe.
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Goals are set by oneself, so a person is born with a goal in life? Living without a goal is confusing, and of course there is no way to live it. From a small point of view, starting a family, starting a business, having children, etc. can be said to be goals; In general, how we make a career, make an invention, and give full play to our life expertise to make our value reflected in society can be said to be life goals.
In short, the establishment of any life goal, realistically, is determined by how we live, we usually think about how to make our wife and children live a better life is our very simple life goal, around this goal, how we do and what to do. When setting life goals, we must be in line with our own reality, and if we set them low, our quality of life will not improve, and it is easy to get rich and lose our fighting spirit; If the price is high, the ideal often becomes an unrealistic fantasy. We young people should have lofty ideals in line with ourselves, work tirelessly, and strive for our better life and for our once-in-a-millennium peaceful and prosperous world, otherwise, once the short period of youth has passed, we can only be greeted with a lament of nothingness! Hope to adopt.
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Don't be like those people, and don't break your heart because of their mistakes.
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Don't think so, brother!
If you're about to become a Buddha, then congratulations, you've reached another level.
Being able to live is a kind of happiness, life is inevitably ups and downs, think about it carefully, only people who experience loneliness will achieve great things. Learn to live well alone!!
Contact me if you have any questions, don't think about it!
No one in this world can give anyone faith.
No one can save anyone.
Loneliness is the fate of people, this is the essence, but those who can't see through it still can't see through it.
People live either.
Do what you are interested in, such as Picasso, Bethune.
Or have adventures, like Robinson.
In a word, living for oneself, even if it is ordinary, is by no means meaningless.
own the moment!
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He wants to let him really believe in Buddhism, let him know cause and effect, know how difficult it is to live in the world, how much should be cherished, there are all things in the world, if you do it for the sake of the little insects that die in the twilight, aren't people the luckiest? At least he can help others and himself with his own strength!
If he really came into contact with the Buddha, maybe he would be filial to his parents and give to people or animals, and that kind of fulfilling life would be much more meaningful than now! Moreover, when a person has faith, he will naturally become motivated. People must take their responsibilities as human beings, be a good child of parents, a good student of school, a good staff of the unit, a good partner of others, and a good parent of children, so that at least there are not too many regrets in life.
It's actually nice for him to have you as a friend
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If you go from school to home now.
What do you need to do?
That's right. It is.
Go home" understand??
You already know that I'm going home, and you know that home is in that place!
But what about sending you to another unknown place?
How are you going to do the first part?
That's life!
And that unknown place is your ideal.
How you realize your dreams depends on how you do it in the first part!!
The reason why you feel that people are meaningless is because you have no meaning to pursue!!
Find one, or something you've thought about before, but don't dare to do, boldly pursue it!!
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It may be that the factors of the family since he was a child have caused some of his current extreme behaviors, in fact, persuasion is useless After all, this is cultivated since childhood Only by himself slowly exposed to more society and experienced some things can slowly change The best change can try to make him fall in love But the premise is that the girl has 100% affection for him. This may be the best way to change his beliefs. Take your time, this can't be forced.
Time can change a little bit, and maybe it won't be long before he understands everything.
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In fact, the true meaning of life is to continue life!
Life is a metamorphosis eternity. Because everything else in the world has an end day, and only life will last forever. Human beings are just one form of life, and even if they perish, other lives will continue.
The pursuit of eternity may be the reason why life is born!
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Chinese just like to measure everything by grades. Poor grades don't mean anything. Poor grades will also lead to achievement.
Millions of people don't know what they're interested in, and so am I. There are no special strengths that stand out. If you want others to love you, you must love yourself first, like yourself first.
Trust you to be the best!
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I was born to be useful. Don't be too discouraged, in fact, everyone has their own advantages, be good at discovering their own advantages, be positive in the pursuit of life, and laugh at life.
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Try to find what you like, and when you find out that you have something you like, you won't be so depressed, people don't live for others, and you still need to climb out of the trough of life.
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To be alive is to have hope... Now there is no ·· It doesn't mean that there will be no future...
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You're obsessive-compulsive, and you're depressed, and you're doing what you like to do, and you're doing what you don't like, and you're doing it, and you don't know why you're doing it, but you're still doing it, and a lot ......of times you like it, but you have an idea in your head that you don't like it, or you shouldn't show itMany, many painful!! Right???
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Lonely children, learn to enjoy solitude!
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Maybe it's because you have this depressive character, silence, coldness, you can look at books on personality psychology to see what your own reason is, there are many psychologists about it.
Explain that if you want to change, be positive and find ways to communicate with people, and discover the love or depression of the world.
See a psychiatrist and learn more about yourself.
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Because you have no feelings and no love for yourself, maybe because others treat you so much, maybe because of your sensitivity, you also think that others think of yourself.
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Hey, I've been feeling a little loveless lately
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That is, you have love in your heart, but you can't effectively express the love in your heart. Or that you have love, but the expression of your emotions is very lacking.
I want to ask, are you just unable to express the feeling of love? Or things like anger, jealousy, sympathy. Are all hard to express?
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It's not right to blindly find a partner like you.
1.Usually you don't know how to swim and fall into the water and drown, but you learn to swim, which shows how strong your survival ability is.
2.But I didn't even dare to pull the girl's hand, it shouldn't be.
3.Even if there is a girl you think fits, it is difficult to look at you, because if you want to find such a girl, you are cowardly and find a girl to support yourself. How can a man do it without himself?
4.Your desires are deformed, and even if you get them, they don't match the facts. I hope you can take a long-term view of what I said.
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Uh, it's tough, and the conditions are tough! It is estimated that it will be difficult to find.
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Fuck, I've never seen a woman, I know that I'm embarrassed to be cheap, and I strongly despise it.
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Because you are kind and easy to bully, for example: you look like a dog, no one dares to provoke you, you are afraid of biting. You look like a cat, and someone bullies you, because you are well-behaved, and you don't look fierce.
The second is to bully you, to cover up their shortcomings, if they praise your strengths, then they have no face, so find out your shortcomings and tease you. This is one of the ways to deal with the world, pointing out the shortcomings of the other party to make up for their own shortcomings.
You don't have to pay attention to the garbage, just have less contact with them, stand in front of others and show your strengths, so that they will be jealous and envious!
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Are you very hard-mouthed in your life? Don't admit your mistakes? Do you always feel like you're very good at the end? And sometimes too much of what you've achieved? These problems have to be changed. Keep a low profile.
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It's just a joke, maybe if you ask them why they say that, they will definitely say two things: just kidding, or they just remember ......Those who can make fun of you are those who treat you as friends, and you can pay attention to the look and occasion of their speech in the future, maybe just casually ......
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326. The core ingredient in the consciousness of higher life is love, the higher the level of life, the higher the content of love in its consciousness, and the lower the level of life, the lower the content of love in its consciousness.
339. Love is a precious gift from God to mankind. Life should be fully enjoyed by love.
340. The richer the love life, the more beautiful the soul, the more gentle the character, the calmer the temper, the closer to God, the more they know how to love life, love life, love nature, and love others; The poorer the love life, the uglier the soul, the more vicious the character, the more short-tempered, the more distant from God, the less he knows how to live, the less he loves life, nature, and others.
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God created human beings and gave them the ability to solve all external problems. But one day God discovers that the problems of the human mind are getting worse and worse. So love was created to ** the human heart.
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Of course not.
1.Maybe he's been really busy lately and doesn't have time.
2.Maybe he wants to play some romance and ignore it for the time being.
3.Maybe he wanted to surprise his girlfriend and was busy with him.
4.Probably pursuing semi-saccharism (I agree with that).
5.His girlfriend thought too much.
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Maybe he has something on his mind?
Maybe he's not working well?
Maybe it's not that he ignores you, but he doesn't want you to know about his troubles and annoy with him?
So before figuring it out.
Don't jump to conclusions.
Now all you have to do is follow him.
Maybe it will be better after a while.
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For example, if he dates you and then reschedules or is late, that's tempting you, and if he doesn't ask you out at all, he's not loving you. If he occasionally notices or chats with other members of the opposite sex, or tells you who likes him, it is also a temptation to you, but if he doesn't care at all that you continue to be with the opposite sex or are often out of your sight because of busy work, although he doesn't mention a word about other members of the opposite sex, congratulations, you're free, leave him as soon as a ** bomb, maybe he will chase him, maybe it's over, but if you don't leave, he will leave you, but he is dead set on leaving.
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Maybe put the ancient contradictions between you recently.
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Maybe it's a lack of communication? But it doesn't have to be loveless!
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To be honest, there is still love, everyone has that transition period, it may be because you were too tired before, so suddenly I felt a little tired, like a seven-year itch, if you get through it, everything will go back to the past, if you can't get through it, you can only disperse, love! It's still there.
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In fact, you should make an appointment, sit down and have a good chat, and make it clear, whether you want the answer or not, there is always a bottom in your heart, and cranky thinking will not solve the problem. This will only deepen the rift between each other.
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It should be, if you love a woman, you should not see her, and still miss her! If you're busy with your career, that's a different story
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