Why do you need to speak well, and how important is it to speak well?

Talking well is not to stuff the other party into the corner, the other party is said to be incomplete, that is not called to speak well, to speak well is that both parties are satisfied, are comfortable, there is a saying in the past Jianghu, called Vientiane to spring, you put everyone happy, this thing is easy to do, I tell you from the heart, communication is 70% emotion, 30% is content, this thing is very difficult to do, but I said, you are very happy.

What you say is what kind of person you are. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke sent a message, speaking to expose human nature.

Speaking well can not only leave a good impression on others, but also bring good luck to ourselves, so we must be good at talking, don't swear, don't say angry words, don't hurt people casually, otherwise we will drive away our good luck! People who are good at talking have a happy life, because they understand the importance of being good at talking, so their lives are happy! We must learn the importance and necessity of speaking well, only in this way can our lives become better and better, our lives will be happier, and our lives will be better and better!

Good speech is the least respect between people, and it is also the most basic politeness between people, so we must be good at talking, don't hurt people casually, don't say angry words! Good speech is a knowledge, a skill, an art, and a wisdom, so we must be good at talking, don't swear casually, don't say angry words, don't say hurtful things! It's really important to be good at talking, so let's be good at talking!

Not necessarily, it is generally one-way. It is not excluded that there will be a two-way one.

If you are very comfortable and relaxed with this person, it means that she (his) is of a very high rank, or you can both speak well, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and experience similar things, so you can achieve empathy and physical drying. Even if you haven't experienced the same thing, you can be patient and listen to what others have to say, and you can get along very comfortably.

In fact, if two people can talk well and be emotionally stable, no matter who they get along with, they can get along quite comfortably. I never thought it was important to speak well, until after work, I found that some people really can't speak, can't express their demands clearly, there are many ways to communicate, but I have to choose the most hurtful one.

1.For example, he speaks very fiercely, yelling because others can't meet his expectations, his emotions are very uncertain, but he never stops to patiently listen to the deep voice of others, he doesn't know how to respect other people's decisions and inner feelings, he feels that only he is right and others are wrong, and even feels that others don't understand anything, endless accusations, strong to the extreme, never patiently listened to other people's demands and ideas, and must be obedient to her (him) before he is willing to give up and answer. In the end, it is possible that the weaker side will compromise and choose to tolerate on the surface, once it is okay, and how many people can do it after many times of obedience and forbearance, and in the end the problem is not solved, but both sides are injured and know the fine.

The strong side thinks why don't you do what I say, and the weak side thinks why you should suppress and suppress me everywhere, and ask me to bow my head every time, and after a long time, it will definitely break out. It's a really depressing way to get along, and it's painful.

2.Speaking yin and yang, what can be said positively but has to be said in reverse, each taking the air imitation to suppress, denying, touching high and low, making people very unhappy, and finally leaving pimples in each other's hearts, they all feel very tired and painful to get along. (Why can't you understand what I mean if you deny others, and why do you want to deny and suppress me, am I so bad?)

You must know that the relationship between people is actually very fragile, and if you are not careful, you may never intersect again.

3.Don't say it but keep a small book in your heart, refuse to communicate and refuse to solve the stability, others don't say it, just stubbornly think that you don't understand me, you just don't understand me, (mmp, no one is the hungry roundworm in your stomach, you don't say who knows what you think in your heart) In the end, both of them are very hurt, one wants to communicate, the other refuses to communicate, and they both feel very painful to get along with each other).

In fact, the first 3 points are very easy to solve, if both sides can stand in each other's perspective to think about the problem, respect each other and understand each other, and then change the way of speaking, speak well, take a step back, and tolerate the advantages and disadvantages of both sides, so who will get along with uncomfortable.

It's very important to talk about a person's upbringing, and if you're polite, people are more likely to be friends with you.