I m 17 years old and I realized that it s really hard to love someone

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello, everyone young people will have this kind of love experience to a greater or lesser extent, whether it is double love or unrequited love, but I will never agree with the above one who said that you are "unrequited", which is a very irresponsible statement.

    Believe in yourself, no matter what happens, there will be a time in the past, because what you asked today is not how to express it to the other party, so believe me, this is a very normal situation for you, this is also a very common phenomenon, don't worry too much.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is hard to find, fate will eventually be together, no fate is useless to think about it, and thinking too much will only increase your distress in vain. When I was seventeen years old, I liked to watch the TV series "Seventeen Don't Cry", I recommend you watch it too.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't worry, you're still very young, you shouldn't be so distressed, just change your energy now, you won't be miserable, find something more interesting to do.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Whether it's fate or not, it's best to say it. If you don't say, who can understand? If you don't regret it later, it won't work, and you can rest easy.

    If it's hard to say, it's good to write a letter. Or send a text message.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're only 17 years old now, you're still very young, you shouldn't be worried about love, because you're still young, it's not the time to fall in love, you should study hard, what do you say?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I, like a friend upstairs, didn't figure it out"Very beautiful"with"Very beautiful"The difference is in**.

    Two people can't just love each other, they can also be friends.

    If you want to think why don't she get in touch? You don't need to confess anything now, former classmates can become friends now, and the good youth of the seventeen-year-old should not be wasted"It's hard to love someone"Such a strange question

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    That's because you're in puberty! There will be many such things in the future! Bear with it!~

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She's not very pretty, but she's very beautiful.

    What does it look like? What's the difference between being pretty and being beautiful?!Based on my years of medical experience, your narcissism is severe! It is recommended that you come to my clinic for acceptance**, otherwise such a situation is dangerous!

    My ** is: 0738-2124158

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's talk about it when you get to college.

    That's what I'm like. I confessed after dreaming about it a few times.

    I don't know what it means to love someone.

    So I'll give it a try.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm 13 years old, haha! I didn't bother.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

    Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

    What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.

    There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

    For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

    Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I give you advice, do you think it's okay?

    If sincerity is a hurt, I choose to lie;

    If a lie is a disservice, I choose silence;

    If silence is a hurt, I choose to leave.

    If someone you love has given up on you, let go of yourself so that you have the opportunity to love others.

    There are some things that you like no matter how much they will not belong to you, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

    Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never have a good result, you don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well.

    If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay; If confusion is suffering, you will not choose to end; If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed? If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? A lot of things came to a later view, and a lot of things didn't feel bitter at all, but I couldn't find the way I came.

    There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but it cannot be said; There is a kind of love that I want to give up, but I can't give up; There is a kind of love, which I know is tormenting, but I can't open it; There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart has long been unable to get it back.

    Love is not difficult or annoying, but people themselves add pressure to themselves and seek trouble. Loving someone should be a very happy thing.

    We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party.

    And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, the happiness of the other party is your happiness, you should be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness!

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