Sad, unhappy to forget, 20

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    wo thinks: whether you can forget the previous sad things is not important, the key is to know what kind of lessons should be learned from your sad affairs, and then put into new things, over time, these things will slowly fade, even if there will be some faint pain, it doesn't matter, it will have some warning effect on you in the future, what kind of things can be encountered in a person's life, nothing is great, let everything go naturally, don't force yourself to remember or forget something, No matter what is sad or what is happy, everything is a precious experience!

    Remember!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is no need to deliberately forget, it is also an experience of life, and the more sad the past, the more it is accompanied by the joy of the past. Now that everything has passed, don't always remember those sad memories that you can wait until you can look at those things calmly, and then think back to the gains and losses, joys and sorrows at that time, so that you can grow

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Forget what you can forget.

    What you can't forget or don't want to forget should be a memory.

    Don't push too hard. It's up to you.

    Happy today and tomorrow. And not in the past.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Treat it correctly, adjust your mentality, and don't necessarily forget.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't do anything deliberately, time will explain everything

    If you can't forget it, remember it first, after all, it's useless to force yourself, isn't it?

    It will pass.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't forget, I guess you won't be able to.

    When a man dies, what proves his existence?

    It's all memories. Forgetting is a coward.

    Letting go is the real joy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't you want to forget, you need to continue to be sad.

    See you're not stupid.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when Shiye Li slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, Let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Life is constantly moving forward, so the past is just your past, people can't stay in the past forever, and you can stay in the memory of the past.

    Don't pay too much attention to the past, it's useless for you to care, it's already happening. You should try to do what you are doing well. That's all that matters.

    Remember to look ahead.

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