How do you feel when an older leftover girl gets married?

I got married at the age of 30. The days of being single in older age are basically very anxious and abundant. Rich in my commuting on time, regular business trips, no overtime after work, housework with parents, so fitness, swimming, photography, nightclubs, etc.

Anxiety in chronic insomnia. When I finally waited for love and got married, I was still very anxious about basic anxiety. The anxiety lies in my husband's excellent but inconsiderate husband, who wants me to be independent in everything, independent in action, and independent in finance.

It is abundant in two people not alone and N housework. In the past, when I went out to collect the wind, I was just collecting the wind, but now I am taking a family outing and collecting the wind by the way. There is almost no growth in photography.

I think the nightclub is a good place, but there is no objective reason to go at present, such as pregnancy, lack of people, but passing by the nightclub is still very itchy. It is basically impossible to go to a nightclub after marriage. Instead, laundry, cooking, and housekeeping are done at night.

Fitness, swimming, mountaineering and other physical fitness activities, the same, pregnant, too much housework, no energy at all. The work has also become completely in-house, not to mention business trips, I feel tired when I go out on official business.

I got married at an older age, so I feel the same way in the face of this problem. First of all, when you are old and not married, both men and women will definitely be anxious, and your parents will only complain more about yourself, and the people around you will look down on you. Secondly, repeated blind dates and meetings, many people are passers-by in their own lives, and there will be fewer and fewer suitable objects.

In the end, countless blind date failures will seriously hit your self-confidence, and there is a feeling of breaking the jar. In short, when you are old and do not get married, you will feel very lost and helpless. When I got married, I always felt like I had just completed my task.

Falling in love at the age of 26, getting married at the age of 27, I don't know if it's an older leftover girl, anyway, when I didn't have a boyfriend at the age of 25, my friends and family gave me more blind dates than the men I knew in four years of college, and the sense of urgency about marriage brought by my relatives made me feel that I was completely an older leftover girl. After getting married, my husband is very good, and I feel very happy and stable. On the side of relatives, I really feel relieved, because the impatience and self-doubt brought about by that blind date are really crazy and devastating.

However, less than a year after marriage, they began to give birth to children again, which was as devastating as urging marriage. I have to say that the worry and love of relatives is really unbearable.

For me personally, getting married is not as I thought, and the prince and princess have lived happily ever after, but for myself, because there is too much time left, it is very difficult for me to adapt to the state of marriage after marriage.

I feel that I have finally gotten married, and my family will no longer urge me to get married, and I am grateful that I am married to love.

Before I got married, I felt a little flustered. Mainly due to the pressure from the outside world, such as their parents, as well as colleagues around them, and friends who are not very familiar with each other, will they think that there is something wrong with this person, what is the disease or glass? And so on can lead to panic.

Now that I'm married, I'm finally relieved.

I'm 29 years old this year, but I don't think it's okay not to get married at all, because there are still a lot of things to do, and I haven't met the right person, and my mentality is quite right.

When you get married at a young age, your parents cry a lot, and when you get married when you are older, you almost laugh.

I got married at the age of 30, the first and last term, and so did my husband, pure feelings, no matter how long I was in a different place, there was no suspicion, everything was simple, but the business failed and had a little foreign debt, and if I got pregnant this year, it should be fine