What did we get married for?

The reason why I got married is that my mother nagged at home every day, especially when someone else got married during the Chinese New Year, and when she went home, she was going to find a girlfriend and get married early.

At first, because I was loved, I felt very happy, and I wanted to keep this happiness, but later, my family disagreed and strongly opposed it, and I was aroused to rebel, so I had to get married, and I ended the marriage like this. But to this day, I still cherish my relationship very much, because I chose the right marriage.

The increase in age is something that none of us can change, the older are unmarried, I feel that I will be ridiculed by others, and I am particularly sensitive to the topic of marriage when others, for fear of pulling it on my head, so I blindly find someone to marry.

When the age is up, it's time to find someone to marry, I don't believe in love or something, Tuyi is stable and simple. It's not for love to get married, but I just feel that when I get old and my family is urging, from marriage to the present, my husband buys vegetables, cooks and washes dishes, does housework, makes money for me to spend, especially listen to me, in fact, sometimes think about it, although there is no vigorous love, it is good to be able to stay together for a lifetime, and my heart will be very down-to-earth.

My husband and I were in a relationship for more than seven years before we got married, and it was because we had been together for too long, and the family was anxious, and it was time to get married, so we got married.

After two years of empty windows, I met my current husband, and the two of us were able to sleep together, and I felt relatively fresh at first, I was always lonely alone, and I didn't want to be alone. When it was time to almost break up, I had a baby and got married. I don't really want to get married and get married, people, I always like to be lively, and it's too lonely to be alone, isn't it.

I think it's time to get married when I'm old, and I feel like it's okay to talk about it, and it's time to get married, so I plan to get married myself, and I don't have the slightest impulse. Because my marriage was completed under the urging of relatives and friends, at that time I ended a seven-year long-distance relationship with my husband, and the two of them have been very accustomed to being together in a non-marital state, they are very independent people, they don't care so much about that piece of paper, and the marriage is more to reassure their parents, looking at the smiles on their faces, I seem to be a lot happier in my heart.

Because it is suitable, the so-called suitability is that two people live together and are very matched, and all conditions are more compatible, of course, the premise of suitability is that two people have similar personalities, and even have an emotional foundation, not a simple material match!

Of course, I got married because of love, and the rest of my life is so long, I don't want to settle, I just want to live with the person I love.

I am married because of marriage, although the woman is married, living in the marriage room, but giving people a kind of is not her home, as a long-term hotel for sleeping and resting, not as their own home, I feel like an outsider, tired, there is no regret medicine in the world, I have been telling myself to continue to live no matter how tired and bitter I am, because this is my own choice, I advise all friends who are not married, do not get married because of marriage, do not marry because of the completion of tasks, do not marry because of the order of parents, At least you have to find someone who is comfortable in your heart, will live with you sincerely, whether you look good or not is secondary, character and morality must be good, have a grateful heart, be reasonable, treat your relatives or strangers outside kindly and decently, have love and good reasoning in your heart, this person is right, whether poor or rich.

Because of love. It is trust, tolerance, care, all the time, and responsibility to each other. Love is the most intimate family affection. Love is a wonderful thing that can make two strangers become the most intimate and then walk hand in hand for a lifetime.

When I get older, my family is urging me hard.

Some people can't control their emotions when they get married, and the wedding has been properly prepared, but because they are very excited, they don't control their emotions, which ultimately affects the smooth progress of the wedding. Think about it from many angles. After all, everything will be blocked by the water, and you must adjust your mentality in time.

Love can be done by one's own nature, or it can be romantic, but in the face of marriage, we need to be a rational person.

So don't copy what you did when you were in love into your married life.

In marriage, you need to perfect each other's personalities.

If you want to better adapt to your new married life, you have to try to adjust yourself a little. Although it is said that you should not lose yourself in marriage, you must also remember that in marriage, you cannot be stubborn about yourself.

If you want to think about love and marriage, it is just an excess of the responsibility of one person to the responsibility of two people, that is to say, from now on, you have to serve each other more important responsibilities, and you can no longer be like the freewheeling attitude of falling in love before, you must understand that this is the person who wants to spend your life with you, so that you may not be so overwhelmed.

It's very different when you get married. All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one. Looking at the world, how can there be a perfect partner and a perfect marriage, some are just wise and foolish with one eye closed, calm and calm in the chest, and can choose to balance the common ground while reserving differences, so that the marriage seems to be quiet and unharmed for many years.

Don't marry for the sake of getting married, and take responsibility for yourself and your marital partner.

At any time, love should be the premise of marriage, don't enter marriage without love, otherwise when you meet love after getting married, you may be upset.

Some people will ask themselves or the people around them what they are getting married for, and why people choose to get married when they reach the prescribed age. In fact, I think that marriage has been passed down from date to time, and people will think that when they reach the age of marriage, they should find someone to marry, so that they will have a home, have their own family, and will not feel lonely. <>

But now the new generation of independent people are more and more, they don't think that marriage is something they must experience in their lives, they feel that they can take care of themselves alone, they will have a lot of things to do, they will not feel lonely and lonely, they will also feel that life is full of meaning, not to form a happy family is the fulfillment of life, have their own career, do meaningful things every day is also their own happiness, So they will no longer see marriage as something that must be done, and they will become unmarried. <>

In fact, I think marriage can bring happiness to people, the more people grow up, the more lonely they are, they will feel that they are alone in everything, and they will be lonely when they return home, but after marriage, there will be someone waiting for you at home, who will take care of you when you are sick, and he will be your strong backing, so that you know that there will be someone in this world who cares about you. <>

Marriage will also make you more mature and responsible, when it has always been yourself, you will be more free and casual, and you will not be able to think about things as comprehensively, but after marriage, your role will change, you know what to do not be so impulsive, you will be more stable, you will think twice about what you do, you will think about this family, and you will also consider your other half. I think many marriages are to be with the people they like for life, so they are justifiably together, it is full of legal significance, they are protected by the law, which can make their love more solid, so marriage can bring us more.

In order to find their own happiness, two people can take care of each other after marriage, and they can change each other's lives very well.

I feel like we get married to get married, have children, get by, and meet the needs of our parents.

We get married to find a partner for ourselves, to form a new family and to be able to make ourselves happy.

Why do we get married, is to continue love and happiness! Even if someone marries another person for money, power, and appearance, he or she still subconsciously wants to be happy.

02.Why do you want to get married, in addition to love, after marriage, you can have sex in a legal situation, pass on the ancestry, you can avoid illegitimate children, you can avoid the eyes of others, you can give your parents an explanation, in fact, the problem is as simple as that. Many times, the purpose of our marriage is set for us by others, and it is not what we really want.

The reason for marriage is only because marriage is a legal institution in social relations and gender relations, and most people can only follow this system in circles and follow the steps of those who are moving forward.

03.Not everyone's purpose of marriage can be achieved after marriage, and many people's purpose of marriage has long been varied after marriage, and if you still grasp this purpose, then the tragedy will begin. Love is maintained by two hearts that love each other, and marriage is just a system and has nothing to do with love.

And love is a process that can be envied at any time to end or continue forever, marriage is not necessarily, love, may not be able to enter marriage, love disappears, collapse may not be the end of marriage. As for true love, it has nothing to do with love, not marriage, and as for holding ceremonies, it is to hope to be accepted, recognized, and blessed by others.

Marriage is a socially prescribed form of union between a man and a woman, usually prescribed by law. The reasons why people get married are also varied. For many people, marriage is a way to express love and commitment.

For others, marriage may be to start a family, or for economic or social reasons. Marriage may also be for inheritance or to provide financial security. Different cultures and societies also have different marriage traditions and customs.

For many people, getting married is one of the most important milestones in their lives to spend the rest of their lives with their loved ones. Marriage can also bring economic security and social status to the sailers. At the same time, getting married can also bring some sorrows and challenges.

Marriage requires the efforts of both parties to maintain harmony, and sometimes there may be many tricky issues that need to be resolved. Also, the hail of expectations and pressures in a marriage can be exhausting. Therefore, marriage is a relationship that requires both parties to work together, and there may be joys and sorrows.

Marriage is a matter for two people, and you must think about it clearly to be able to live a better life, so there are more things to consider before getting married, you can take a look at the following opinions?

1. How to distribute property before marriage, many couples will have disputes because of property issues, if both husband and wife have a family leakage and rough court business, then the prenuptial agreement must be detailed before marriage to explain the distribution of property to avoid disputes in the later stage.

2. The character of both parties.

The most important thing for two people together is to be able to run in, if they can tolerate and understand each other, then they can live, the man must have enough sense of responsibility to take on the whole family, and the woman must be tolerant and understanding, and two people can manage the marriage together, in order to harvest a happy life.

3. There are a lot of places that need to spend money after marriage, so you need to determine the consumption concept of both parties before marriage, if the consumption concept of two people is different, it is easy to quarrel because of funds in the later stage.

4. Before getting married, you must do a premarital examination to determine whether the other party has a physical disease, if the other party has a hereditary disease, it will definitely affect the next generation, so you must think about it before getting married.

5. Whether a man has true love for you, whether he has fun or really wants to live with you for the rest of his life, you can see from the man's usual details and attitude towards you, whether he can tolerate you and tolerate you, if he is not sincere, don't get married.

There is no reason to say that we must get married, and the premise of marriage must be that you can live a happy circle, but if marriage reduces your quality of life, or adds a lot of discomfort to yourself, this marriage should consider whether it is okay to get married.

Because two people truly love and like each other, and want to spend their lives with each other hand in hand, they will get married.

I think if the two of you are happy, then you can get married.

Because it's a tradition of ours, when you're thirty, you should want to get married. If you are young, it is advisable to work hard and earn more money.

Fate allows us to meet each other.

Each person will know about 27,000 people in their lifetime, some of them have become our friends, some have become our lovers, some have become our relatives, and many more are passers-by who have passed you quietly and you can't even see his face. The cause of the past life, the fruit of this life. There is fate, even if you are thousands of miles apart, you can meet; There is no fate, even if people are opposite, they can't meet.

The writer Bai Luomei once wrote a sentence with rich meaning: "I have criticized fate, so I have the destined fruit of this life." "In fact, everyone's fate is destined, and everyone you meet is the person you are destined to meet.

Who you marry is actually predestined, so we don't have to look for it anymore, we just need to wait seriously, and one day someone will love you more than ourselves. "Love, in fact, is an extension of self-will", this sentence touched me deeply. Countless poets and writers have praised the greatness of love, but what this sentence tells us is that love is not so great, it just stems from a need of you, your need to realize your own will.

Each of us comes to this world with our own ideas and pursuits, but due to strength, vision, opportunities and other reasons, not all of us can realize our own pursuits. Then, when we choose our other half, we tend to look for someone who can help us realize our own pursuits and wills. In this way, in fact, there is a force in the dark that pushes us to find the other half that suits us.