Why are some older leftover women prone to flash marriage?

I'm getting older, I'm getting old when I talk about love....So while both parties still feel good, they will get married, and the longer they talk, the more likely they are to break up.

Because I am an older woman, I missed it, I am afraid that I will not have a chance, and I am also decompressing myself, and the pressure on older women is very great, but if I don't want to talk about it, it will form a flash marriage.

The older ones are forced by the pressure of the family. Picky, pick and choose to pick yourself off, and finally finally met a suitable one, so I simply got married.

Probably because the leftover girl is older, she is probably annoyed by all parties in the family, so she will marry herself off as soon as she meets the right person.

is already old and single, and it proves that the age is not too young, and most of the people and things I have been in contact with have also experienced it. When you meet someone, you can't say how much love you have, basically the basic elements of both parties are suitable.

I think it's mainly because of family factors and the pressure caused by my parents' repeated forced marriage, so I quickly found someone to marry.

Age is an insurmountable hurdle, it's already an old age, and if you talk about it for a few more years, won't you get older and bigger, and then if you break up again, you probably won't have much hope....

A woman's age is also related to the issue of having children, the older she is, the lower the chance of having a child, as a woman, especially an older woman, it is estimated that most of them still want a child of their own....

People who are not married must not get married, how tired they are more than themselves, and it has little to do with whether they have money or not, because now people are not tolerant, so husbands and wives will quarrel, most of them will divorce, and the rest are thinking about divorce, and spend money to solve physiological problems! It's better not to have children, the world is already tired, don't let the next generation continue to suffer.

I happened to go to the wedding of relatives and friends, and I was infected by that momentary happy atmosphere, and suddenly I wanted to find someone to marry, or I happened to encounter a major spiritual blow in my life, and I wanted to find someone to rely on as soon as possible.

Knowing that his few beautiful youths are passing away rapidly, once a woman is over forty, a normal man will definitely have a little rejection and disgust in his heart, so hurry up and marry himself.

Flash marriage is lucky. If you are lucky, you will still be happy for a lifetime. If you're unlucky, you'll be out of the waist if you're wrong.

It's already an older age, and it's because it's too much tangled before, but it can't be done, and it's easy to become if it's not entangled, and it's better to get divorced than to fall out of love at an older age, at least it's better to say.

Because it is not safe to have children when you are older, you will get married when you meet someone who is suitable for life, and it has nothing to do with love.

First flash marriage and then flash divorce, from blind date to get the certificate is less than three months or even shorter, the character shortcomings of both men and women who live together after marriage will erupt, and it is best to tolerate each other! Otherwise, if you don't agree with each other, there are too many such cases, and how many older leftover girls who get married in a flash can start and finish well?

Love is a kind of mistake in the heart, which is equivalent to painting cakes to satisfy hunger, it is better to feel good, get married directly, and fall in love for a long time!

It is easy to get married at a young age, and it is not easy to get married as you get older, and the marriage of older women decreases with age.

Life is a passing scene, it's over after the season, it's over, don't be a real woman, raise a baby, live in vain, there are three unfilial pieties, no queen is great, I'm sorry for my parents, I'm sorry for my ancestors, I'm sorry for the word woman,

When I was young, my parents were not allowed to contact boys, and it was difficult to love after falling out of love, and when I was older, I felt that I was with whom I was for a lifetime, and I got married as soon as I closed my eyes, and I found that there were some things that I didn't want to do for a lifetime, otherwise what is the point of living.

In order to harm others, I am older, I will find someone to marry, and my true face after marriage is **, so the divorce rate is so high now.

On the one hand, it is time to get married when the age comes, and on the other hand, the mind is mature and sees the problem more clearly.

To put it bluntly, I don't dare to talk about it when I'm older, and it's easy to break up after a long time, so I can get married quickly.

I'm afraid that I will see through each other and I don't want to get married.

Talk about getting married for half a year, having a child for half a year, and then take the child to the age of two, and look at how middle-aged you are.

I want to have a baby while I can still have it.

In order not to let the other party find out that you have a lot of problems, you can only endure it if you regret it too late when you get married.

They still adhere to the idea that they would rather lack than excite, since it is already like this, it is still like this, the key is not to harm others and themselves.

I didn't meet anyone I liked; I am willing to choose a city for the sake of her I love, and meet a white head!

Panic! What are you panicking about? Women are only popular when they are fifty years old, so naturally there is Prince Charming to marry, why are they in a hurry to marry themselves?

finally ran into a big wrongdoer, afraid that the other party would run away.

1. The concept of marriage has changed.

In the traditional concept, marriage is a matter of two families, and after two people start dating, the two families also begin to intervene, regardless of whether they have gone through engagement, marriage and other ceremonies, in terms of concept, this is a matter of two families.

But now it's completely different, young people are freer, and they are less constrained about marriage. The girls pursue independence financially and spiritually, and marriage really becomes a matter for two people.

2. Marry your son.

This reason is also a more common reason for flash marriages. Because the concept is relatively open, there are many couples who will live together soon after falling in love, or even become pregnant. Generally, when it comes to pregnancy, in order to take care of face, the family will urge the two to get married quickly.

3. Emotional development is relatively fast.

For some people, it is love at first sight and there is a way to communicate, so it is not surprising that there is a flash marriage. Nowadays, transportation and communication are relatively developed, and there is more communication between each other, and the mutual understanding is also fast, and the development of feelings is relatively rapid. This greatly shortens the cycle from love to marriage, and creates certain external conditions for flash marriage.

In the past, when people fell in love or went on a blind date, transportation and communication were inconvenient, communication was less, and feelings warmed up slowly. But it's completely different now, so it's not surprising that flash marriages are common.

4. Anxiety of old age and family urging.

The reason for this flash marriage should be the most common. For some older and unmarried men and women, watching the people around them get married one by one, and they are still single, they are more anxious. Coupled with the urging of family members, they often have a more anxious attitude towards marriage.

At this time, Wang Sui, once he meets the right person, will go straight to get married, and in the group of flash marriages, older young people do account for a relatively large part of the uproar. Some girls are old and often talked about by their families, and they can't bear the pressure, so they just get married on a blind date as soon as possible.

It is not so easy for two people to run a marriage together, it does not mean that they can be happy if they can get married, parents should not be too involved in the marriage of their children, they cannot urge their children to get married because they are of age, and they can be entrusted with lifelong good, do not urge them to get married.

Now many young people have reached the age of marriage and have not yet had a partner, at this time they can go on a blind date to contact the opposite sex, understand more, communicate more, communicate more, and only when they understand that love can they get married.

1. Do your homework beforehand.

What does it mean to do your homework beforehand? This has to come from different people, for a very simple example, the person you are dealing with is a Chinese teacher, she usually likes to read, so you can prepare some topics in advance that you can talk to her.

If she is in another industry, you can also switch accordingly in this regard.

In short, before meeting, try to understand the other party's interests and hobbies, if there is no way to find out about these, you can also ask the other party's occupation, and you can do your homework in advance if you know the occupation.

To give a very simple example, Xiao Wang once found a partner in his life through a blind date, and his approach was very simple, he did his homework in advance and looked up related topics.

The girl was a salesman, so on the first day of the meeting, he looked up various topics related to sales, such as sales skills, sales problems, and so on.

After meeting on the second day, they chatted very happily, he symbolically asked each other about their work, and then talked about his own suggestions, first chatted for a while in terms of sales skills, and then talked about all kinds of difficulties in sales, and showed all kinds of empathy, at that time he found that girls have a particularly good attitude towards him.

The girl felt that this man was really very understanding, and knew that it was not easy, so they became more and more common topics, and later they also left contact information before leaving, and decided to stay together for a long time.

The problems with flash marriages are:

Low social recognition: Some societies still have negative evaluations of the marriage of Shandan chair ants and do not accept it.

Insufficient pre-marriage preparation: Because of the rapid speed of flash marriage, it is difficult to complete many preparations.

Marriage relationship establishment too quickly: Flash marriage means marriage relationship established too quickly, and many couples find that they cannot adapt quickly after marriage.

Family financial pressure: Because flash marriage is very fast, the family financial pressure is also very high.

There is no fixed time standard for how long it is best to get married. The longer the relationship, the more the couple gets to know each other and the more likely they are to maintain a long-lasting marital relationship. Generally speaking, it is more appropriate to date for about 1 year, but it is not excluded to get married early.

The final decision depends on the relationship, perception, role and other factors between the husband and wife. Mold buried.

This problem still needs to be divided into two parts, one part is of course because I don't want to be a leftover girl, and the other part is also because of love.

Now there are many people who choose flash marriage, and some people have been in love for a long time before flash marriage, but the final outcome is to break up, so this part of the people seems to be afraid of slowly managing love before marriage. What are they afraid of, they are afraid of another reincarnation, and another year of operation, in exchange for a sentence, I'm sorry, we are not suitable. Those girls who have been hurt by love are difficult to fall in love again.

Because of the fear of being hurt again.

So after a long time, she became a leftover girl in everyone's mouth, unwilling to accept blind dates again and again, unwilling to spend a long time managing love before marriage, so she chose to compromise and chose flash marriage.

There is also a part of it because of love, and this part of the girl believes in love at first sight, and when she meets each other at first sight, she feels that he is the right person and the person she is destined for. They think that love can be cultivated after marriage, and if they spend time cultivating love before marriage, maybe life will be a lot less fun. So I chose a flash marriage.

Different people have different ideas about marriage. People who think that marriage is a lifetime and those who think that divorce is not a big deal, no matter how they get married, the divorce rate will be high, and their divorce will be bad in our eyes; People who think divorce is not a big deal and those who think divorce is not a big deal have the highest divorce rate regardless of how they get married; People who think that marriage is a lifetime and people who think that marriage is a lifetime are together, and the divorce rate is very low.

We may think that the third life above is not happy, but most of the people you envy who are seventy or eighty years old people supporting them for a walk are like this, they can quarrel, but after the quarrel is still as cordial as their first love.

Think about your view of love and marriage, and then find a partner and get married after it is clear.

The reason why a woman gets married in a flash is mainly in two situations, first, she may be because she loves the man too much and is afraid that the man will leave, so she says that she wants to get married quickly, and then slowly fall in love after marriage, and the second situation is that he has reached the age of marriage, and he doesn't want to fall in love again, so tired, he wants to find someone to get married quickly, and then talk slowly in the future.

The reason why women will get married in a flash must be because of love, and now women are not afraid to become leftover women, once they meet real feelings, they have the courage to get married.

I think most of it is because of love. Many girls are actually very emotional, and it is easier to lose their minds when they fall in love, thinking that they can make themselves desperate if they have love.

The reason why they get married in a flash is because they don't want to be leftover girls, because when girls are too old, it will be more difficult to find a other half, so they will find someone with the right conditions to be together.

is that she doesn't want to be a leftover woman, so women will have anxiety at a certain age, and they will often be crushed by reality and strayed into marriage.

It is because of love, because the impulsive mind of love makes women choose flash marriage, so there are some women who are very emotional and responsible for their feelings.