I m out of love, I hate pain, and I wake up in the middle of the night every night, what should I do

Time will dilute everything Find a job to keep yourself busy: "Where is there no grass in the world, why bother to love a flower".

Face matters. Or is your own happiness important. If you really love her. Instead of being uncomfortable every day. Pluck up the courage to be bold once. Confess to her. Maybe she's thinking about you right now, too. As long as you take a step. The matter was settled.

Why not? Have you done too much to be sorry for her? Your so-called anger is that you don't know how to cherish the person in front of you, and it is a stupid attempt without remembering the consequences, so Bi must pay the price for it.

Either give up this love, or endure the ridicule and humiliation that may be received, choose for yourself.

Go and confess to her, tell her that you love her, and if she gets along with someone else (you have to make sure she's getting along with someone else, not angry with you), you can leave! If you love her, don't embarrass her.

The first is that you are doing something wrong.

This is your punishment.

Text her and tell her how you're feeling right now, and maybe she'll forgive you. Opportunities are earned by oneself, and if you do nothing, you will never have a chance. Try to tell her about your pain, but be prepared for the worst.

As long as you are sure that you still love her, act quickly to chase her back. Otherwise you will regret it and be sad. As long as you put your heart into it, she will definitely forgive you.

Everyone just loses a true love like this, buddy, if it doesn't work, just have a drink, it's no big deal!

To love her is to catch her. Do you think your love for her is not worth an unsolicited text message? Coming back and losing you is certainly more painful than now.

Only time can change that. You can get another job and keep yourself busy and go to more parties, but you still think of her in the evening. Because you're used to her presence. It's going to be okay in the future, take your time.

Actually out of love. It's my own heart that has been hurt. Because it took so long to give affection.

Suddenly, all of a sudden, such a person was lost. There was certainly a time when it was out of place. Be able to get yourself out of this as soon as possible.

Coming out of the state. When I just woke up. Know that you are lost.

Such an emotion. But you have to tell yourself right away. Life is good.

After that, you will meet someone who is more suitable for you. Since it is lost, it means that it does not belong to you.

Because when you wake up, you will remember the scene when you were in love, naturally it will not be comfortable, and if you have been working, you will not have time to think about it, and you will not feel uncomfortable.

When people seem to be awake, people's willpower is the weakest.

The saddest thing when I wake up in the morning is because every morning when I wake up, I have to accept the fact that the two people really broke up.

The origin of the first Tanabata Festival

(1) Qixi Festival, also known as Qiqiao FestivalSeventh Sister's Day, Daughter's Day,Begging Festival, Qi Nianghui, Qixi Festival, Niu Bull Po Day, Qiaoxi, etc., are Chinese folkTraditional festivalsThe Qixi Festival is derived from the worship of the stars, which is the birthday of the Seven Sisters in the traditional sense, and is called "Qixi Festival" because the worship of the "Seven Sisters" is held on the seventh night of July.

(2) The Qixi Festival began in ancient times, popularized in the Western Han Dynasty, and flourished in the Song Dynasty. In ancient times, the Qixi Festival was an exclusive festival for beautiful women. Among the many folklore of TanabataSome have gradually disappeared, but a considerable number have been perpetuated by people.

The Qixi Festival originated in China and was shared with Chinese culture in the town.

Affected Asian countries such as Japan, the Korean Peninsula.

Vietnam and other countries also have a tradition of celebrating Qixi Festival.

Second, the method of falling in love

(1) Love is not a transaction, everyone's way of expression is different, we must learn to find a communication method and expression that two people can accept, too much to worry about will only consume each other's feelings, there are contradictions to meet directly and talk well, sometimes a hug and a kiss can solve all the unstable emotions,It's better than blocking and deleting and continuing to be cold and violent.

Finally the volcano erupted.

(2) To be considerate and tolerant of each other, feelings are two-way running, many people deny all or even rise to the issue of principle because of a little thing, quarrel and black, and two people go through the second half of their lives togetherIt is inevitable that there will be a bit of a misunderstanding or occasionally not taking care of the other party's emotions, such as the other party's tolerance is very poor, and they don't know how to be considerate and tolerant.

If you always wake up in the middle of the night after falling out of love, I think you should adjust your mentality as soon as possible, get out of the haze of this relationship, go out for a walk, or arrange some time for your work, so that you don't think about it anymore, I believe you will be able to get out of the emotional trouble.

Two people are fate together, and liking each other is fate on fate, so it is not easy for two people to come together, especially in this impetuous society, love has long been what they want to see, in this case, they found the person they love and the person who loves themselves, they are still the same person, what a beautiful thing. If you have three feelings when you are together, congratulations to you, there is a real relationship between you, hurry up and pick a day to get married. When two people are together, there are these three feelings, which means that there is true love between you!

I like it no matter how you look at it.

When you like someone, you will always feel that she is good at everything, the corners of her mouth that love to laugh are good, her small eyes are good, her soft face is good, her smile is the most beautiful in your eyes, the magic of love is nothing more than this, you can make each other like each other, only each other in your eyes.

This feeling is very wonderful, when you have just started to fall in love, it is natural to dress up every day when you go out, try not to leave a bad impression on each other, but when your relationship gradually deepens, there is no longer a sense of restraint in front of each other, even if you don't wear makeup, don't wash your hair, and wear pajamas can calmly dangle in front of each other, and you don't feel that the other party has any bad looks, and even feels cute.

Hello, this situation may be a stress response after emotional frustration. It is recommended to take a reasonable view of the emotional experience and face it positively.

You have spent time and energy in this relationship, and now that you have broken up, you must be uncomfortable and unwilling, if this relationship is not good for you at all, it is best to regulate your emotions and go out slowly, when you fell out of love before, I complained about it in the eaves heart software before, and there are many people who have comforted me, maybe you can also try.

In my cognition, there is a kind of human suffering, which is like a torture of early Kaiheng, even if you don't die, you have to torture half of your life.

This bitterness is called a breakup.

Most of the couples around me who have broken up ask me if there is a deadline for this ordeal.

He said he felt as if he was stuck in a dark tunnel, walking but not seeing his head.

Some people have also asked me, is it really so uncomfortable to break up?

Isn't it okay to be alone before you fall in love?

Actually, if you hadn't seen the sun, I think you could have endured the darkness.

I've seen the sun, but it's going to be hard to get back into the darkness.

In particular, how do you spend the first night after falling out of love?

If you have developed tear glands, Lu will cry happily.

It's about crying for love, not about suffering for love.

Aristotle said that human beings are naturally social animals, so the human stress response is also the most obvious.

If you put this reaction into your life, it is to laugh when you are happy and cry when you are sad.

And breaking up is a sad thing, so why should you pretend to be innocent and deceive yourself?

The first night of a breakup is a time when emotions are at their peak, including shock, regret, guilt, regret, sadness, and struggle.

Like a snowball, it gets bigger and bigger, and the more you accumulate.

So at this time, it is very important for Sun Yao to come to vent.

In my cognition, there is a kind of human suffering, which is like a torture, even if you don't die, you have to torture half of your life.

This bitterness is called a breakup.

Actually, the first night is not a stay-up. Because I didn't realize that this time was really over. It will take a long time to find out. Oh, this time it's really a complete breakup. There will be no reconciliation again. The sadness of that moment is really nowhere to tell.

2. When I just broke up, I felt that there must be a chance to redeem it, and I found various channels to send her messages every day, put myself very low, and suddenly accidentally logged on to QQ, and found that she met a new big baby, and this night's heart is really like a knife cutting.

3. Wake up is to stay up, and the good morning in the past can't be sent.

4. It doesn't matter that day, the memories swept in, and later found that the things around him were related to everything and were connected, and then the ensuing emotions suddenly exploded, but there was only that sadness, and only that, and only that, and when I came to my senses, I still felt that it was a wise choice to separate.

5. Grief strikes in countless fragmented memories, and every moment of emotional backlash is the saddest.

Article**16, cold and violent breakups have to survive countless nights.

7. Be strong and stay up, delete all the communication methods, don't leave any traces, and after a while, it will slowly get better. Then one thing will be understood, without this person, I would be better off than before.

8. Some people cry and cry, and fall asleep when they are tired of crying. Some people break up for a year before they come out, don't feel that you can't forget it, this is a process that every normal person will have, time will ** you, and when you still remember but not so strong, you can calmly accept each other to leave. You don't have to forget completely, you just need to learn to accept that things backfire.

<> hello, a breakup is a very painful thing compared to a happy and sweet relationship. Especially on the first night after a breakup, you will feel the most pain. ......

If you want to survive the first night after the breakup, you can cope with three ways: getting together with friends, getting out of the house for a breakup, and feeling rational and soothing.

1. Getting together with friends and friends can effectively soothe the mood and resolve the pain of breaking up. After a breakup, you will feel lonely and lonely, and you need to be comforted. ......

When you get together with friends, you can get their care and help, and your mood will be released, which will effectively soothe your mood and resolve the painful feeling of breaking up. ......

In addition, getting together with friends can also divert attention and minimize the impact of the breakup, so that you can spend the first night after the breakup smoothly.

2. Going out of the house to relax can open your mind and let the first night of the breakup go smoothly. After the breakup, if you are stuck at home, your mood will feel more depressed, and you will feel more relieved and painful. ......

At this time, choosing to go out of the house to relax, you can broaden your mind and release your mood, so as to effectively resolve the painful feeling of breaking up and make your mood better. ......

When you get home, you can get a good night's sleep and spend the first night of your breakup.

3. Take measures to soothe your mood by disturbing reality with reason, so that the first night after the breakup can be spent calmly. If you want to completely alleviate the painful feeling after a breakup, the most important thing is to face it psychologically. ......

Therefore, after the breakup, you should face the reality rationally and make yourself able to correctly understand and face the fact of the breakup by adjusting your mood.

In this way, you can finally accept all this and completely get out of the knot, so that you are no longer affected by the breakup, and you can face the future again, so that you can spend the first night after the breakup calmly.

Hello, dear, <>

I'm asking a co-teacher Mango, and I'm glad to serve you. Now let me give you the relevant answers: kiss, it's normal to be particularly sad at night after a breakup; Because during the day, you don't have time to be sad and to suffer; What is on your mind is your work; So when you put your whole heart and soul into your work, then the pain of falling out of love is naturally nothing?

Because when it comes, there is nothing to do after the night, my heart will be quiet, and I will think about some sad times, you will definitely be very painful, I hope I can help you, this is the relevant answer I provide for you, I hope it can help you, I wish you a happy life and smooth work!!